Any guys relax nude with each other?

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My buddies and I go camping together at least once or twice a year. My friends are motorcycle fanatics and they plan camping trips. I'm one of two who don't have a motor bike. I drive and bring the beer and heavy stuff that doesn't fit ont the back of bikes. One thing I've noticed is that avid bikers know where all the natural hot springs are here in California. I guess after rider the mountains for several hours (sometimes in the cold Sierras) you want to relax in a hot tub. Seems like all the bikers in the state know where all the hot springs are. So when we plan weekends away from the wives and GF's, we usually end up meeting somewhere near one of the springs and end up relaxing nude in them. It's also not unusual to find other people, both men and women bikers doing the same.

My friends and I have no problem hanging out naked together. Nothing sexual happens. Just friends "hanging" out naked, usually with a can of Bud or Jack Daniel in hand.

No big whoop as they say!
 

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bigmuscles_averagecock said:
I hang around the dorm with other guys in our boxers often, but naked in that situation would be seen as just plain gay.

oh boy...Here we go.....

So what makes this "Gay"?

SO guys in a sauna are all gay?
What about nudist camps? Theyre all gay too?
What about massage parlers? Gay too?
What about locker rooms? They must all be gay, of course!

What is your definition of "Gay", chief?
 

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One of the fringe benefits of working out at the Y is enjoying the wet area after the exersizing! A few wrap a towel around their waists, but most of us strip and enjoy sauna, steam, whirl pool and showers naked. From time to time there'll be a new dick we're not familiar with, but generally we know what the other guy has swinging and some even when erected. There's something to be said for camaraderie!
 

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Rikter8 said:
oh boy...Here we go.....

So what makes this "Gay"?

SO guys in a sauna are all gay?
What about nudist camps? Theyre all gay too?
What about massage parlers? Gay too?
What about locker rooms? They must all be gay, of course!

What is your definition of "Gay", chief?

I'm not getting into this man. You know what I mean. If you don't, take it up with someone else.
 

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Men being men naked together does not have to be sexual. After a wrestling match we would shower and sing and slap ass and flop all around. Music would be playing and we would be laughing and/or consoling each other.
This was in both college and back in high school. We were all very relaxed and it felt natural and safe to be naked and to talk with eachother as men. I miss it sometimes so I go to the gym with my older brother and my friends. TO this day we still skinny dip and horse around. Like the other muscle dude said "We never really grow up"
Jake
 

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Being comfortable around a bunch of other naked guys isn't gay. Actively arranging situations that require them to be naked for your own personal enjoyment or stimulation is what's gay.

If everytime you and your buds get together, the clothes come flying off, look out. :eek:
 

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the only place I really hang out nude and relax with any buds is the sauna at the Y, and really only if I see them there. It is not a planned thing. I do hang out nakey at home, but no male buds there. If I was to hang out nakey with buds at home...wife would think for sure I had lost it. I have several good friends in the Guard with me, and they know I sleep nakey, and we ever share room, but to just hang out nakey with them....well they are new generation guys. We all know how the new generation is...no nakey anytime.
 

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What has happened to men? So many won't say the word naked. In the south, naked means you have no clothes on, and nekked means you have no clothes on and are up to something. Men used to get naked all the time together, swimming, camping, stuff. LETS ALL GET NAKED or NEKKED if it's your preference. Of course, since many of us are now middleaged and older, I will leave my glasses at home. :wink:
 

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Naked, to me unclothed and vulnerable, you can also be naked even if clothed. Nude, unclothed and comfortable.
Nakey, unclothed and comfortable and having fun..... Having fun does not have to sexual, can be having fun doing what ever..... even sitting at home and surfing the net....whatever is fun....
 
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bigmuscles_averagecock said:
I'm not getting into this man. You know what I mean. If you don't, take it up with someone else.

Eh, you're straight, you don't want to be perceived as gay, so you avoid situations where there might be the possibility of this interpretation. Being gay is still perceived as something to be scorned, laughed at, or sickened by in America, whether people actually admit it or not. Note, I am not saying I like this, or accept it as the way things have to be, but acknowledge its reality. Last thing someone really wants is to be perceived as a member of a hated minority. It is perfectly understandable position.
 

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What a funny thread! It's a homoerotic fantasy many gay men (like me) have...hot, handsome studs lounging around, slapping eachothers buts, etc...lol. Just like the one str8 men have of luscious women lounging around in Fredericks negligees..having pillow fights, etc...But sometimes, reality BITES!:mad:
 

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cklover said:
What a funny thread! It's a homoerotic fantasy many gay men (like me) have...hot, handsome studs lounging around, slapping eachothers buts, etc...lol. Just like the one str8 men have of luscious women lounging around in Fredericks negligees..having pillow fights, etc...But sometimes, reality BITES!:mad:

So true---I suspect even the Roman orgie had its fair share of politics, rejection, and overall stupidity.:rolleyes: