Any Predominantly Straight Guys Ever Think About Being With Another Guy?

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The first time I had real erotic feelings about a guy was just after high school. It was triggered when I saw a friend of mine taking a shower. He was a little guy (maybe 5'5 or 5'6, 125 lbs.) and he had a really big dick. I was shocked. I knew him all through high school, but never knew that part about him. I swear that I wanted to drop trou right there, whip mine out and "size-up". I knew mine was definitely bigger, but he was a worthy contender. The fantasy was about me and him tag-teaming a girl together.

It was in college when I first acted on my guy/guy feelings with my roommate. It started with the usual watching porn together, but then it evolved. The whole thing was a kick in the head for me. I never thought I would feel that strongly or enjoy the sex so much with another guy. But it was an awesome and powerful experience.
 
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ANOTHER STRAIGHT GUY'S STORY

In my late teens and early 20s, I dated girls/women and enjoyed being affectionate and flirtatious with them. Every now and then, I'd get lucky and hit a home run. I was down with oral or intercourse. I liked it all!

The idea of me not being "normal" (straight) never crossed my mind until I was 25 and had the admiration thing going on with my best friend. He was an accomplished athlete - 6'4" with a chisled body like the Statue of David. We had crazy chemistry and became inseparable friends. He was my coach and got me into the gym and running. I was in great physical condition within a few months. We pushed each other hard and got really buffed out. There was a strong magnetism between us. A year later, we crossed the line and were full on physical. We never kissed, but we loved eachother intensely and had unreal sex. I would fuck him, get off, and then flip him over and finish him orally. We both continued to date women, yet had a great relationship for 6 years. Over time, I stopped dating and wanted just him; he wanted kids. Ultimately, he got married so we went back to being friends. We're still friends today.

I've found that I'm a difficult guy to define. All of my guy friends are straight and married. I don't really fit in with the gay crowd socially and find myself being drawn to athletic, butch straight guys all the time. I have several wonderful women friends, but I wouldn't want to be in a romantic relationship with them. I'd like a guy for a partner - no question about it. That's why when I joined LPSG, I chose 100% gay.


Your story and my story are exact parallels! It was not until my mid twenties that I realized that I was not going to marry a woman!:smile: :smile: :smile:
 
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Though I am married and consider myself pretty much straight, I also really can get into sharing my sexuality with another guy. At the gym, being naked around other guys always gets me semi hard. I'm a grower, and so its obvious to anyone who takes a look what's happening. If a guy (or guys) are checking me out as I hang heavy, you can be sure I'll bone up, which gets me so hot and almost in an alpha like state. Walking around the locker room, sitting in the sauna or showering with the guys with a throbbing erection is a great sensation. I act like it's perfectly natural to be boned up (isn't it?). If some dude gives me an admiring glance, I'll give it a stroke or two and the expression on my face will let him know just how much I love my dick and just how good it feels and how happy it makes me. If other guys join me in boning up, so much the better, there is nothing as bonding as a bunch of guys showing each other their sexual their selves and sharing their sexual power. Just hanging out in the sauna or showering down with our cocks fully hard is great, when it results in a circle jerk it can be very empowering. Shared masculine sexuality can generate a great deal of heat.
 
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Have had three male partners in long term relationships during my time on earth. Have been married for many, many, years and thus have appeared to the world as a typical heterosexual man.

But, the question is do I ever think about it. Yes, I think about it often since my partners were all great persons as well as being great partners in sex. One night stands are not for me and I genuinely loved my partners and they remain best friends to this day. When sex comes about as a sort of a sealing, confirming, affirming act it is the best sex I can imagine and it only got better with each repitition.

I suspect that's why some of us indicate more than a slight percentage on the gay side of our sexuality. The brain is a potent sex organ and those of us who live as heterosexuals often have wonderful memories of the time we spent exploring and enjoying that other side of our sexuality. One doesn't banish the experience of that other side of one's sexuality from one's thinking.
 
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Yes, I have thought about it. That's why I say I am 100% straight, because when I did think about it, it didn't appeal to me at all. Who was it? no one in particular, really. I just thought about what would it be like to fool around with another male.
 

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I think it's a little difficult to answer the question. Of course, I've been farther than 10% down the gay spectrum, but I was comfortable experimenting at the time. I think the 10% is a combination of how I identify myself, how I reconcile my sexual behavior, and the likelihood of whom I'll get into a serious relationship with. 10% is more like the "never say never." Though it's highly unlikely that I'd get serious with a dude and get into stuff like anal, I can't 100% say for sure. Why? I've had a guy suck my dick and it wasn't half bad...

I think my comfort level isn't really that big a deal either; it's just unlikely to encounter (honestly) open-minded people this side of the Bible Belt.

I'm comfortable talking about dick stuff and I'm proud of my endowment, and as long as it's consensual to me, I don't mind flashing the goods. Oral is pretty much "any port in a storm," though I'm not really in situations to find dudes who I'd scout to do that. That's about it, though. No passionate kissing, giving oral, screwin' a dude in the butt. Those just aren't for me.
 

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As a guy who considers himself straight (I date only girls, have sexual relations only with girls), I am not opposed to some "gay" activities. Personally when masturbating I have in the past had something small in my ass stimulating my prostate. I would never do this when I was with a girl but alone its fine to experiment sometimes.

Also, I really enjoy masturbating with other guys. Call it high-schoolish (I'm only a sophomore in college) but some of the best orgasms I've had while jerking off were when my buds and I were all watching porn with our meats in our hands. Note: we never touched each other, but our dicks were definitely out in the open and it was very sexual in nature. Also as a side note, when watching porn, I find the bigger the tool on the guy, the more I am turned on by the porno because the girl is enjoying it more.

Just my two cents.
 

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As a guy who considers himself straight (I date only girls, have sexual relations only with girls), I am not opposed to some "gay" activities. Personally when masturbating I have in the past had something small in my ass stimulating my prostate. I would never do this when I was with a girl but alone its fine to experiment sometimes.

Also, I really enjoy masturbating with other guys. Call it high-schoolish (I'm only a sophomore in college) but some of the best orgasms I've had while jerking off were when my buds and I were all watching porn with our meats in our hands. Note: we never touched each other, but our dicks were definitely out in the open and it was very sexual in nature. Also as a side note, when watching porn, I find the bigger the tool on the guy, the more I am turned on by the porno because the girl is enjoying it more.

Just my two cents.

Interesting.
 

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yea, i think every straight guy thinks about it.. like flahes or soemthing.. but then again doesnt mean u want or will do it.. afterward you think is disgusting.. so.. i just luv pussy.... If dont like the women there is a 50% i will eat her out.. If i like the woman dang.. i can be there for hours... ( just wanted to throw that somewhere )
 

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The first time I had real erotic feelings about a guy was just after high school. It was triggered when I saw a friend of mine taking a shower. He was a little guy (maybe 5'5 or 5'6, 125 lbs.) and he had a really big dick. I was shocked. I knew him all through high school, but never knew that part about him. I swear that I wanted to drop trou right there, whip mine out and "size-up". I knew mine was definitely bigger, but he was a worthy contender. The fantasy was about me and him tag-teaming a girl together.

It was in college when I first acted on my guy/guy feelings with my roommate. It started with the usual watching porn together, but then it evolved. The whole thing was a kick in the head for me. I never thought I would feel that strongly or enjoy the sex so much with another guy. But it was an awesome and powerful experience.

You ended up having sex?
 

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Yes, I think about it, usually when I see a big cock. I have experimented. The first time I touched another man's cock he had 9-10" and thick to my skinny 6". I liked it. We were having a 3some with a girl I really liked and I got turned on by how her pussy felt after he'd been inside her. It was a power thing I think. I mean I really liked how she was in control and fucking this guy in front of me, while I waited and then got "sloppy seconds". That was a complete turn on for me. I'm married now, but will pretty much do anything with someone we invite for a 3some (or moresome).
 

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Nah!i dont think of it,except that there are gays and bis i met and ended up wanting to have a relationship with me..one time,there's this bi who wanted me as his boyfriend,i almost said yes coz he's ready to give me money and nice stuffs i want..hahaha..but i love my girlfriend so i turned him down..

and i dont think i can handle a man-girl and man-man relationship at the same time..