I wanted to see how many big guys have experienced not being able to give their wife or gf friend an orgasm from just penetration alone? I'm an avg 6" guy a good thickness who has tried with several woman and felt I was unsuccessful giving them an O. My current girlfriend no matter what position cannot get one, for the exception of her being on top and griding her clit into my pubic bone. Makes one feel like less a man. I was going to ask her if she had orgasms at all from other men she dated that were bigger then me from penetration only.
Any guy over 7" not able to give a woman an O?
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Sure. Some women can't orgasm from penetration, or seemingly at all.
At around 8-8.5 inch length and 5.25-5.5 girth, I made most of the 20ish women I fucked cum. Probably 15ish of them by fucking, and there were a few who enjoyed fucking but couldn't cum that way, so I only made them cum with fingers or tongue. One girl - who, ironically, had a really high sex drive and would fuck any time I asked - claimed to have never had an orgasm in her life. Solo or with a partner. And I believe her. She enjoyed basically everything we did, but she kind of revved up to a certain point and then never felt that rush of pleasure spill over. There were also a few one-night stands in there, and I barely ever made a one-night stand cum.
At around 8-8.5 inch length and 5.25-5.5 girth, I made most of the 20ish women I fucked cum. Probably 15ish of them by fucking, and there were a few who enjoyed fucking but couldn't cum that way, so I only made them cum with fingers or tongue. One girl - who, ironically, had a really high sex drive and would fuck any time I asked - claimed to have never had an orgasm in her life. Solo or with a partner. And I believe her. She enjoyed basically everything we did, but she kind of revved up to a certain point and then never felt that rush of pleasure spill over. There were also a few one-night stands in there, and I barely ever made a one-night stand cum.
O at female is not only phisical, is philological too. Even though a gay can have 4 inch dick if he is emotionally conected with her female and she love the way he talk, how he look, the body shape, the aroma of sweet ect than she can experience multi orgasm.
A guy should ask the woman what she like or dislike at his body, for example many womens do not like hairy body, there are others who like to play with male's hair.
That create a physiological attraction with translate with orgasm.
If she has pain during penetrations or can not has orgasm, it mean she do not like that man in any mean.
A guy should ask the woman what she like or dislike at his body, for example many womens do not like hairy body, there are others who like to play with male's hair.
That create a physiological attraction with translate with orgasm.
If she has pain during penetrations or can not has orgasm, it mean she do not like that man in any mean.
Agreed, I always assumed lack of connection and lack of feeling "safe" was why girls who I barely knew (one night stands) wouldn't usually orgasm. Most orgasms were either girlfriends or friends with benefits who I knew well.
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Wife usually liked my tongue-always had to go super slow with my cock. She never thought bigger was better-especially my oversized head. Somewhat frustrating-but I don’t want to be smaller lol. She got off/orgasmed with my tongue easily…
Because she loves you very much.
My ex girlfriend went to orgasem only with my finger.
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Not all women can orgasm from vaginal sex, no matter the size and shape of the penis involved. I believe a study showed that only about 20% of women experience orgasms from penis-in-vagina sex, and that happens to line up with my own personal experiences. Only 2 out of the 10 women I have fucked had vaginal orgasms. The other 8 never did, with any man of any size.
I had a long term girlfriend who could only have orgasms by very specific oral techniques on her clitorus, which she quickly taught me and I very quickly mastered. She could 'cum' from finger manipulation, but her only true, full body, body shaking orgasms happened via her clit being licked.
The two women who could have vaginal orgasms it just came to them naturally and both even had orgasms the very first time we were together. That was a pleasant surprise for me as previous girlfriends required oral or manual stimulation to cum.
Whether you are in a purely sexual, or romantic and sexual relationship, it is the responsibility of both parties to express what turns them on, what works, what doesn't and to work together to ensure you are both having the most sexxulally satidfying experience with each other that you can.
None of the women I've been with made me feel any less of a man if they didn't have vaginal orgasms, because we both ensured that they always had orgasms, by whatever was the best method for them. That's what being in a relationship is about!
Fuck her as though you have the best cock in the world. It might take some time, but go into it with that mindset. My partners have enjoyed sex with me, and while I think my size is mostly irrelevant (in terms of their pleasure), I believe my mindset of having a good cock and being focused on the fun of it (for both of us) has some impact.
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Yes, as it clearly states in my signature and on my profile page!
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You have already heard some great advice and thoughts, so I'll try to cover some other considerations.
You need to consider that one of the more successful and popular women's simulators is much much less than your 6 inches.
That's not to say that women can't have an orgasm from thick, deep penetration. But in my estimation that goes more to the mental side of female arousal than purely physical.
Many women find deep penetration uncomfortable enough that they cannot mentally engage in the sexual act. Though someone on the larger side may still find them a willing partner for that penetration, it often takes them some time to physically warm up and mentally consider the implications. I had one woman tell me that she was exceedingly stimulated mentally when I only penetrated her with the portion of my cock. Her eyes saw what I still had in "reserve", and her thought was, if it feels this good now, how will it feel when he's balls deep. She could orgasm not just from the physical stimulation along that most sensitive area, but from the mental image of being opened up from deeper penetration. I think that is what truly drives the orgasms for the women with a size preference, it's primarily from the mental image they conjure up.
I don't know how many others of you sort of "warm up" your partners the way I do, but it's truly a great feeling when she's extremely aroused, then you slide that next inch deeper. You usually get some verbal acknowledgement of pleasure, if she's able to keep her eyes open you might see surprise or some fluttering, in my wife's case I always get an extra squirt of wetness that tells me that she's enjoying it.
So take it from me, bigger, deeper, isn't a cure all. If you have 6 inches, you have more than enough to satisfy almost any woman. It comes down to technique as well as mental and physical stimulation. Going balls deep doggy style (especially too soon) and unmercifully pounding her cervix is only going to arouse the truly twisted ones.
