Any of you big guys feel uncomfortable around bigger?

[gohn1]

I'm a pretty big guy, about 8.3 x 6, hard, and 6.5 x 5.25, soft. I almost never see guys as big as me soft and I have hung out at a lot of nude beaches, have always belonged to a gym, and attended an all male high school where we all took showers together. Well, Last year I was visiting Haulover Beach in Miami and saw this black guy that had to have a 7.5 or 8 inch soft cock. I almost couldn't believe it. What is weird is that I felt really intimidated. I remember thinking that I was really glad that my wife wasn't with me. I evidently have really over invested in the size of my dick. Since I've been young, I have been really proud of it. Obviously, I have taken this too far when I feel uncomfortable around a guy with a bigger one.

Have any other of you bigger guys ever had this kind of experience of feeling uncomfortable or intimidated around bigger guys? I feel that this site may be a good place to ask this question.

 

[BigforbiggerTO]

Wow, I can't say I relate 100% but as someone who *is* on the bigger side of average and *should* be ok with that there is always a mild element of submission on some level that comes out when someone who is bigger is around. I think most guys feel that to some degree but you just aren't used to it.

 

[rjmoody]

Yes. Totally intimidated and almost feminized by some.

 

[Zyz]

Never. I'm happy with what I've got, and know how to use it. Everyone's built differently, so I find it interesting seeing anyone with their clothes off - you never know what to expect.

Personally, I love seeing guys with bigger cocks than me. Especially if they have something else that makes them stand out, like being exceptionally thick, or having a really big juicy head. Wish I'd done more comparing in the past.

 

[Triceps]

Great verified photo @Zyz

@topic : no I like to see bigger dicks, because when I see one I tell to my own dick "you see ? I know you can do better too"

 

[Jjz1109]

Lesson learned. I have said it in the past to those of us on this site who think we are the masters of our universe. There is ALWAYS someone out there faster, smarted, wealthier, better looking . . . .and bigger. For all of these, it's usually the last one we men hope our women never came across, for whatever dumb, insecure reason.

Your day of reckoning came. Yes, it can be humbling.

 

[EquusAZ]

Heh. I've been with bigger a few times. Its not often. My current beau is an absolutely striking man. How I landed him, I have no idea. Beautiful interracial, 6'2" slightly muscular build, hairy chest and abs (legs too) and a solid 8.5" long x 5.5" (REAL not internet - I'm estimating though - I'm about 7.25" long hard - he's a good inch or more longer, but I'm thicker). Now you COULD say by volume I'm about 5% bigger, but his LOOKS bigger. Add in his taller physique and he's a hunk and a half.

Am I intimidated?

HELL NO!

I'm turned on! First guy I could even come close to saying I dated who was THAT close to me in size! That he is THAT much into me (nothing like being begged to be fucked by 'your fucking thick cock!' is awesome) is mind-blowing.

;-)

 

[alex8.5]

I'm a pretty big guy, about 8.3 x 6, hard, and 6.5 x 5.25, soft. I almost never see guys as big as me soft and I have hung out at a lot of nude beaches, have always belonged to a gym, and attended an all male high school where we all took showers together. Well, Last year I was visiting Haulover Beach in Miami and saw this black guy that had to have a 7.5 or 8 inch soft cock. I almost couldn't believe it. What is weird is that I felt really intimidated. I remember thinking that I was really glad that my wife wasn't with me. I evidently have really over invested in the size of my dick. Since I've been young, I have been really proud of it. Obviously, I have taken this too far when I feel uncomfortable around a guy with a bigger one.

Have any other of you bigger guys ever had this kind of experience of feeling uncomfortable or intimidated around bigger guys? I feel that this site may be a good place to ask this question.

Like you said, when you are born well endowed, you don't think about it, it just is what it is. You have what you have. But when I was about 20 I had one night stand with a guy who was bigger than me, and I thought OK I'm not the only freak out there.

 

[912164]

Yes. Totally intimidated and almost feminized by some.

Understandable.

 

[Mike hung]

Nope, never been naked with anyone that's outsized me. Even though I'm straight I think I'd be both impressed and curious to see a bigger cock, I would have to strike up a conversation about it for starters Lol

 

[BigBen]

Nope, never been naked with anyone that's outsized me. Even though I'm straight I think I'd be both impressed and curious to see a bigger cock, I would have to strike up a conversation about it for starters Lol

I've had many guys react and do to me exactly like you described. Natural I guess.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I'm a pretty big guy, about 8.3 x 6, hard, and 6.5 x 5.25, soft. I almost never see guys as big as me soft and I have hung out at a lot of nude beaches, have always belonged to a gym, and attended an all male high school where we all took showers together. Well, Last year I was visiting Haulover Beach in Miami and saw this black guy that had to have a 7.5 or 8 inch soft cock. I almost couldn't believe it. What is weird is that I felt really intimidated. I remember thinking that I was really glad that my wife wasn't with me. I evidently have really over invested in the size of my dick. Since I've been young, I have been really proud of it. Obviously, I have taken this too far when I feel uncomfortable around a guy with a bigger one.

Have any other of you bigger guys ever had this kind of experience of feeling uncomfortable or intimidated around bigger guys? I feel that this site may be a good place to ask this question.

The irony is that the guy you saw might not be bigger than you. I've seen my share of big showers, and they never got more than an inch longer. My experience is anecdotal, of course, but it bears out with what is in medical literature on the topics growers grow, really big showers just harden, mostly.

@topic: seen plenty bigger, smaller and similar. Doesn't phase me at all. Not sure why it should affect me or anyone...it's just a guy with a cock.

 

[Geoffrey2_0]

Haven't yet met anyone bigger than me in real non-internet life--but I would assume, though I might give it a second glance I wouldn't give it a second thought . . .

 

[Hunq]

About 8 years ago, my buddy was in town and he introduced me to his friend and sometime-beau, Cutler. (I'm calling him Cutler because that would eventually be part of his porn name.) Both were escorts but Cutler is from LA or has been here for an age. And if you're astute, you might know that Cutler has an 11" dick.

Literally, I'm an inch smaller. But I'm a single, well-endowed, Gay Black Man in LA. I'm not intimidated by Cutler, like at all. But there's this weird thing that happens.

Over the past 8 years, I've had no less than 5 men whom I've loved (to varying degrees) recount their experiences with Cutler.

Good for him for having a huge and beautiful dick. Good for them for getting expertly dicked down. But do I need to hear about it? I'm confident in my dick and my #dickgamestrong.

But isn't it rude to tell me about someone else you're sleeping with because his dick is bigger? I mean, he ain't here now.

 

[Stiffone]

When I see guys bigger or as big as I am, I'm somewhat relieved. I'm not the only one. Smaller guys make me nervous at times, was pretty big by 7th grade so showering and locker rooms came with a lot of jokes and sometimes they'd tug it. All in good fun, but made me feel like a spektical at times. Bigger guys get it, give a head nod and seem to keep it moving.

 

[simbablk]

I haven't been around too many guys who seem to be larger than me, mostly around the same size, but I am impressed by anyone who is really big as I'm usually wishing I were that big as well.

 

[shard38]

First time I encountered a cock bigger than mine was in a club in Berlin, where my friend and I both went down on this gorgeous young model. Not intimidated at all, just made me really horny. And as I was complimented by the ladies there all night on my size I couldn't care less about someone being bigger. Good for them to show and for me to play with.

 

[72361]

Uncomfortable? No.

Excited? Yes.

 

[figgnewton]

Well. I'm really impressed when I look in the mirror knowing we are the same size. Wife likes it so no problems.

 

[Nubian1]

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