Any married guys have a married jerk off bud

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@ronin001, I think that you need to read your posts again, including the one where you are calling most of the married men on this thread cheaters. I apologize for not clearly stating my disapproval in my previous post. This thread is a place for married men to talk with and maybe masturbate with other married men. I believe the purpose of it being for married men is because most of us just want the bonding experience with other men in similar situations as ourselves. I view it no differently than playing poker with buddies, lifting weights at the gym with a friend, or going fishing for the weekend. It is a non-emotional connection with no strings attached. We don't want to leave or hurt our wives. I am only speaking for myself, but if I were to find another guy that I was comfortable with and he comfortable with me, I would not hesitate to have a JO session with him and I would not for a minute feel like I was cheating on my wife. It's simply male bonding while doing something that all of us do. Just because the activity is socially taboo, doesn't make it wrong. I can tell you without a doubt that my wife would rather have me jerk off with one of my buddies than go deer hunting with one of them. This is just my opinion. You are also entitled to yours.

Well remember that women masturbate just like men do, so if you and a female decided to have regular, non contact JO sessions with each other, that is OK and a bonding experience also ???.

" I view it no differently than playing poker with buddies, lifting weights at the gym with a friend, or going fishing for the weekend. It is a non-emotional connection with no strings attached. "

And I can guess you can tell your wife you are going fishing with buddies with a straight face. The difference is that a weekend JO session is not something most men can tell their spouses they intend to do. So they Lie, Mans nature is to lie, to avoid unpleasantness; or when he/ she are doing something wrong they do not wish to be caught doing. I am not saying you or anyone is wrong; just that my opinion, may vary a little from yours
 

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Well remember that women masturbate just like men do, so if you and a female decided to have regular, non contact JO sessions with each other, that is OK and a bonding experience also ???.

" I view it no differently than playing poker with buddies, lifting weights at the gym with a friend, or going fishing for the weekend. It is a non-emotional connection with no strings attached. "

And I can guess you can tell your wife you are going fishing with buddies with a straight face. The difference is that a weekend JO session is not something most men can tell their spouses they intend to do. So they Lie, Mans nature is to lie, to avoid unpleasantness; or when he/ she are doing something wrong they do not wish to be caught doing. I am not saying you or anyone is wrong; just that my opinion, may vary a little from yours
I know who I am in my heart, so I guess that we are just going to have to disagree. Thank you for your point of view and your time. I'm going fishing. :)
 

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Sharing a sex act, solo or otherwise, with another person, has an inherent level of intimacy.
Cheating isn't about sex. It's about intimacy.
If you are in a situation where your partner knows and is ok with this activity, have at it.
If you're lying or being deceitful, it's a no go.
Pretty simple math.
If you have to hide what you're doing because your partner would be hurt by knowing what you're doing, it's very clearly wrong.
 

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Sharing a sex act, solo or otherwise, with another person, has an inherent level of intimacy.
Cheating isn't about sex. It's about intimacy.
If you are in a situation where your partner knows and is ok with this activity, have at it.
If you're lying or being deceitful, it's a no go.
Pretty simple math.
If you have to hide what you're doing because your partner would be hurt by knowing what you're doing, it's very clearly wrong.
maybe you just know they would be weirded out by it and want to avoid a week of deep convo about jerking off and why its nice to have a jo bud...??
 

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maybe you just know they would be weirded out by it and want to avoid a week of deep convo about jerking off and why its nice to have a jo bud...??
"Weirded out", upset, hurt...doesn't matter what you want to call it or what kind of spin you try and put on it....If you can't tell your partner about it, it's wrong.
 
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So does it stay to jerking off? Or does it ever get out of control and escalet? I just can't comprehend.
In my mid-40's I developed an interest in exploring exchanging oral with other guys, No ability to become emotionally involved with guys but the dirty thrill of secretly mutual hedonistic pleasure was a huge turn on. One time I had an opportunity to meet up with a guy interested in mutual masturbation and after a couple of stiff cocktails we took our clothes off and sat close to each other on a small couch, our bare thighs pressed together as we reached over and gently began to play with each other, I found the experience less intense than I would have preferred. However, he had a very nice dick and I liked having it in my hand. He must've sensed that I wasn't all that into what we were doing and he asked me what I was thinking about. I answered "I'm thinking about what an awesome dick you have and what it would feel like in my mouth sucking it".

So yes, it easily will escalate - for me anyway.
 

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"Weirded out", upset, hurt...doesn't matter what you want to call it or what kind of spin you try and put on it....If you can't tell your partner about it, it's wrong.
so..do you tell your partner everytime you are with a friend and if you and he fart, sneeze, do something nice for someone, or spin round and round so fast you get so dizzy you fall down laughing???..these are all things that feel hood and I enjoy doing with male friends, but I know my partner either doesn't care to hear about us doing a couple of those and mighy think a couple of those things are weird and she would be so bored and not give two fucks about me and my buddy spinning round and round laughing and farting.......so I choose to not waste her or my time telling her about it, because I love her and respect her and know her....maybe it is just that you can't find it in you to love, respect, or know your partner on that intimate level like the rest of us who spare our partners stories about jerking off......get a grip
 
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so..do you tell your partner everytime you are with a friend and if you and he fart, sneeze, do something nice for someone, or spin round and round so fast you get so dizzy you fall down laughing???..these are all things that feel hood and I enjoy doing with male friends, but I know my partner either doesn't care to hear about us doing a couple of those and mighy think a couple of those things are weird and she would be so bored and not give two fucks about me and my buddy spinning round and round laughing and farting.......so I choose to not waste her or my time telling her about it, because I love her and respect her and know her....maybe it is just that you can't find it in you to love, respect, or know your partner on that intimate level like the rest of us who spare our partners stories about jerking off......get a grip
You're an idiot.
Spinning and farting aren't sex acts, genius.
You don't tell your partner about masturbating together (if you actually had one) because they wouldn't approve...not because they would be "bored" by it.
Speaking of "getting a grip".....It's very obvious that you're grasping at straws here.
Laughable, really.
But, hey, you're free to screw up any way you like.
As far as intimacy with my partner goes....I don't do anything that I can't tell her about. I'm sorry you aren't in a healthy enough situation to say the same.
 

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Curious Married guy here- never played with another dude, I've had a couple of opportunities, but have always refused - seems like the reality of dude action isn't as good as the fantasy. - but I think more and more of having another "straight" married dude as a trusted Jo bud, Frot.
Anyone here currently have another Married buddy? Or has had one? Would like the details please. How did you set it up? Is it drama or easy pleasure. ?
I have a married JO buddy. He has a great sex toy that's like a pussy and ass. He likes me to fuck it and cum inside then he fucks it after me. He likes to video our cocks pumping that plastic pussy! It does feel amazing.
 

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We all jo so why jo alone right. We all like porn, stroking it and getting some release when we need it.
Guys enjoy sharing activities with buddy's. We just do. So why not JO and watch porn with a buddy? It's just another shared activity. You like fishing or hunting or bowling or watching football with buddies, right. Rubbing out a load together is no different. How far you go depends on you both. I have no interest in playing with another dick. If you do, that's fine just respect my limits. But watching a great porno and watching your bud get all excited and cumming is great fun.

PM me if you enjoy trading JO pics or vids.
 

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I have a married JO buddy. He has a great sex toy that's like a pussy and ass. He likes me to fuck it and cum inside then he fucks it after me. He likes to video our cocks pumping that plastic pussy! It does feel amazing.
Sounds super hot. Ever want a third bud?
 
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when I was married I had a jerk off buddy, he was my apprentice, caught him wanking one day and got turned on watching his shoot his spunk so when I found him wanking another day I joined in and soon we were tossing each other off every day and enjoying feeling the hot cum slick from each others cocks on our hands - which needless to say lead on to other things
 

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when I was married I had a jerk off buddy, he was my apprentice, caught him wanking one day and got turned on watching his shoot his spunk so when I found him wanking another day I joined in and soon we were tossing each other off every day and enjoying feeling the hot cum slick from each others cocks on our hands - which needless to say lead on to other things

Please share with us what the 'other things' were.
Thanks in advance.
RICKY
 

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He was a lean well built Italian looking lad, smooth olive body and magnificent black cock bush, cock was longer than mine but thin, a beaut to play with. He was just coming up to 19 and his hormones were raging. I was nervous to start with when we wanked but he was more than willing for twice a day cock fun, I hate to think how many times we let our spunk fall on the floor. We'd find some deserted place to get before opening our coverall all the way down and enjoying our playtimes. Like with my half bro I wasn't going to initiate anything so it was down to him to move first, and it started with spunking over each other as we wanked, but he wanted more...
 
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You're an idiot.
Spinning and farting aren't sex acts, genius.
You don't tell your partner about masturbating together (if you actually had one) because they wouldn't approve...not because they would be "bored" by it.
Speaking of "getting a grip".....It's very obvious that you're grasping at straws here.
Laughable, really.
But, hey, you're free to screw up any way you like.
As far as intimacy with my partner goes....I don't do anything that I can't tell her about. I'm sorry you aren't in a healthy enough situation to say the same.

My wife and almostbany woman would consider it cheating and lying if you said you were fishing and you were jo with a buddy. I'd consider it cheating too- that's why I haven't pursued anything - other than cam - which isn't truly honest to her either.
Just saying that I am unsatisfied sexually with the current situation - not wanting a divorce due to sexual dissatisfaction
 
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My wife and almostbany woman would consider it cheating and lying if you said you were fishing and you were jo with a buddy. I'd consider it cheating too- that's why I haven't pursued anything - other than cam - which isn't truly honest to her either.
Just saying that I am unsatisfied sexually with the current situation - not wanting a divorce due to sexual dissatisfaction
Does it need to be male? Can it be a married woman?
 
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