Any other younger bi guys only into older guys?

[latinluva]

I’m a bi guy in my early 30s still wrapping my head around all of my feelings. I seem to only be into guys in the 45-50+ range and not really into guys my age or younger. Anyone else in the same situation? I can’t really put my finger on the reason, but the attraction is surely there.

When I was I was 18-25, all my lovers were 35+. No Daddy issues here, I think it was more along the lines of maturity, sexual experience, spoiling me and being responsible. I am not attracted to silly guys or pretty boys. I really love that distinguish look.

 

[Bunny35]

Im 45 and a bi guy who is top would be a dream, Knowing his cock has fucked a woman before fucking my pussy would be a great challenge.....prove mine is better

 

[bkmuscledad]

Im 45 and a bi guy who is top would be a dream, Knowing his cock has fucked a woman before fucking my pussy would be a great challenge.....prove mine is better

I've been told this by guys before. Many of them are turned on by the fact that I also fuck women, and have fathered children. They seem to like the manliness of that concept.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

I think I've always had an attraction to older men. I have this idea of them being more confident and I find it attractive. The first sexual experience where I went all the way was with an older stud and he left me with a lot to remember. The sex was awesome. I tend to attract younger guys and I'm open to young men also but if I had a choice older would be my preference. I don't have daddy issues.

 

[bkmuscledad]

I think I've always had an attraction to older men. I have this idea of them being more confident and I find it attractive. The first sexual experience where I went all the way was with an older stud and he left me with a lot to remember. The sex was awesome. I tend to attract younger guys and I'm open to young men also but if I had a choice older would be my preference. I don't have daddy issues.

Any guy, of any age, would be lucky to be with you.

 

[bonerbrew]

Never been with a guy but recently decided it's time. A couple years ago I met a guy "M" at a golf outing who lives near me and is in his low to mid 20s. "M" apparently took a shine to me. He's chased me abit since then eventhough I've never let on to my bicurious desires. Offhandedly, another player in my golf group (that I didn't know) made mention in a joking fashion of "M" being into other guys. How he knew I don't know other than he knew "M" played baseball and the team itself had a reputation for taking batting practice on and off the field.

When I first shook "M"s hand he ran his middle finger along my palm. I thought this odd until months later when I read online that that move is a signal for wanting to hook up.

I'm in my mid 50s but most people assume I'm 10 years younger. Anyone I correspond with online are much closer to my age but choose not to meet out of fear of being caught and the damage it could cause. "M" is unattached as I am I currently. My interest in guys is purely cock and cum. His interest may or may not be more.

I see how this might appear due to the major age difference. I suspect "M" would be ready and willing. I convinced myself I'm too old for him but often wonder what it would be like. Has anyone been in such a position? How did you handle it? What was the outcome? BTW I don't have kids so the drama that could bring may not apply.

 

[deleted817718]

I’m a bi guy in my early 30s still wrapping my head around all of my feelings. I seem to only be into guys in the 45-50+ range and not really into guys my age or younger. Anyone else in the same situation? I can’t really put my finger on the reason, but the attraction is surely there.

It's very common and totally normal. Older guys can be really hot. When I was younger (later teens and 20's) I was really into older men. You like what you like!

 

[long_uncut]

Never been with a guy but recently decided it's time. A couple years ago I met a guy "M" at a golf outing who lives near me and is in his low to mid 20s. "M" apparently took a shine to me. He's chased me abit since then eventhough I've never let on to my bicurious desires. Offhandedly, another player in my golf group (that I didn't know) made mention in a joking fashion of "M" being into other guys. How he knew I don't know other than he knew "M" played baseball and the team itself had a reputation for taking batting practice on and off the field.

When I first shook "M"s hand he ran his middle finger along my palm. I thought this odd until months later when I read online that that move is a signal for wanting to hook up.

I'm in my mid 50s but most people assume I'm 10 years younger. Anyone I correspond with online are much closer to my age but choose not to meet out of fear of being caught and the damage it could cause. "M" is unattached as I am I currently. My interest in guys is purely cock and cum. His interest may or may not be more.

I see how this might appear due to the major age difference. I suspect "M" would be ready and willing. I convinced myself I'm too old for him but often wonder what it would be like. Has anyone been in such a position? How did you handle it? What was the outcome? BTW I don't have kids so the drama that could bring may not apply.

You could get to know him a little better. Decide if he is as discrete as you might want. A quick hookup isn't worth putting yourself at risk. I have a friend 30 years my junior...very discrete and married as I am. We don't see each other often and it was at least a year after our initial random visit (I didn't even realize his interest at that time) before we actually got together. It is all NSA between us and has worked well. The dynamic is a little different because we are both married but the same principle applies...you need to assess the maturity of this young man before going any further so you can be sure your privacy is kept.

 

[bonerbrew]

You could get to know him a little better. Decide if he is as discrete as you might want. A quick hookup isn't worth putting yourself at risk. I have a friend 30 years my junior...very discrete and married as I am. We don't see each other often and it was at least a year after our initial random visit (I didn't even realize his interest at that time) before we actually got together. It is all NSA between us and has worked well. The dynamic is a little different because we are both married but the same principle applies...you need to assess the maturity of this young man before going any further so you can be sure your privacy is kept.

Thank you for your reply! Ironically, after not running into "M" for several months he showed up at a bar I was at yesterday. We said hi but we didn't really talk. "M" doesn't usually hang out at this particular bar. I was there for pool league and I would soon discover so were a couple friends of "M" who also know me via the bar and pool league. It was abit awkward. While there I thought to myself "M" knows too many of the same people I do and it would be too easy for people I know well to find out (or suspect) if "M" (or I) inadvertently spilled all or some of the beans. For my first time I've since decided to focus on meeting someone not so close to home. Regardless, discretion is key and I'm glad to hear you have met someone you can trust. I hope to do the same.Thx, again!

 

[chancesare]

I ended up hooking up with older guys by default. Discreet and closeted to the point you where would have thought I was married or famous, I refused to send any pictures. It was older guys who were willing to take a risk on my sight unseen. As time went on, I found I really enjoy older guys. They really know how to suck a dick, are easygoing, and have intoduced me to all sorts of new ways of having fun. I have seen a couple guys my age and younger (probably 30 at the youngest) and had great times too. I have stumbled into a relationship of sorts with a guy 19 years older. I find him irresistible; I can lie with him fully clothed and precum through my jeans. I now find myself mostly looking for older guy porn too.

Once upon a time, I did have dad issues. But I got them resolved out of the bed. For me, sexual attraction to older guys was an acquired taste out of necessity. Ultimately, however, personality is most important to me.

 

[long_uncut]

Thank you for your reply! Ironically, after not running into "M" for several months he showed up at a bar I was at yesterday. We said hi but we didn't really talk. "M" doesn't usually hang out at this particular bar. I was there for pool league and I would soon discover so were a couple friends of "M" who also know me via the bar and pool league. It was abit awkward. While there I thought to myself "M" knows too many of the same people I do and it would be too easy for people I know well to find out (or suspect) if "M" (or I) inadvertently spilled all or some of the beans. For my first time I've since decided to focus on meeting someone not so close to home. Regardless, discretion is key and I'm glad to hear you have met someone you can trust. I hope to do the same.Thx, again!

I think this outcome supports your natural instinct to proceed with caution. Better to miss an opportunity than to have it turn sour in the long run. "M" is in a whole different stage of life than you are. You have worked for years to establish a reputation along with all of the key goal posts along the way. If this is going to be your first foray into the world of man to man then you are wise to work toward that in the same careful manner you have made the rest of life's journey. For "M" an experience with you might just be another notch on his belt, so to speak. You will find much greater satisfaction by finding another man who has as much to lose as you do if found out...and he might even be just down the road or around the corner. My few trusted friends all live within a few miles of me. We each have our reasons for being discrete and I never have to worry about any of them disclosing anything. We can and do see each other in public places and interact as any friends might in those situations. Good luck with your venture.

 

[MilfBanger78]

i prefer older hung guys for mutual oral. Only bad thing is sometimes they cant stay hard

 

[bonerbrew]

I think this outcome supports your natural instinct to proceed with caution. Better to miss an opportunity than to have it turn sour in the long run. "M" is in a whole different stage of life than you are. You have worked for years to establish a reputation along with all of the key goal posts along the way. If this is going to be your first foray into the world of man to man then you are wise to work toward that in the same careful manner you have made the rest of life's journey. For "M" an experience with you might just be another notch on his belt, so to speak. You will find much greater satisfaction by finding another man who has as much to lose as you do if found out...and he might even be just down the road or around the corner. My few trusted friends all live within a few miles of me. We each have our reasons for being discrete and I never have to worry about any of them disclosing anything. We can and do see each other in public places and interact as any friends might in those situations. Good luck with your venture.

Thx! It's great you have friends like that! I appreciate your advice and will pursue only when it feels right. I'd like friends with benefits as you describe and know that will require patience on my part.

 

[illadelph]

Girls can be any age, but only attracted to older guys.

 

[Razor500]

If I may provide some comments from the other perspective ... based on what I've been told, the younger guys who are attracted to me enjoy different things. Some like the security (emotional, not financial) of being with a mature guy. Some like the experience that a mature guy brings. Some like just knowing that I'm successful in other aspects of my life and are drawn to the confidence that comes with that. They love the pillow talk and the real conversations about non-sexual topics that we have. Most would say it's a combination of those things. Most would also say that they're attracted to my looks (which surprises me to be honest, seeing myself in the mirror and being honest with myself). But I think that the physical attraction is a result of the other aspects I've mentioned, and just like a good-hearted person makes an average person better looking just because he or she is good-hearted, the confidence, maturity, and secure feeling of being with an older guy makes him more physically attractive to some younger guys.

I'm an older guy, still fit, with a good head of hair and considered handsome by the comments I get. I'd be interested in making friends with a younger guy, with the hope of building a strong connection, whether it be sexual or not. Anyone out there, hmu!

 

[HorseHung40's]

It is hard to say what causes one person's attraction to another. It could be that someone is drawn to tall, muscular men, irrespective of race, education level or any other factor.

Someone else may prefer someone of an older age level than himself. The reasons for this may have to do with common interests or outlooks on life. My wife and I have friends, where the one is considerably older than the other; however, seeing them together, we just see two people, who seem to have found a soulmate in the other.

 

[WilliamG]

I was rethinking this and just thought about my day to day interactions. I'm in engineering and find myself working with the younger ones. I will say they respect my opinions and I like their new set of eyes on a project. I think with a sexual relationship it would be that same relationship.

 

[bonerbrew]

I'm hear you. I've done alot of training and even moreso mentoring of new and existing employees with most being younger than me. A few already thought they knew it all but most respected me for the knowledge and experience I had gained over many years. Many taught me things too and were a breath of fresh air.

I suspect the term respect your elders applies to an older / younger sexual relationship as well but should not be so much as to give total control to another. For me sex is best when we can share and share alike and each person remains open minded to new things regardless of our age difference. After all we are all adults.

 

[masonjames]

That's been my experience. Only been with one guy my own age. All the rest were younger. Some a lot younger

 

[bonerbrew]

That's been my experience. Only been with one guy my own age. All the rest were younger. Some a lot younger

May I ask your age and the youngest you've been with? Do the younger ones tend to approach you or how do you first meet?