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As a therapist myself, I'm curious to know if getting the happy middle lessens your desire to go back now that you've experienced it, instead of just wondering/fantasizing over whether it might happen, or if it makes you want to go back more? If you do go back, do you feel any kind of expectation for it to happen again, or would you be totally cool if it didn't? Just curious...
Personally I would come back more if I had a "happy middle". However not getting it the first few times does add a little bit of fantasy to it. Ive gotten one on the first visit and not gotten one on the second visit while im cool with it as long as the massage itself was good it leaves me wondering if I did something wrong not to get the extra treat the second go round.
 
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Personally I would come back more if I had a "happy middle". However not getting it the first few times does add a little bit of fantasy to it. Ive gotten one on the first visit and not gotten one on the second visit while im cool with it as long as the massage itself was good it leaves me wondering if I did something wrong not to get the extra treat the second go round.

Thanks for the insight. The psychology of it all is interesting. I'm not attached to clients coming back (if they love my work and want more, great; if not, that's totally cool too), but it's awesome when somebody has a phenomenal session and wants more. I don't do the full-meal deal in my work, and used to think that when the clients were getting really turned on, they would leave disappointed if I didn't finish them off. But, over time I've seen that it actually seems to bring people back on a consistent basis and I've always wondered why. There have a been a small number who I think were dead set on getting jerked off, and after a few sessions quit coming back when they realized they weren't going to get it; however, the majority of people seem to leave a lot more energized when they've been fully turned on in the middle of the session, but then have had the energy gradually brought back down to earth and grounded by the end so that they aren't walking out with a stiffy that is still weeping for attention. I'll admit that there have been a number of times when somebody was so turned on that they could not relax their muscles enough for me to work on them effectively and I've fantasized about breaking my rule out of necessity to get them to relax so I can do my work, but alas I've kept myself from taking that step and have kept the thoughts in Fantasyland instead of bringing them to life in reality.
 

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As a therapist myself, I'm curious to know if getting the happy middle lessens your desire to go back now that you've experienced it, instead of just wondering/fantasizing over whether it might happen, or if it makes you want to go back more? If you do go back, do you feel any kind of expectation for it to happen again, or would you be totally cool if it didn't? Just curious...
Well, as I mentioned in my post I spent time processing this one, and franky I still am. Your questions are dead-on!
I do not really know what to say....I mean, the dude gave me the best theraputic massage I have had in years. Magic Fingers...And the happy middle was fun, and I like not having to think about the draping...So it's about my expectations now...Am I going for the diddling? Am I going for the massage? Am I overthinking this? I just do not know at this point. I do admit its very muddled right now so happy I am away from the city for a few weeks for work.
 

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Thanks for the insight. The psychology of it all is interesting. I'm not attached to clients coming back (if they love my work and want more, great; if not, that's totally cool too), but it's awesome when somebody has a phenomenal session and wants more. I don't do the full-meal deal in my work, and used to think that when the clients were getting really turned on, they would leave disappointed if I didn't finish them off. But, over time I've seen that it actually seems to bring people back on a consistent basis and I've always wondered why. There have a been a small number who I think were dead set on getting jerked off, and after a few sessions quit coming back when they realized they weren't going to get it; however, the majority of people seem to leave a lot more energized when they've been fully turned on in the middle of the session, but then have had the energy gradually brought back down to earth and grounded by the end so that they aren't walking out with a stiffy that is still weeping for attention. I'll admit that there have been a number of times when somebody was so turned on that they could not relax their muscles enough for me to work on them effectively and I've fantasized about breaking my rule out of necessity to get them to relax so I can do my work, but alas I've kept myself from taking that step and have kept the thoughts in Fantasyland instead of bringing them to life in reality.

For me it still has to be a good massage if I go and that's all they do is tug me and a quick rub I feel like I have been screwed over. I did have this one guy I went to a few times with no happy on the forth visit he finishes the massage takes off the belt with the lotion pump looks at me and ask how was the massage I reply great at which point he grabs a handful of cock and goes to town when I came we both lost sight of where the wad went lol it made for a great experience
 

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For me it still has to be a good massage if I go and that's all they do is tug me and a quick rub I feel like I have been screwed over. I did have this one guy I went to a few times with no happy on the forth visit he finishes the massage takes off the belt with the lotion pump looks at me and ask how was the massage I reply great at which point he grabs a handful of cock and goes to town when I came we both lost sight of where the wad went lol it made for a great experience

Now that sounds like a happy ending! Every time I read this thread it makes me want to go for a massage. I have had only one and it was with a older woman who was legit.

The message felt good but I didn't get the "oh man I feel so much better" feeling that everyone raves about after getting a massage.

Are these places that you guys go to for these AMAZING massages (without the happy ending) at the local shopping mall, or in a office building, because they sure aren't at the spa - not that I have found.

The stuff on Craig's list just sounds like a trap to be videotaped and discovered later on Porn hub! I dunno-

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Don't go to your local mall for one.
I've had 2 amazing MTs over the years and neither gave a happy ending. The 1st would give a great tease... Rub my ass and graze my hole, touch my balks and shaft but then pull back. The 2nd guy does less "tease" but leaves me undraped.
To me the tease throughout is the best. When they go quickly to get you to cum the massage ends up shitty and you're paying for some dude to get you off and sometimes they get off.
 

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Don't go to your local mall for one.
I've had 2 amazing MTs over the years and neither gave a happy ending. The 1st would give a great tease... Rub my ass and graze my hole, touch my balks and shaft but then pull back. The 2nd guy does less "tease" but leaves me undraped.
To me the tease throughout is the best. When they go quickly to get you to cum the massage ends up shitty and you're paying for some dude to get you off and sometimes they get off.

So where do you go? How to I find one that will give a good massage like the one you had?
When you say massage therapist I think medical- I think legitimate- right
 

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I've had many bad massages, so I know the feeling! That said, I've also had some phenomenal ones, and it has been worth the effort to find these. I think you are at a severe disadvantage given your location. You'd be much better off taking a weekend trip to Chicago for example where there is likely going to be a larger pool of much higher quality CMTs. You're almost guaranteed to not find them on CL or in a spa. (I would recommend trying Yelp, so you can see reviews from others as well as the therapists website, experience, training, etc.) I'm in San Francisco, where massage is extremely popular, and there is thus a lot of competition and everybody strives to be the best. We also have several excellent schools, which means quality training is easily available. Probably not the case where you are. If you're ever in SF, I can probably do a pretty good job at wowing you. ;-) Good luck!
And in response to Kurt, I'd recommend masseurfinder if you're looking for more than just therapeutic (if you're in a city where they have listings, though keep in mind that a lot of them are not trained, giving crappy massages with tug at the end. Make sure the person lists legit training in their profile.). Otherwise, I think Yelp is the best bet.

Now that sounds like a happy ending! Every time I read this thread it makes me want to go for a massage. I have had only one and it was with a older woman who was legit.

The message felt good but I didn't get the "oh man I feel so much better" feeling that everyone raves about after getting a massage.

Are these places that you guys go to for these AMAZING massages (without the happy ending) at the local shopping mall, or in a office building, because they sure aren't at the spa - not that I have found.

The stuff on Craig's list just sounds like a trap to be videotaped and discovered later on Porn hub! I dunno-

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I've had many bad massages, so I know the feeling! That said, I've also had some phenomenal ones, and it has been worth the effort to find these. I think you are at a severe disadvantage given your location. You'd be much better off taking a weekend trip to Chicago for example where there is likely going to be a larger pool of much higher quality CMTs. You're almost guaranteed to not find them on CL or in a spa. (I would recommend trying Yelp, so you can see reviews from others as well as the therapists website, experience, training, etc.) I'm in San Francisco, where massage is extremely popular, and there is thus a lot of competition and everybody strives to be the best. We also have several excellent schools, which means quality training is easily available. Probably not the case where you are. If you're ever in SF, I can probably do a pretty good job at wowing you. ;-) Good luck!
And in response to Kurt, I'd recommend masseurfinder if you're looking for more than just therapeutic (if you're in a city where they have listings, though keep in mind that a lot of them are not trained, giving crappy massages with tug at the end. Make sure the person lists legit training in their profile.). Otherwise, I think Yelp is the best bet.


Thanks- that is good advise!

I'll give that a try.
 

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I've found quite a few on CL, but I always see pics and I'll ask questions. Some have been great others not sonics. Most come across as therapeutic only but most male MTs will do much more.
Recently I went to a guy and by the 1/2 wag point he was naked and grinding on my ass
 
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I've found quite a few on CL, but I always see pics and I'll ask questions. Some have been great others not sonics. Most come across as therapeutic only but most male MTs will do much more.
Recently I went to a guy and by the 1/2 wag point he was naked and grinding on my ass
That is a little too much....not sure I would be down with that on the first visit.
 

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I've found that "most" who advertise therapeutic do a nice sensual massage while those who advertise sensual get naked and want to play. I've not been to any that advertise erotic, but I assume they will have sex. I texted one recently who quoted $150 so j asked if he has anything else that is not so expensive and he said $120 no sex. Damn, I guess for a lot out there massage is just "code".
 

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Damn, I guess for a lot out there massage is just "code".

Bingo. A lot of guys in San Francisco advertising sensual/erotic massage are essentially just male prostitutes operating in disguise as massage therapists. My guess is that a lot of them don't even have any massage training.
 
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True. The trick is finding a really good therapist who also does sensual massage.
I have been going to a licensed MT who gives a amazing massage, lets me be undraped and he spends most of the hour on my butt & hams!!! I love it but he has yet to do more: massage into my butt crack & over my hole or bump my balls/shaft to get & keep me hard!!
 

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True. The trick is finding a really good therapist who also does sensual massage.
I have been going to a licensed MT who gives a amazing massage, lets me be undraped and he spends most of the hour on my butt & hams!!! I love it but he has yet to do more: massage into my butt crack & over my hole or bump my balls/shaft to get & keep me hard!!
I think if he has not by now, he is already at the limit of his comfort. That said, I go regularly to a guy and lately he has been edging closer to the shaft, hole and crack...it is pretty clear to me this is happening. No complaints, took some time...but again I respect the level of his comfort.
 
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Once upon a time I was stationed in a place that turned a blind eye to somewhat questionable practices, in order not to offend the locals. There were massage parlors liberally scattered throughout this country. The women providing services in said establishments would typically pull the towel away after flipping you over and they would sing music to my ear "you give me tip, I make you feel good". I spent much money for many happy endings and lived happily ever after (until I had to return to the states). The end.
 

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I recently returned from a 4-month rotation in Iraq. That's a long time to 'take care or your own needs by hand' and the trip home take 3 days including 5 flights, 2 overnights and shared accommodations. All the way home I was thinking about finally being able to relax and get a super deep, relaxing massage and I sure wouldn't mind a happy ending to top it off. I don't go to the commercial places because quite frankly, I like the experience to be on the 'mysterious' side and I'm guessing those places are "by the book".

Answered an ad on CL and the guy seemed pretty legit...table, shower, draping etc. Got the address and when I got there it turned out to be a small commercial office space in a 2-story building. Not totally thrilled about this because this probably meant there was going to be a receptionist, a waiting room and other people there looking at whoever else was waiting for a massage. I thought, What the heck, just go in, don't make eye contact with anyone else and try to enjoy the plain boring, draped massage with a generic soundtrack playing in the background.

Walked in front door and just 1 guy sitting at the reception desk with a 5-foot high curtain wall blocking everything behind him. Turns out the whole office was about the size of a small hotel room and he was the only one there. Nice-enough looking guy, probably in his late 40's, wearing hospital scrubs so I was anticipating a fairly mundane session.

Went behind the curtain wall, undressed and then laid on the heated table with a sheet over my bottom half. Wasn't sure of the protocol so better to play it safe. When I indicated that I was ready, the masseur came back and started the massage. He started with a few stretches and long strokes and then proceeded to get in nice and deep. I was a football running back in my earlier years and I'm still be very good shape so he had lots of muscles to work with. He even mentioned that he did n't get many clients built as solid as me. I guess 4 months overseas with very little to do except hit the gym every day has it's benefits.

The sheet came off after a few minutes when he asked me if I was warm enough. The heated table was really nice even on a hot day. While he worked my entire backside over, there was no hint of any "extra touching" so I just relegated myself to the fact that this was going to be a plain 'ole massage. Sorta relieved to think that because I was really worried about someone else walking in the front door which was a mere 10 feet from the massage table with only a small curtain separating the two. Sorta worried about it and yet sort of turned on by the fact that someone might walk in and see a massage in progress.

Flipped over on my back and he asked if I needed the sheet and I indicated that the heated table was fine so the sheet wasn't necessary. I'm totally soft at this point since I'm convinced that nothing is going to happen except for the massage. He continues to do a lot of leg stretching so naturally my junk is getting moved around a bit but his hands never get close enough to brush up against anything so now I know nothing else is 'on the menu'. I no longer need to try to send any signals to the masseur about what's OK and not OK to touch so I am now totally relaxed and just along for the ride.

My mental clock is telling me the hour is about and then he asks me if I'd like a hot towel. "Sure" I said thinking it was to wash off with. He walked over as I was still on my back and proceeded to put the super-hot moist towel on my face covering my eyes as well. He then took another hot towel and started to slowly work my abs and as he got lower and lower, I felt the incredible sensation of the hot towel surrounding my cock and balls. Total euphoria and totally unexpected. That went on for about a minute it seemed and I still had the hot towel over my eyes so I couldn't see a thing. Then it happened. I felt him grab my cock and balls at the base and proceeded to swallow it in one smooth motion. I was about half-hard after the hot towel work but the sensation of his mouth was instant bliss.

He never came up for air until he had taken my load all the way down and he even kept my manhood in his mouth until I was totally soft again. Afterwards, as I was getting up he said he hoped I didn't mind that last part but he didn't get many guys with a build like mine and he really enjoyed working on my.

I'll be back after my next rotation for sure!
That is hot, I hope there are some of them on Toronto too :eek:)
 

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Great stories. There's a local guy in my town who does both a great therapeutic and erotic massage. The massage itself is an hour of pure bliss, the guy gets every part including hands and feet, plus hot stones for the back. Incredible.

The other part is this, he does the entire massage fully nude. And this guy is fit and hung - easily an eight inch cock. There to play with anytime it's within reach of a hand or mouth. And the guy gets and stays hard - he's a busy guy so he must have fantastic endurance to get through the day. As he finishes the therapeutic portion, he starts on the balls (hot stones again) and ass, including the prostate. Then moves to a one on one body slide front and back. Feeling that big cock running along the ass or cock on cock is pretty incredible. Sometime during this sequence, never rushed, comes an intense happy ending.

Outstanding on both counts. PM if you want his URL.