Any guys struggle with eating pussy?

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Hey guys. I love my partner but I never really go down on her and I feel bad about it. I've never really enjoyed doing it, just the smell and the wetness has always been a turn off for me. And it's for any woman I'm with not just my current partner, and they have always been clean. It just seems like a mental thing I want to get past. Any thoughts or tips?
 

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Hard for me to give advice because I can’t see it from your point of view. I love the smell and wetness. It’s intoxicating to me.
My advice would be to think about how she feels about you doing it. Especially if she knows it’s something you’re not comfortable with but you’re doing tk to make her feel good. But. In the end. If you don’t like it. You probably shouldn’t do it and she shouldn’t expect it. Good and enjoyable sex is mutual.
My ex wife didn’t like to suck cock and I never expected it even though I ate her pussy like it was chocolate cake. I never was upset that I didn’t get a BJ. It was just the way it was. Same works the other way around. She shouldn’t expect it if makes you uncomfortable
 

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Hey guys. I love my partner but I never really go down on her and I feel bad about it. I've never really enjoyed doing it, just the smell and the wetness has always been a turn off for me. And it's for any woman I'm with not just my current partner, and they have always been clean. It just seems like a mental thing I want to get past. Any thoughts or tips?
As a guy that loves it, the smell the taste the fee the reactions it’s hard to relate…..

there is the old adage that if you force yourself to do something enough times you end up liking it…. Like Guinness!

Equally if it’s never gonna feel right…. Fess up and find alternatives…..
 

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Struggle? Hardly.

When I first finger-fucked my girlfriend (and now wife) and smelled my fingers, I was hooked. I find the smell of her pussy to be intoxicating and it really stirs something in me. I love eating her pussy and licking her clit. Her best orgasms have always seem to occur when I'm licking her clit and using a vibrator or dildo in her pussy.

Now, for me, the best is eating my own creampie. I'm most turned on when I shoot the first spurt onto her clit then finish inside of her. I'll pull out and start licking her clit which is glazed with my cum and then alternate between her clit and her pussy which starts leaking the bulk of my load.

I'd eat her pussy everyday if she were up for it. Now, in our late 60s, it is only an occasional treat that she allows.
 
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Hey guys. I love my partner but I never really go down on her and I feel bad about it. I've never really enjoyed doing it, just the smell and the wetness has always been a turn off for me. And it's for any woman I'm with not just my current partner, and they have always been clean. It just seems like a mental thing I want to get past. Any thoughts or tips?
If you don't like it, don't force yourself to do it. Sex must be enjoyment for everyone involved.

If you want better tips, go to a sexologist and talk about it with a professional
 
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I used to be ok with it, but lost my love of it some time ago. Neither my wife or I go down on each other nowadays. We have an agreement that it’s not something we ask for now as we both don’t like it
 
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Never been too much into it either and my wife is fine with it as she doesn't like receiving oral that much anyway. I sometimes get the urge to eat her out, but it's because it just fits well within foreplay, not because I enjoy the taste. She is very clean but gets quite wet. Oral is fine but not mandatory. If you don't particularly enjoy it but she does, you can agree to compromise sometimes. If she's indifferent about it, then no need to do it. There's much more to sex than that. Just be open and talk with her.
 

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Hey guys. I love my partner but I never really go down on her and I feel bad about it. I've never really enjoyed doing it, just the smell and the wetness has always been a turn off for me. And it's for any woman I'm with not just my current partner, and they have always been clean. It just seems like a mental thing I want to get past. Any thoughts or tips?
Each lady is different I'd say there's only been a few that I didn't or wouldn't. Based on their personal hygiene is why. Other then that almost a ditto on the previous answers. The smell and thrill also of being able to send a female over the edge or increasing her pleasure in doing oral is a part of why I enjoy it as well. Another point from a width/girth standpoint you get her off! Wet! Turned on / what have you. Way better in your intercourse game so to speak. If you've got her warmed up. (Speaking from me experience) it made getting in better for both!
And more enjoyable as well.

Also I'd say 75% or more if you can do oral and do it right and she enjoys it increases your chances of many more enjoyable times with the same female!
 
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Each lady is different I'd say there's only been a few that I didn't or wouldn't. Based on their personal hygiene is why. Other then that almost a ditto on the previous answers. The smell and thrill also of being able to send a female over the edge or increasing her pleasure in doing oral is a part of why I enjoy it as well. Another point from a width/girth standpoint you get her off! Wet! Turned on / what have you. Way better in your intercourse game so to speak. If you've got her warmed up. (Speaking from me experience) it made getting in better for both!
And more enjoyable as well.

Also I'd say 75% or more if you can do oral and do it right and she enjoys it increases your chances of many more enjoyable times with the same female!


I agree. IF her personal hygiene is, well lets say not good, I'm turned off.
 

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It just seems like a mental thing I want to get past. Any thoughts or tips?
Actually it sounds like a perfectly valid sensory issue(taste/texture are mine) that is legitimate, not just something to get past. Nobody is entitled to oral sex, lord knows we as men understand this pretty early on, but between the cunilingally motivated masses of men that can't get enough, and a somewhat sexually entitled attitude of women not responsible for their own orgasms, I can understand where you might feel obligated.
GGG(Giving, good, and game) is a great ideology when it comes to sexual exploits, but I fear it is often mistranslated and misused as a way to coerce, or incept this idea of certain sexual obligations without even trying or considering alternative means or relationship constructs to compromise.
 

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I ate my wife's pussy yesterday morning. It had been 6 weeks since our last PIV sex. I had shoulder surgery and only have had the use of one arm so, out of an abundance of caution, my wife has said "no". I've suggested that we could try positions other than missionary or that should could even go "cowgirl". But, alas, no. She's suffering with a bulging disc in her lower back and has been in a lot of pain. So, for me, it's been a weekly handjob/blowjob combination but she has had nothing.

We were staying in a secluded cabin so yesterday morning I started kissing her and playing with and sucking/kissing her nipples. Both nipples got stiff and she said, "let me go to the bathroom". I knew it was on!

She came back to bed and I again played with her nipples, kissed her lips and neck and stroked her stomach. As she started to respond, I took my good hand and moved down to her clit. Touching it ever so lightly, spreading her labia, circling the clit, etc., she began to moan. I wet my fingers with my mouth, and moved back down to her clit which was swelling nicely. After a few more minutes of teasing, I asked her to spread her legs wide so I could slide a finger into her. Slowly slipping a finger in, she gasped loudly and started squeezing me with her pussy. I love feeling the inside of her, teasing her G-spot, etc. I alternated between fingering her pussy and teasing her clit, adding more wetness to her clit with saliva from my mouth. I slipped a second finger inside her and she was really getting into it and was becoming very wet inside.

I told her I wanted to eat her and pulled down the covers. She hadn't trimmed her pussy for a while which left it a bit hairier than I'd like, but what the Hell - I'm eating today. I 'm kneeling beside her and leaned down and began licking her clit and she started moaning that wonderful "Oh, fuck, that feels good" moan. I moved my tongue down to her vagina and pushed it in as far as I could - ah, the taste of her - yum! She then used both hands to spread her labia which gave me a fantastic view of that beautiful oyster. I licked and sucked on her clit and tongued her pussy for about 15 or more minutes. She was frantic and I asked her if she wanted to cum. She could barely get "yes" out through the moans. I then slipped a finger back into her vagina and just wiggled it inside while I continued to lick her clit.

She came. Oh, boy, did she ever. She was breathless and her chest and neck had that wonderful blush that she gets from an orgasm. My mouth was tingling from her juices, my lips were glazed, and the area around my mouth was moist. I kissed her full on the mouth so that she could taste herself.

What a way to start the day.
 

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I ate my wife's pussy yesterday morning. It had been 6 weeks since our last PIV sex. I had shoulder surgery and only have had the use of one arm so, out of an abundance of caution, my wife has said "no". I've suggested that we could try positions other than missionary or that should could even go "cowgirl". But, alas, no. She's suffering with a bulging disc in her lower back and has been in a lot of pain. So, for me, it's been a weekly handjob/blowjob combination but she has had nothing.

We were staying in a secluded cabin so yesterday morning I started kissing her and playing with and sucking/kissing her nipples. Both nipples got stiff and she said, "let me go to the bathroom". I knew it was on!

She came back to bed and I again played with her nipples, kissed her lips and neck and stroked her stomach. As she started to respond, I took my good hand and moved down to her clit. Touching it ever so lightly, spreading her labia, circling the clit, etc., she began to moan. I wet my fingers with my mouth, and moved back down to her clit which was swelling nicely. After a few more minutes of teasing, I asked her to spread her legs wide so I could slide a finger into her. Slowly slipping a finger in, she gasped loudly and started squeezing me with her pussy. I love feeling the inside of her, teasing her G-spot, etc. I alternated between fingering her pussy and teasing her clit, adding more wetness to her clit with saliva from my mouth. I slipped a second finger inside her and she was really getting into it and was becoming very wet inside.

I told her I wanted to eat her and pulled down the covers. She hadn't trimmed her pussy for a while which left it a bit hairier than I'd like, but what the Hell - I'm eating today. I 'm kneeling beside her and leaned down and began licking her clit and she started moaning that wonderful "Oh, fuck, that feels good" moan. I moved my tongue down to her vagina and pushed it in as far as I could - ah, the taste of her - yum! She then used both hands to spread her labia which gave me a fantastic view of that beautiful oyster. I licked and sucked on her clit and tongued her pussy for about 15 or more minutes. She was frantic and I asked her if she wanted to cum. She could barely get "yes" out through the moans. I then slipped a finger back into her vagina and just wiggled it inside while I continued to lick her clit.

She came. Oh, boy, did she ever. She was breathless and her chest and neck had that wonderful blush that she gets from an orgasm. My mouth was tingling from her juices, my lips were glazed, and the area around my mouth was moist. I kissed her full on the mouth so that she could taste herself.

What a way to start the day.
YES!!! Nothing better than eating pussy first thing in the morning!
My wife loves the exact same thing - my tongue on her clit and a finger in her pussy. Pretty much a guaranteed orgasm!
 
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FWIW I'm not a fan of having a pussy in my face, but I do love everything about the pussy-eating experience -- the way she moves, watching her back arch, seeing her tits from below with her nipples poking up like diamonds. Maybe focus more on the experience than the act itself?
 

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I've never struggled with doing it, and actually enjoy a woman writhing in pleasure because of what I am doing to her with my lips and tongue. On occasion when she wasn't quite clean down there, I asked her to wash up, or offered to shower together (even more fun). She wasn't offended, as she knew her clean pussy would get what she craved, a guaranteed full body orgasm.
 
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I’m mostly gay and I love it! Never really understood the reluctance to do it, especially with straight guys. As long as she has showered recently, I don’t see what there isn’t to like. The more wet she gets as I go along, the more I enjoy it.