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Now, there's so fukin much I can type here..but the idea and gist of it is to ask anyone willing to respond and give there two cents in any ways. Im a 34yo latino bear currently crazy and possibly trying to break away from a 24yo irish twink..who's one of my managers at my job I work at. So my question is..what has been your experience dating an irish guy? Now, he's a smart man and I am too, and we both know not to shit where we eat. things is..there is actual genuine chemistry and vibe between us, as much as we both have fought it and try to not care and push away.
The funny thing is, he's str8 acting and masculine..nerdy and goofy, sarcastic and funny too. Im the same and we're both laidback. I figured he was a pussy lover. Thing is, my intuition and sense never failed me..and from early, i picked up signs he was into me..yet kept it at bay and denied it like wow. I found him cute before, yet the feelings kept going and are now deep..as are his..and thats cuz we havent hung out yet to just smoke weed or talk!! I do bake him his fav cookies here n there, and leave him food to eat..and we're starting to have each others backs.
Also, with this not being my first rodeo, I know red flags when I see them. It just helps to get more perspectives and thoughts and feelings from others. Mind you, I'm openly gay and he is downlow bi. I know he had two LTR's like me(both girls), but currently single like me, and even told me he isnt lookin for pussy and no time to date. I consider him the better lookin between us two, yet he's more insecure from not working on his past probs. I can tell he avoids more..part of why he hasn't outright tell me he likes me.
I can give more and more things, so for now..I can give an small example. The first time he showed his jealousy, I was fully shook. One night during work, former cooks from another job asked for me around closing time, so i went to shoot the shit and talk/laugh like wow for a good half hour as things were dead. All straight guys have been cool with me so they continue to be frisky. I noticed manager buzzing around, and fiured it was cuz he wanted to close quick on a sat night.
I ignored him while we walked around like wow and kept talking, touching, etc. After I said bye, i went back in kitchen, other line cook said he had to use number 2, so I was alone on line with food. As soon as other cook left, he sped walked to me, with arms crossed, a fake smile and like right in my face and asked me who those guys were and how do I know them?
In the name of all things that are good, I almost went volcano style on his ass, as i HATE to be questioned bout my personal things, especially when im single and the way he did so. Then i realized he was jelly, and made me melt. so I calmly gave just enough info of who they were. and then he 180 the subject once he realized who they were.
so yea, that was the first time, and last saturday, was the 6th time he did that. Or more, hawk and stalk me when i meet a a guy/girl out there that is either family or former coworkers. fucking a..i could keep going but i babbled too much. im trying to break it away, and can tell he is too, yet..like a force, we snap back together and it feels like it's getting deeper and deeper.
soooooooo...yea...my apologies...just...whats been your case for dating an irish guy?? and for the love of good, please let me have it, any and all thoughts are welcome, truly
The funny thing is, he's str8 acting and masculine..nerdy and goofy, sarcastic and funny too. Im the same and we're both laidback. I figured he was a pussy lover. Thing is, my intuition and sense never failed me..and from early, i picked up signs he was into me..yet kept it at bay and denied it like wow. I found him cute before, yet the feelings kept going and are now deep..as are his..and thats cuz we havent hung out yet to just smoke weed or talk!! I do bake him his fav cookies here n there, and leave him food to eat..and we're starting to have each others backs.
Also, with this not being my first rodeo, I know red flags when I see them. It just helps to get more perspectives and thoughts and feelings from others. Mind you, I'm openly gay and he is downlow bi. I know he had two LTR's like me(both girls), but currently single like me, and even told me he isnt lookin for pussy and no time to date. I consider him the better lookin between us two, yet he's more insecure from not working on his past probs. I can tell he avoids more..part of why he hasn't outright tell me he likes me.
I can give more and more things, so for now..I can give an small example. The first time he showed his jealousy, I was fully shook. One night during work, former cooks from another job asked for me around closing time, so i went to shoot the shit and talk/laugh like wow for a good half hour as things were dead. All straight guys have been cool with me so they continue to be frisky. I noticed manager buzzing around, and fiured it was cuz he wanted to close quick on a sat night.
I ignored him while we walked around like wow and kept talking, touching, etc. After I said bye, i went back in kitchen, other line cook said he had to use number 2, so I was alone on line with food. As soon as other cook left, he sped walked to me, with arms crossed, a fake smile and like right in my face and asked me who those guys were and how do I know them?
In the name of all things that are good, I almost went volcano style on his ass, as i HATE to be questioned bout my personal things, especially when im single and the way he did so. Then i realized he was jelly, and made me melt. so I calmly gave just enough info of who they were. and then he 180 the subject once he realized who they were.
so yea, that was the first time, and last saturday, was the 6th time he did that. Or more, hawk and stalk me when i meet a a guy/girl out there that is either family or former coworkers. fucking a..i could keep going but i babbled too much. im trying to break it away, and can tell he is too, yet..like a force, we snap back together and it feels like it's getting deeper and deeper.
soooooooo...yea...my apologies...just...whats been your case for dating an irish guy?? and for the love of good, please let me have it, any and all thoughts are welcome, truly