hahhah very funny ^.^
Am I the only older guy who hasnt lost it yet?![]()
I have given up hope:redface: !
I have the utmost respect for your post.. thank you for sharing.I am still a virgin at 45. I am too shy and afraid of STD's for a one night stand. Sometimes I am tempted to look for a one night stand just to prove to myself that I am a real man. I just can't do it though...to afraid and shy.
I am looking for a long term relationship and until I find the right woman I guess my hands will be busy.
Am I the only older guy who hasnt lost it yet?![]()
I have given up hope:redface: !
I have the utmost respect for your post.. thank you for sharing.
- Grrrr, I'm sorry Siebie and the rest of his supporters and sympathizers, but this thread is starting to annoy the shit out of me.
- The fact you list yourself as 50%/50% is key. I think you are undecided who to fuck first for fear you will have to stick with that decision for all eternity. That's just not so. It is acceptable and normal to have both if that is what you desire.
- :tongue: Hung, you are 66, you came of age during a time when a well dressed man still wore a fedora.
- Gladwyn is correct
:soapbox:
Yup, I am getting on my soapbox. As you may have already guessed this thread struck a raw nerve.
I don't own a violin so I can't join this particular mutual admiration/pity party. I do not understand all you sexually active males rallying round to pat the initial poster on the back and tell him how great he is...for doing nothing!
I am angry because my right to such a seemingly honorable choice was taken from me. My first time having sex was as a result of being raped at 18.5 yrs of age. To add insult to injury I have had certain male LPSG members tell me my rape didn't count because I knew the guy. WTF!![]()
That said, I honestly believe that holding onto your virginity past the age of say 25 is pointless. Had I not been raped I still would have lost it in college, to a truly wonderful young man whom I met months later, just not to that evil jack ass.
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Is oral sex counted as losing it?
These guys aren't doing it to prove a point! They're keen to take the plunge but for one reason or another they've been unable to.- I honestly believe that holding onto your virginity past the age of say 25 is pointless.
These guys aren't doing it to prove a point! They're keen to take the plunge but for one reason or another they've been unable to.
I don't think the idea of losing it to a prostitute appeals to most guys (if that's what you think they should do).To a guy with low self-esteem it would be like admitting defeat and probably end up making him more depressed.