I have a JO bud, we're both married, around 50 and lifelong friends. We live a few hundred miles apart, so it only happens when we are on one of our hunting or fishing trips that we take together, or when one of us visits the other. Although we are lifelong friends, we didn't start jacking off openly in front of each other until about 10 years ago. We always have porn with us on our trips, and a nice stash in the cabin he has on his property. Due to our ages, it used to be in magazine form, nowadays it's either my portable dvd player, or my laptop if I have a good enough signal to use my phone for wifi. Even though we didn't start JO together until about 10 years ago, we never had a problem with nudity around each other. He lives in the country and we have skinny dipped many times in his pool in broad daylight, shared a bathroom where one of us would be shaving while the other is showering, he has an outdoor shower that we use in the summer and we'll stand and talk to each other while each of us gets our shower. We both sleep naked, and on our trips we are in close quarters so we see each other naked every day. So, as for being naked around each other, it is not and never has been an issue with us. As for how we started JO together, as I previously stated we always have porn with us and at the end of the day we always watch it while playing cards or dice. When it came time to go to bed we would undress, shut everything off and get in our own beds. Inevitably, within minutes of us laying down, you could hear the unmistakable sounds of both of us jacking off. As open as we were/are with each other we never spoke of it, it was just an unspoken mutual understanding between us. One night as it was getting close to the time that we would be going to bed, I looked at him and said, you know, we've seen each other naked countless times, we both know that we jack off and that we're both going to after we get in our beds, I have no problem with you seeing me JO and I would much rather do it while watching and enjoying the porn as opposed to laying in the dark doing it. I don't remember exactly what he said, but he stood up and started undressing, and I happily followed suit! It is now a mutual understanding that unless we are to tired for some reason, that we are going to have a mutual jack off session before we go to bed. Since that first time, we both have agreed that we are happy I spoke up, and wish we had started sooner! We don't touch each other, but we have shared JO toys, taking turns with them, and even sometimes one of us will be jacking off even if the other isn't, such as one morning while I was having phone sex with my wife, all the while he was sitting there having coffee. For us, as close as we already were, it has given us a deeper bond with each other, one that we both very much enjoy!