Well once the bf and I come home, it is clothes off. Very comfortable being naked in that situation. When guy friends come over they know that we will put on shorts but they also know that they are free to strip down to shorts or whatever. This usually happens when it is a day of sports watching and we all just want to be as comfortable as possible. There will be some ass grabbing or teasing or just (gay) guys being (gay) guys kind of hi-jinx.....:wink:
Back in college, in the frat house, guys would always walk around in various states of undress, no one made a big deal about it. I mean, c'mon, after some of the hazing that went one, seeing a fellow brother just walking around naked is nbd.
I do the same, as does my partner when he is here.
Although we've kept separate apartments for years
to "fool everyone" and "keep our secret"
,
I highly doubt that anyone has been fooled but us. :wink:
Anyway, everything comes off after the front door
is shut!!! We keep pants, T-shirts, shoes at the front
door in case of emergencies....
We have Straight, BI and Gay guy friends who come
over for Yankee and Giants games and sometimes for
poker nights (my partner is a big poker player).
It's really funny since the straight ones are not aware
that we are BI, or that some of the others with whom
they have been friends for years..are in truth BI or Gay.
I don't see any reason for letting them in on my secret.
One of the straight guys calls it our
"N triple B" get
togethers.
NBBB =
Nude (or)
Boxers
Burgers
Beers.
We've been doing it for maybe 7 or 8 years now and it
has become more and more comfortable every year....so
much so, that some have already started to drop the
boxers thing. We are slowly becoming a true
"N double B"
(NBB = Nude Burgers Beers) gathering.
We all are just enjoying the freedom of it all.
It's no big deal!!! And, it is a non-sexual gathering.
Some may not understand it, but, as I see it, it's their
misfortune! :shrug: