Any Predominantly Straight Guys Ever Think About Being With Another Guy?
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WhiteZombie
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Yes. A friend of mine. Admiration of various traits in another male is a bitch for a straight man's self identity.
D_Al_K_Celtzah
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Yes, I have thought about it. That's why I say I am 100% straight, because when I did think about it, it didn't appeal to me at all. Who was it? no one in particular, really. I just thought about what would it be like to fool around with another male.
D_Al_K_Celtzah
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I think it's a little difficult to answer the question. Of course, I've been farther than 10% down the gay spectrum, but I was comfortable experimenting at the time. I think the 10% is a combination of how I identify myself, how I reconcile my sexual behavior, and the likelihood of whom I'll get into a serious relationship with. 10% is more like the "never say never." Though it's highly unlikely that I'd get serious with a dude and get into stuff like anal, I can't 100% say for sure. Why? I've had a guy suck my dick and it wasn't half bad...
I think my comfort level isn't really that big a deal either; it's just unlikely to encounter (honestly) open-minded people this side of the Bible Belt.
I'm comfortable talking about dick stuff and I'm proud of my endowment, and as long as it's consensual to me, I don't mind flashing the goods. Oral is pretty much "any port in a storm," though I'm not really in situations to find dudes who I'd scout to do that. That's about it, though. No passionate kissing, giving oral, screwin' a dude in the butt. Those just aren't for me.
I think my comfort level isn't really that big a deal either; it's just unlikely to encounter (honestly) open-minded people this side of the Bible Belt.
I'm comfortable talking about dick stuff and I'm proud of my endowment, and as long as it's consensual to me, I don't mind flashing the goods. Oral is pretty much "any port in a storm," though I'm not really in situations to find dudes who I'd scout to do that. That's about it, though. No passionate kissing, giving oral, screwin' a dude in the butt. Those just aren't for me.
As a guy who considers himself straight (I date only girls, have sexual relations only with girls), I am not opposed to some "gay" activities. Personally when masturbating I have in the past had something small in my ass stimulating my prostate. I would never do this when I was with a girl but alone its fine to experiment sometimes.
Also, I really enjoy masturbating with other guys. Call it high-schoolish (I'm only a sophomore in college) but some of the best orgasms I've had while jerking off were when my buds and I were all watching porn with our meats in our hands. Note: we never touched each other, but our dicks were definitely out in the open and it was very sexual in nature. Also as a side note, when watching porn, I find the bigger the tool on the guy, the more I am turned on by the porno because the girl is enjoying it more.
Just my two cents.
Also, I really enjoy masturbating with other guys. Call it high-schoolish (I'm only a sophomore in college) but some of the best orgasms I've had while jerking off were when my buds and I were all watching porn with our meats in our hands. Note: we never touched each other, but our dicks were definitely out in the open and it was very sexual in nature. Also as a side note, when watching porn, I find the bigger the tool on the guy, the more I am turned on by the porno because the girl is enjoying it more.
Just my two cents.
WhiteZombie
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Giving him a blow. I never did. I don't 'want' to. But if I can't say that with the right amount of alcohol I wouldn't do it.
The first time I had real erotic feelings about a guy was just after high school. It was triggered when I saw a friend of mine taking a shower. He was a little guy (maybe 5'5 or 5'6, 125 lbs.) and he had a really big dick. I was shocked. I knew him all through high school, but never knew that part about him. I swear that I wanted to drop trou right there, whip mine out and "size-up". I knew mine was definitely bigger, but he was a worthy contender. The fantasy was about me and him tag-teaming a girl together.
It was in college when I first acted on my guy/guy feelings with my roommate. It started with the usual watching porn together, but then it evolved. The whole thing was a kick in the head for me. I never thought I would feel that strongly or enjoy the sex so much with another guy. But it was an awesome and powerful experience.
It was in college when I first acted on my guy/guy feelings with my roommate. It started with the usual watching porn together, but then it evolved. The whole thing was a kick in the head for me. I never thought I would feel that strongly or enjoy the sex so much with another guy. But it was an awesome and powerful experience.
yea, i think every straight guy thinks about it.. like flahes or soemthing.. but then again doesnt mean u want or will do it.. afterward you think is disgusting.. so.. i just luv pussy.... If dont like the women there is a 50% i will eat her out.. If i like the woman dang.. i can be there for hours... ( just wanted to throw that somewhere )
D_Suckleberry Hound
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Yes, I think about it, usually when I see a big cock. I have experimented. The first time I touched another man's cock he had 9-10" and thick to my skinny 6". I liked it. We were having a 3some with a girl I really liked and I got turned on by how her pussy felt after he'd been inside her. It was a power thing I think. I mean I really liked how she was in control and fucking this guy in front of me, while I waited and then got "sloppy seconds". That was a complete turn on for me. I'm married now, but will pretty much do anything with someone we invite for a 3some (or moresome).
Nah!i dont think of it,except that there are gays and bis i met and ended up wanting to have a relationship with me..one time,there's this bi who wanted me as his boyfriend,i almost said yes coz he's ready to give me money and nice stuffs i want..hahaha..but i love my girlfriend so i turned him down..
and i dont think i can handle a man-girl and man-man relationship at the same time..
and i dont think i can handle a man-girl and man-man relationship at the same time..
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I am also on the other side of the aisle (gay), and in my mid 40's I am having the same kinds of attractions to women that I did in my teens. I consider myself gay (say, kinsey 5) but hey, I am also human and there are alot of very hot women out there. I have been having strong fantasie lately about making love with a woman (as well as some construction workers - see my thread "Clients and tigers and bears" )
My husband and I call it "wed, not dead"
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