Any guys prefer "foreplay" type sex rather than penetration?

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Things like bjs, handjob, rubbing, mutual masturbation and the like. The consensus is always that PIV sex is the best but I have always disagreed with that sentiment. Not to say it's bad or anything, but it's not my first preference honestly. I usually cum harder from other types of stimulation
 
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Not "rather than" but in addition to (in other words leading up to). I love penetration but the best part of sex is foreplay. Usually. Given time. Depending on the individual and circumstances like place, time and what a partner and I want.

I became a practitioner of tantric sex in my youth. It started out as foreplay massage, morphed to erotic massage and again to tantra when an older woman (yoga teacher/massage therapist) taught me how. I read every tantric sex manual I could get my hands on.

Strictly speaking tantra is sex without orgasm--a deep meditation experience. The yoga of sex.

It may also involve penetration and movement without orgasm. It's like one massive full body edging experience while meditating. It is a deeply intimate experience.

That said I have no problem with quickies and just fucking brains out. That's down to communication between partners as is all good sex. I should add that the vast majority of tantric experiences I've had include orgasm--often multiples.
 

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While eating pussy is one of my favorite aspects of sex…. I crave it and enjoy giving a woman pleasure orally….. I don’t think anything is better than penetration. It’s all about the feeling AND seeing the other person under or above you. That connection is unreal
 
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I’ve always preferred foreplay over penetration as I have always had a bit of an issue with premature ejaculation, coupled with a very long recovery period. So I’ve had to get good at foreplay to make up for the 15-30 seconds of sex I have been known to provide