Any Predominantly Straight Guys Ever Think About Being With Another Guy?

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  1. cocktaste

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    I see some people have 10% gay under their names. I'm wondering if any of those who consider themselves mainly straight, have ever wondered what it would be like to be with another guy. I'm just curious, and if you have, who was the other guy you thought about.
     
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    Yes. A friend of mine. Admiration of various traits in another male is a bitch for a straight man's self identity.
     
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    What did you actually think about doing?
     
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    Yes, I have thought about it. That's why I say I am 100% straight, because when I did think about it, it didn't appeal to me at all. Who was it? no one in particular, really. I just thought about what would it be like to fool around with another male.
     
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    Fair enough.
     
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    lol. I hope I didn't sound too harsh on the comment =/ wasn't meant to
     
  7. cocktaste

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    Not at all.
     
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    I think it's a little difficult to answer the question. Of course, I've been farther than 10% down the gay spectrum, but I was comfortable experimenting at the time. I think the 10% is a combination of how I identify myself, how I reconcile my sexual behavior, and the likelihood of whom I'll get into a serious relationship with. 10% is more like the "never say never." Though it's highly unlikely that I'd get serious with a dude and get into stuff like anal, I can't 100% say for sure. Why? I've had a guy suck my dick and it wasn't half bad...

    I think my comfort level isn't really that big a deal either; it's just unlikely to encounter (honestly) open-minded people this side of the Bible Belt.

    I'm comfortable talking about dick stuff and I'm proud of my endowment, and as long as it's consensual to me, I don't mind flashing the goods. Oral is pretty much "any port in a storm," though I'm not really in situations to find dudes who I'd scout to do that. That's about it, though. No passionate kissing, giving oral, screwin' a dude in the butt. Those just aren't for me.
     
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    Never, personally think it is revolting.
     
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    As a guy who considers himself straight (I date only girls, have sexual relations only with girls), I am not opposed to some "gay" activities. Personally when masturbating I have in the past had something small in my ass stimulating my prostate. I would never do this when I was with a girl but alone its fine to experiment sometimes.

    Also, I really enjoy masturbating with other guys. Call it high-schoolish (I'm only a sophomore in college) but some of the best orgasms I've had while jerking off were when my buds and I were all watching porn with our meats in our hands. Note: we never touched each other, but our dicks were definitely out in the open and it was very sexual in nature. Also as a side note, when watching porn, I find the bigger the tool on the guy, the more I am turned on by the porno because the girl is enjoying it more.

    Just my two cents.
     
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    Interesting.
     
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    Giving him a blow. I never did. I don't 'want' to. But if I can't say that with the right amount of alcohol I wouldn't do it.
     
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    The first time I had real erotic feelings about a guy was just after high school. It was triggered when I saw a friend of mine taking a shower. He was a little guy (maybe 5'5 or 5'6, 125 lbs.) and he had a really big dick. I was shocked. I knew him all through high school, but never knew that part about him. I swear that I wanted to drop trou right there, whip mine out and "size-up". I knew mine was definitely bigger, but he was a worthy contender. The fantasy was about me and him tag-teaming a girl together.

    It was in college when I first acted on my guy/guy feelings with my roommate. It started with the usual watching porn together, but then it evolved. The whole thing was a kick in the head for me. I never thought I would feel that strongly or enjoy the sex so much with another guy. But it was an awesome and powerful experience.
     
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    yea, i think every straight guy thinks about it.. like flahes or soemthing.. but then again doesnt mean u want or will do it.. afterward you think is disgusting.. so.. i just luv pussy.... If dont like the women there is a 50% i will eat her out.. If i like the woman dang.. i can be there for hours... ( just wanted to throw that somewhere )
     
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    You ended up having sex?
     
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    Yes, I think about it, usually when I see a big cock. I have experimented. The first time I touched another man's cock he had 9-10" and thick to my skinny 6". I liked it. We were having a 3some with a girl I really liked and I got turned on by how her pussy felt after he'd been inside her. It was a power thing I think. I mean I really liked how she was in control and fucking this guy in front of me, while I waited and then got "sloppy seconds". That was a complete turn on for me. I'm married now, but will pretty much do anything with someone we invite for a 3some (or moresome).
     
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    Nah!i dont think of it,except that there are gays and bis i met and ended up wanting to have a relationship with me..one time,there's this bi who wanted me as his boyfriend,i almost said yes coz he's ready to give me money and nice stuffs i want..hahaha..but i love my girlfriend so i turned him down..

    and i dont think i can handle a man-girl and man-man relationship at the same time..
     
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    This made me laugh! :biggrin1:
     
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    I think this kinda thing happens with everyone. Even though I pretty much figure myself a homo, I've thought about having sex with girls and have been propositioned more than once by girls.
     
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    I am also on the other side of the aisle (gay), and in my mid 40's I am having the same kinds of attractions to women that I did in my teens. I consider myself gay (say, kinsey 5) but hey, I am also human and there are alot of very hot women out there. I have been having strong fantasie lately about making love with a woman (as well as some construction workers - see my thread "Clients and tigers and bears" )

    My husband and I call it "wed, not dead"
     
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