Any married guys have a married jerk off bud

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I'm married and I have a smoking hot story about my married FWB. It's mostly over with now but it lasted for about 5 years. It was definitely a journey that took 10 years to reach fruition. I find myself thinking about him a lot.
 

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my only jo buddy (besides my neighbor and best friend who had a car wreck and passed away senior year in high school) was a good friend and when we partied it often ended up with watching porn together...after a one or two times we started jerking ourselves off...and after about half a dozen different times doing that, we decided to jerk each other off...he had been married and had a girlfriend at the time and I have since had a girlfriend and he moved. our favorite thing to do was frot and only once or twice we traded bjs...anyway..really miss those days sometimes...it was cool to have a close guy friend to hang out with and give each other a helping hand...i knew i could always trust him with any issues i needed to talk about since we both had an unspoken agreement the details of this friendship we had would forever stay between the two of us.

I had the same unspoken agreement with this straight friend. He was my best friend, lived with me for about 6 years as he was working in the same city. In fact, we worked at the same place for a couple of years. I was single for the most part with a few flings (females). He had one relationship and a few flings (females) during that time. We talked about everything and anything, including sex. We had a big circle of friends and some were very close friends. But our bond was at another level.
We would sleep on the same bed. Sometimes we would watch porn. But for the most part, we didn't need that at all. I would give him a hand job and a blow job. He would just give me a hand job. He was not comfortable with giving a blowjob. He attempted once. We talked about it and I told him that he does not have to do it if he is not comfortable or turned on by that idea. A memorable phase of my life. We are both married now but live in different cities.

Getting back to the OP's question- I do not have a married jerk off bud. I have been looking for one for the longest time and the search continues.
 

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Have had married JO buds in the past but not often. Usually hard to find someone just for that, as most "bi" guys online want more..Kissing, body contact, anal oral etc.

I couldnt imagine jacking with a regular friend, would be too awkward.
 

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I have a JO bud, we're both married, around 50 and lifelong friends. We live a few hundred miles apart, so it only happens when we are on one of our hunting or fishing trips that we take together, or when one of us visits the other. Although we are lifelong friends, we didn't start jacking off openly in front of each other until about 10 years ago. We always have porn with us on our trips, and a nice stash in the cabin he has on his property. Due to our ages, it used to be in magazine form, nowadays it's either my portable dvd player, or my laptop if I have a good enough signal to use my phone for wifi. Even though we didn't start JO together until about 10 years ago, we never had a problem with nudity around each other. He lives in the country and we have skinny dipped many times in his pool in broad daylight, shared a bathroom where one of us would be shaving while the other is showering, he has an outdoor shower that we use in the summer and we'll stand and talk to each other while each of us gets our shower. We both sleep naked, and on our trips we are in close quarters so we see each other naked every day. So, as for being naked around each other, it is not and never has been an issue with us. As for how we started JO together, as I previously stated we always have porn with us and at the end of the day we always watch it while playing cards or dice. When it came time to go to bed we would undress, shut everything off and get in our own beds. Inevitably, within minutes of us laying down, you could hear the unmistakable sounds of both of us jacking off. As open as we were/are with each other we never spoke of it, it was just an unspoken mutual understanding between us. One night as it was getting close to the time that we would be going to bed, I looked at him and said, you know, we've seen each other naked countless times, we both know that we jack off and that we're both going to after we get in our beds, I have no problem with you seeing me JO and I would much rather do it while watching and enjoying the porn as opposed to laying in the dark doing it. I don't remember exactly what he said, but he stood up and started undressing, and I happily followed suit! It is now a mutual understanding that unless we are to tired for some reason, that we are going to have a mutual jack off session before we go to bed. Since that first time, we both have agreed that we are happy I spoke up, and wish we had started sooner! We don't touch each other, but we have shared JO toys, taking turns with them, and even sometimes one of us will be jacking off even if the other isn't, such as one morning while I was having phone sex with my wife, all the while he was sitting there having coffee. For us, as close as we already were, it has given us a deeper bond with each other, one that we both very much enjoy!
 

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Actually have four buddies I get together with to have some guy to guy fun. Three are married dads like me and the fourth is single, but dating a young woman. We met thru the gym and it was only after a long period of cultivating our friendships that it became physical. Very satisfying however--nobody knows a guy's body like another guy!
That's pretty awesome man!!!
 

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I have a JO bud, we're both married, around 50 and lifelong friends. We live a few hundred miles apart, so it only happens when we are on one of our hunting or fishing trips that we take together, or when one of us visits the other. Although we are lifelong friends, we didn't start jacking off openly in front of each other until about 10 years ago. We always have porn with us on our trips, and a nice stash in the cabin he has on his property. Due to our ages, it used to be in magazine form, nowadays it's either my portable dvd player, or my laptop if I have a good enough signal to use my phone for wifi. Even though we didn't start JO together until about 10 years ago, we never had a problem with nudity around each other. He lives in the country and we have skinny dipped many times in his pool in broad daylight, shared a bathroom where one of us would be shaving while the other is showering, he has an outdoor shower that we use in the summer and we'll stand and talk to each other while each of us gets our shower. We both sleep naked, and on our trips we are in close quarters so we see each other naked every day. So, as for being naked around each other, it is not and never has been an issue with us. As for how we started JO together, as I previously stated we always have porn with us and at the end of the day we always watch it while playing cards or dice. When it came time to go to bed we would undress, shut everything off and get in our own beds. Inevitably, within minutes of us laying down, you could hear the unmistakable sounds of both of us jacking off. As open as we were/are with each other we never spoke of it, it was just an unspoken mutual understanding between us. One night as it was getting close to the time that we would be going to bed, I looked at him and said, you know, we've seen each other naked countless times, we both know that we jack off and that we're both going to after we get in our beds, I have no problem with you seeing me JO and I would much rather do it while watching and enjoying the porn as opposed to laying in the dark doing it. I don't remember exactly what he said, but he stood up and started undressing, and I happily followed suit! It is now a mutual understanding that unless we are to tired for some reason, that we are going to have a mutual jack off session before we go to bed. Since that first time, we both have agreed that we are happy I spoke up, and wish we had started sooner! We don't touch each other, but we have shared JO toys, taking turns with them, and even sometimes one of us will be jacking off even if the other isn't, such as one morning while I was having phone sex with my wife, all the while he was sitting there having coffee. For us, as close as we already were, it has given us a deeper bond with each other, one that we both very much enjoy!


This is what its about - just dudes...
 
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I have a good buddy from high school who's married and we get together regularly just to jerk off to porn. He's conflicted but I'm just glad I can give him some pleasure without the guilt of being with another woman. I also care about him as a friend.
 

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I hooked up with a bate bud recently for the very first time...always wondered about it even went to video booths to jerk off...one time out in Cali on business, got my cock sucked for the very first time through a glory hole from another guy and it was hot...I'm married...love my wife dearly! But sometimes not on same wavelength when it comes to sex. So while on line on a hookup site...got into a chat with another guy just looking for NSA jo fun and maybe some oral...ok cool...rubbed one out together over the phone...Skype a few times and finally meet at his place and had a hot lunchtime jo session...haven't gone back yet...maybe I will...but some guilt may be setting in...so we'll see.