Any ladies never had an orgasm or had trouble the first time?

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Thanks Miss_Fleur for sharing your experience and getting this thread back on topic. That makes me feel a lot better, because she is still young as well and inexperienced. Although we've been together for a while, we haven't had that much bedroom time due to circumstance. Hopefully, like you it will just happen one day. Thanks again!
 

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i was pm'ing her whilst writing on here,
to clarify further,i believe she understood my dimeanor and point.

but if you ran out of nice i can flip my switch as well.
do you really want to invest in that?

i have the know how, and the time, to work the XYZ of your spine.

Doll.:tongue:
i'd like to see you try!

toots :cool:
 

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i'd like to see you try!

toots :cool:

ok this would mean, just to clarify,
i no longer respect dolfette,as a woman,nor a peer.
why? because she jumps to conclusions
rather than "ASKING" if what she is thinking is the case.

presumptuous woman that keeps herself ignorant.

it makes you look a wee bit uh, trashy which seems to lead
to a dim witted dolfette.

you apparently cannot clear your mind to look beyond illusion
and into REALITY. (where the people are)

reality hurts i understand,but i really wish she would
just accept it and maybe even build a tolerance to it,
for the sake of her neighbors.

some topics make her want to goto her room and forget about it
because she cannot manage her emotion,she runs out.
whether it is Nice or Truth...

she runs out.
:smile:

there it is sugar,
care to invest more into my bank of truth.
 

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My girlfriend had never climaxed, and I really want her to (probably more than she does, lol). Not with herself, or with me. I'm the only guy she's been with, and vice versa, so it's hard to tell if I'm doing something wrong, or it's just the way she is. We've done the works - penetration, oral, fingering. Sometimes she feels like she's close (she thinks) and sometimes she makes me stop when I go down on her because she feels like peeing. I feel so bad not being able to give her this experience because she gives me so much. She doesn't complain about it but that does little to put me at ease. Any help from the ladies who once had similar troubles but now know what to do would be GREATLY appreciated. I know every girl is different, but the problem is that she herself does not know, so I'm turning to you :)

The feeling of having to pee comes from g-spot stim, pressure on her bladder. Like some posters said try a combination of diff stim like fingers on g-spot and tongue on clit. The combination of oral and g-spot is very powerful double stim. The clit is her key. Oral works best with a nice warm tongue working her clit but fingers (hers or yours) could work clit too.

She just needs to learn how to relax and let go and it will happen. Once she's done it she'll get better at keying on on feelings to get herself there most of the time.
 

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Sadly some women have virtually no external clit, there is so much skin around it and it it isn't long to begin with so it is buried. Now, the external pressure feels good for them, but I have met some women that can only come from deep fornix penetration in a vigorous and fast manner. I could never do it because my head is too sensitive and after a couple minutes of the rhythm and stimulation my cock I was about to bust. I felt bad that I couldn't get them there because of it.
 

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ok this would mean, just to clarify,
i no longer respect dolfette,as a woman,nor a peer.
why? because she jumps to conclusions
rather than "ASKING" if what she is thinking is the case.

presumptuous woman that keeps herself ignorant.

it makes you look a wee bit uh, trashy which seems to lead
to a dim witted dolfette.

you apparently cannot clear your mind to look beyond illusion
and into REALITY. (where the people are)

reality hurts i understand,but i really wish she would
just accept it and maybe even build a tolerance to it,
for the sake of her neighbors.

some topics make her want to goto her room and forget about it
because she cannot manage her emotion,she runs out.
whether it is Nice or Truth...

she runs out.
:smile:

there it is sugar,
care to invest more into my bank of truth.
if i'm honest? i expected more.
not even a wince...
 

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Well, she almost got there last night I think. We tried a new position which focused on the g spot. She described the feeling as a "good pain" that started at the center and radiated outwards. Sound familiar to anyone?

P.S. Psidom and Dolfette: thanks for your contributions but can you please take your fighting elsewhere?