Any ladies never had an orgasm or had trouble the first time?

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i agree...he sounded like he had something to prove,(scary antisocial)
i would have punched him if i was you,really fucking hard,
and then said fuck off.:wink:

well to be honest i was open to the roughness to c how it'd go... i kinda liked that he attempted to give it a serious go... maybe he felt he had something to prove i dunno... to be honest i never really realise the extent of how rough someone has been with me till the next day haha :p
 

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so you do not think there is maybe, a "naughty" feeling in all male threesomes for you that you may be getting off on moreso on the psychological level like a "big" cock?

it seems to reiterate my point,from my perspective.
 

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i think some women just don't orgasm that way.
you've got a clit. it works. be happy :smile:

yeah i was talking to a girlfriend n she suggested i stimulate my clit while a guy is in me... i haven't had a real chance to try it out yet but i have mucked around masturbating n it does feel more intense when i cum from my clit but i still wanna keep goin with the dildo
 

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yeah i was talking to a girlfriend n she suggested i stimulate my clit while a guy is in me... i haven't had a real chance to try it out yet but i have mucked around masturbating n it does feel more intense when i cum from my clit but i still wanna keep goin with the dildo

why not try it at the start of sex, then you've still got a long time to build up to a vaginal orgasm.

or take yourself as close to orgasm as you can by clit, then stop and see if his cock will tip you over the edge.

i hear those things work for some women...and it might be fun to try anyway.
 

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so you do not think there is maybe, a "naughty" feeling in all male threesomes for you that you may be getting off on moreso on the psychological level like a "big" cock?

it seems to reiterate my point,from my perspective.

uh to be honest i don't go looking for a 3sum but each time it's happened it's kinda been outta my hands... it's just happened in the heat of the moment or whatever...
 

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i think you may have missed what i was saying
because i am not so hot at communicating.

my point was,
Do you think maybe you are drawn to things
that are seen from a civilised perspective as naughty
because they intrigue your sexual appetite?

how is a threesome "out of your hands"
i think it was most likely IN your hands and elsewhere lol.
you were not forced were you?
 
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i was going to reword it as "forced" but you got it before i could,
i agree it sounded harsh.

sorry i did not mean it to sound like that.honestly.
 

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hmmm the 1st time i had a 3 sum i guess perhaps i was a bit naive but the fella i was getting started with was like can my friend join in n i was like no... i ended up caving... cos the friend came in... the way i look at it is... i wasn't so keen at 1st but i was ok with it so that doesn't make it rape?

the 4sum i had well it was with some pro footy players n well they were all sharing a family hotel room so there wasnt much privacy n the 2nd fella came in n was like can i watch n i was like ah ur not really giving me much choice r u? then fella no 3 joins in bla bla bla i mean i guess it wasn't ideal but i'm def not complaining... i had fun...
 

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ok so it was not the word...

simply just asking that made me out to be the asshole here.
i will definately bear that in mind when i here a woman
refer to something that sounds nonconsensual to me.

how should have i asked about the "out of my hands" comment?

it sounds nonconsensual and i want to ask if it was or not.
 

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i'd say ask however u want... it all means the same thing right? it's just whether or not the person involved finds it offensive i guess...

as a side note i tend to just roll with things in bed so when something like that comes up i guess i'm completely happy to be getting laid by one guy so i dont really feel the need to want more guys in the situation but i'll roll with it... i know i didn't have to do it n if i was def not open to extra peeps i'd take a stand...
 

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hmmm the 1st time i had a 3 sum i guess perhaps i was a bit naive but the fella i was getting started with was like can my friend join in n i was like no... i ended up caving... cos the friend came in... the way i look at it is... i wasn't so keen at 1st but i was ok with it so that doesn't make it rape?

the 4sum i had well it was with some pro footy players n well they were all sharing a family hotel room so there wasnt much privacy n the 2nd fella came in n was like can i watch n i was like ah ur not really giving me much choice r u? then fella no 3 joins in bla bla bla i mean i guess it wasn't ideal but i'm def not complaining... i had fun...

no not rape in the slightest...manipulative asshole of a boyfriend yes.

you sound retarded.
i am not trying to be an asshole,think about it.

dude,you need to grow a pair and stand up for yourself and learn
what you truly dig in this life of yours,
you sound like a pushover,
life is toooooo short to live like that,
and one day you will see men are forceful insane creature that
on a certain level you should fear,

we are not all the same...do not trust us. ;)
 

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hahahahah well... i may seem like a pushover but in those situations if i said no to things (and i did say no to certain things that i dont like) they respected that... so perhaps i am a pushover but i def do have my boundaries :)
 

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that is where i was getting at with the naughty thing,
but i will drop it. lol.

you are definately explorative and cute to from what i see,
just please be cautious so the good guys get a chance with ya too!

stay free.:wink:
 

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i think i'll duck out of this thread because i've run out of nice,
and she doesn't really deserve mean.

i was pm'ing her whilst writing on here,
to clarify further,i believe she understood my dimeanor and point.

but if you ran out of nice i can flip my switch as well.
do you really want to invest in that?

i have the know how, and the time, to work the XYZ of your spine.

Doll.:tongue:
 

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i mentioned to this fella i had a 1 night stand with that i'd never met a guy who cud make me cum... n i think he took this as a challenge and was quite rough with me with his fingers... n ended up bruising me with the fingers that weren't in me that were hitting me... :/ i masturbate and can cum from my clit but i still haven't worked myself out penis wise... i can last for hrs... the closest ive came to cumming is once with the biggest penis i've had but he had played a game of soccer that night so he was lacking stamina... i'd hate to put it down to penis size... cud that be it? any thoughts? comments? advice??

Maybe,if you were more picky about the guys you get with
you would be more likely to find one that will take you over the edge.:wink:
 

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My girlfriend had never climaxed, and I really want her to (probably more than she does, lol). Not with herself, or with me. I'm the only guy she's been with, and vice versa, so it's hard to tell if I'm doing something wrong, or it's just the way she is. We've done the works - penetration, oral, fingering. Sometimes she feels like she's close (she thinks) and sometimes she makes me stop when I go down on her because she feels like peeing. I feel so bad not being able to give her this experience because she gives me so much. She doesn't complain about it but that does little to put me at ease. Any help from the ladies who once had similar troubles but now know what to do would be GREATLY appreciated. I know every girl is different, but the problem is that she herself does not know, so I'm turning to you :)

My first real boyfriend, I met when I was 18, I was a virgin...and I'd never had an orgasm. I think it takes time to get used to things. Figuring out what she likes and what gets her off. It took about 6-7 months before I orgasmed, by then I was 19...and it didn't bother me back then because what was happening still felt really good and was new and fun. Just have fun and enjoy yourselves. It'll happen when it'll happen. But helping to make sure she's relaxed will be the best thing I'd suggest.