I think you have to know why you are pursuing it before you dive in. I had my first and only experience with a man last summer. It was incredibly hot, but left me feeling very guilty and quite empty. Was it cheating? I didn't think so. She was out of town for a month and I was so horny I gave in. There was no emotional attachment to him or from him. Dicking around with another man is a male bonding thing. Bottom line: I don't think rubbing one out with a bud can ever be as fulfilling as making love to your wife. And it shouldn't be. It can be very satisfying, but it cannot replace what you have with your spouse if you're married. And I agree with others' comments here, discretion is just plain common sense. There are exceptions, but most women do not understand the need for men to bond with each other physically, at least not to the point of cumming.
That's what baffles me too. How do you get a conversation going about jo without it altering the friendship for good. I want to know too.
Often there's alcohol involved...It does lower inhibitions.
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Hey Dallas, could you tell us a bit more about how it played out....who intitiated it? Was there porn involved?
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my only jo buddy (besides my neighbor and best friend who had a car wreck and passed away senior year in high school) was a good friend and when we partied it often ended up with watching porn together...after a one or two times we started jerking ourselves off...and after about half a dozen different times doing that, we decided to jerk each other off...he had been married and had a girlfriend at the time and I have since had a girlfriend and he moved. our favorite thing to do was frot and only once or twice we traded bjs...anyway..really miss those days sometimes...it was cool to have a close guy friend to hang out with and give each other a helping hand...i knew i could always trust him with any issues i needed to talk about since we both had an unspoken agreement the details of this friendship we had would forever stay between the two of us.
Yeah, there was alcohol involved - probably wouldn't have happened if there wasn't. We met online and chatted for months - got to know each other, then decided to meet at a local bar. After a few beers, we went back to his place. It was hot, never done anything like that before or since.
I'm not married but I jacked with married guys before. It is a nice way to get your sexual needs out.
We all jo so why jo alone right. We all like porn, stroking it and getting some release when we need it.
I jerked off with a few guys when I was young and single.
I still have a jerk off bud, I usually let her do the work, she is called the wife.
I still have a jerk off bud, I usually let her do the work, she is called the wife.
I have a buddy I play sports with. We are both married. We JO watching regular straight porn. So hot to talk trash and spank one out. Both of us married, but we talk about what we'd do to the chick in the porn, shit your wife won't do! Like cum on her face, cum on her tits, even talk about he and I double cream pie'ing her.
I'll Jo with you, Scott! Married here but call a JO men for mostly married like minded fellas. Nice to see that I'm not the only one!
That's damn hot man. We need to have those buds to chat with. Not your typical bar chat over a beer. lol. I would definitely join y'all in that conversation.
Nah man, I'm sure there are quite a few of us out there.
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Definitely others out there. I've got a married buddywwho will jack with me.
I got lucky, i have a jo/suck buddy at my office complex. He's the head maintenance guy. First time was after showing him pics of my wife on pc. I commented on his bulge and that started it. He's married, 52 now & black. He never sucks me but will jack me off reach around. He was 40 when we started i was 34. We look at porn on my pc & i edge him & I. Ive brought stripper friends couple times, i love to watch him fuck the girls.
I suck him off 4-6 times a week. He's fucked me 5-6 times, after work when he was drunk.
He has perfect cock, 8 or more & big head.
I suck him off 4-6 times a week. He's fucked me 5-6 times, after work when he was drunk.
He has perfect cock, 8 or more & big head.
You guys who JO with married buds is that all you do or have you ever sucked or give a hand job?
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