Any Predominantly Straight Guys Ever Think About Being With Another Guy?

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not only thought about it-- i actually pursued it---my first sexual experience with another man came about during a massage--given by a professioanl masseuse--after a basketball tournament at The New York Health and Racquet Club--
 

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i gave another guy a massage ad i got hard just doing it that was when i knew that i had feelings for guys
 

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im pretty straight, but i have been jerked off by, and have considered giving head to a friend of mine who is also straight, but we're in college and are curious, i dont think there is anything gay if ur not seriously interested
 

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Though I am married and consider myself pretty much straight, I also really can get into sharing my sexuality with another guy. At the gym, being naked around other guys always gets me semi hard. I'm a grower, and so its obvious to anyone who takes a look what's happening. If a guy (or guys) are checking me out as I hang heavy, you can be sure I'll bone up, which gets me so hot and almost in an alpha like state. Walking around the locker room, sitting in the sauna or showering with the guys with a throbbing erection is a great sensation. I act like it's perfectly natural to be boned up (isn't it?). If some dude gives me an admiring glance, I'll give it a stroke or two and the expression on my face will let him know just how much I love my dick and just how good it feels and how happy it makes me. If other guys join me in boning up, so much the better, there is nothing as bonding as a bunch of guys showing each other their sexual their selves and sharing their sexual power. Just hanging out in the sauna or showering down with our cocks fully hard is great, when it results in a circle jerk it can be very empowering. Shared masculine sexuality can generate a great deal of heat.
 
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Have had three male partners in long term relationships during my time on earth. Have been married for many, many, years and thus have appeared to the world as a typical heterosexual man.

But, the question is do I ever think about it. Yes, I think about it often since my partners were all great persons as well as being great partners in sex. One night stands are not for me and I genuinely loved my partners and they remain best friends to this day. When sex comes about as a sort of a sealing, confirming, affirming act it is the best sex I can imagine and it only got better with each repitition.

I suspect that's why some of us indicate more than a slight percentage on the gay side of our sexuality. The brain is a potent sex organ and those of us who live as heterosexuals often have wonderful memories of the time we spent exploring and enjoying that other side of our sexuality. One doesn't banish the experience of that other side of one's sexuality from one's thinking.
 
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I had to think twice before complicating things more with a response but here we go. I grew up pretty much bi. I liked some girlie things but not all, I liked some boy things but not all, I didn't have a good bond with either of my parents, I always saw the gray side of issues. Being different from girls and from boys turned me introverted and lonely, plus I didn't grow up with enough looks to make me feel better. Sexually I never or hardly ever even then fantasize about a woman on her own, it was always a woman being banged by a huge cock, that was how impressive my first porn movie was to me. Dating women, as you'd have imagined by now, would prove to be a painful experience. I wasn't goodlooking, I was awkward, I wasn't Tom Selleck. But...men had their minds on cocks, and I had one. I peed with it at a public toilet and noticed another man's admiration of it. Before I could walk away he called me back, whispered "Wow, that's a really nice cock. Lemme suck it." So there I was, being admired for the first time, feeling good about myself for the first time, and THEN sucked for the first time, and that man knew what he was doing I can tell you that. The rest is history, 3 m2m relationships, better oral skills, and a happy anus later, one would think the story ends. But no. I became single again and caught the eye of a girl. She wouldn't stop, I just let her, I thought, "Well, I won't get hard anyway, that'll stop her." But I did. And MAN! her pussy was better than any ass or mouth my penis has ever been. So we went steady, and I was the happiest horniest man in the world. Once a month, I'd go to the nearest cruising spot to go back to "my boys", get my male energy fix, suck some good cock. Anonymous sex rules. Years later, I meet another girl, was I getting more attractive? I don't know, but we didn't talk much, she had only one thing on her mind, she sucked me like a man, being a pretty good sucker myself, she earned my two thumbs up. We fucked, and fucked again. Now I have a wife, suck loads of cock on the side, and cheat with a woman I hardly know. I'm beginning to fantasize about women again, this time on their own, no cocks around. One thing's for sure, my biggest turn on is the casualness of sex, and more men are more casual about it than women, hence, more male partners for me. Bottom line for me by now is that you can't measure sexuality based on frequency or number of partners first of all. 2nd, sexuality for the majority of us isn't as rigid at birth as we think, it is controlled and molded by social factors, 3rd, M2M sexual dynamic is so much simpler than M2F, 4th, that that is slowly changing. Anonymous casual str8 sex will no longer be an exclusive privilege for the chiselled god's gift to women types, losers like me will be able to get some of that too, and hopefully with slightly more attractive women. haha. Perhaps in the future this will mean that some guys who would've been exclusively straight will be a lot more gay, and some who would've been exclusively gay will be a lot more straight, despite genetic predispositions. But then you'll never know until you try. Find a non-judgemental environment, or situation, and then try it out, go suck cock, get fucked, don't worry about losing your manhood, because gay or straight, ultimately, the greater majority of us (especially the men I think) will enjoy any form of sex! (Although anal can be quite a shocker...there are tricks and techniques out there, lucky for me I've been blessed with a supple sphincter muscle, so don't ask me for advice, anal is not for beginners). So, personally it's been tricky deciding my sexuality because not every factor exerts equal pressure on either gender.

Socially, I like my straight friends because they don't discriminate against me, I'm as straight as they'd want me to be without having to play football. My gay friends turn their backs because they want me to forget about pussy, since most of are repulsed by it, are they jealous? I don't know. But I certainly can't handle all their viscious back biting and gossip. But in homage to them and all the cocks I've enjoyed sucking, I've rated myself 60% gay. I've stopped figuring it out to be perfectly honest, so I suggest you all just go out there and enjoy the best of everything.

Peace!


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It is a similar story for me. I have always been hetero, but a year or so
ago I started being fascinted by big dicks (it all started at a gym).
I must confess I have now a sort of adoration for hung guys.
There is this colleague of mine that I started being particularly kind
with since I spotted him in the bathroom.. We hang out together from time
to time (on a purely non-sexual basis) and I cannot help being extra
nice to him...
 

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For those guys who responded to this thread that they are totally straight and repulsed by the idea of sex with a guy, I'm just wondering why you are subscribed to a forum about big cocks? If you are interested in other guys' cocks -- then you must have had some fantasies or sexual thoughts about them, otherwise what's the attraction?
I'm not accusing anyone of covering up. Just trying to understand. I know it's really difficult for straight men to confront sexual attraction to other men. Even in today's more liberal world, there is huge stigma attached to man-to-man sex. Straight men often hate to even mention it, even if they are ok with friends who are gay, they don't like to think about the sexual side.
 

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I concider myself 100% str8 because I only date or have sex with women. I've never touched another guy or done anything sexual with one. but I have always been turned on by the concept of competing masculinity. The idea of comparing with friends and then Jerking off is a hot idea for me. But I have never done so because of the fear that they would not be into it or that if it happened it would change our friendship.

The idea of having sex in the same room with a buddy is also hot. Not a threesome, but with a woman for each of us. Both in missionary on the same double bed or in two twin beds is a hot idea. But again, it will never happen. It is just a fantasy. And it fits in nicely with the concept of masculine competition and mutual respect.

I dont know, what do you guys think?
 

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Interesting because I'm gay and very much turned on by the idea of competing with another man. In my case though, the competition is sexual and I love the idea of competing for dominance -- not s/m or anything like that -- but simply to see who will be on top, who is the bigger dick, who is the stronger, etc. Male to male competition is a big turn on for me too.
 

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For those guys who responded to this thread that they are totally straight and repulsed by the idea of sex with a guy, I'm just wondering why you are subscribed to a forum about big cocks? If you are interested in other guys' cocks -- then you must have had some fantasies or sexual thoughts about them, otherwise what's the attraction?
I'm not accusing anyone of covering up. Just trying to understand. I know it's really difficult for straight men to confront sexual attraction to other men. Even in today's more liberal world, there is huge stigma attached to man-to-man sex. Straight men often hate to even mention it, even if they are ok with friends who are gay, they don't like to think about the sexual side.

I don't think anyone actually said that.
 

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I've jacked off a guy while he jacked me off. We were friends in high school...I'm not gay but we figured what the hell and tried it. He couldn't get over the fact he couldn't wrap his hand around mine, that was kinda empowering.
 

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For those guys who responded to this thread that they are totally straight and repulsed by the idea of sex with a guy, I'm just wondering why you are subscribed to a forum about big cocks? If you are interested in other guys' cocks -- then you must have had some fantasies or sexual thoughts about them, otherwise what's the attraction?
I'm not accusing anyone of covering up. Just trying to understand. I know it's really difficult for straight men to confront sexual attraction to other men. Even in today's more liberal world, there is huge stigma attached to man-to-man sex. Straight men often hate to even mention it, even if they are ok with friends who are gay, they don't like to think about the sexual side.


Im a member because I wanted to talk about life with a big penis. All the perks and quirks.

It seem that there is quiet a few guys on here that have a hard time, that a guy can be totally straight with no sexual thoughts about men. You may be attracted to men, but not all guys feel the same way.
I personally think Kinsy was right about his scale. All men fall in the scale from 0-10. Guys that are 0 are completely straight, with no fellings for men.

Dudes do nothing for me at all. I dont even look at them as sexual beings. A naked guy does nothing for me. Its not gross or hot, its just a naked guy, who cares. Now a hot naked lady, Ill have a errection in a minute and old naked lady, Ill be scared for life.
 

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yea, i think every straight guy thinks about it.. like flahes or soemthing.. but then again doesnt mean u want or will do it.. afterward you think is disgusting.. so.. i just luv pussy.... If dont like the women there is a 50% i will eat her out.. If i like the woman dang.. i can be there for hours... ( just wanted to throw that somewhere )

I can sort of agree with the disgusting part but from a total different view. I have had sex with a girl 1 time in my life, and I was drunk then. I can admire a girl, and sure I know if a girl is cute or not, but sex and a girl never enter my mind. I do admit sometimes I wonder would I be just as good in bed with a girl vs a guy. However I do not have the temptation to try.
 

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Hey,

I'm 40m, married for 13 years and never done anything with another guy. I'm probably average to slightly below average in endowment (5.5 inches). I have lately been fantasizing about seeing my wife with another guy (preferably hung aggressive guy) and being submissive to them. Not turned on by guys in general, but guys with big cocks definitely get my fantasies ingnited. For me, the turn on is the implied power. I fantasize a lot about guy having me "get him ready" for my wife with my mouth. Love the humiliation also of being compared to him as he fucks my wife (by her and him)....... my $0.02


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I think between some guys who are genuinely 100% straight, there is a huge wide spectrum of guys between that, and others who are 100% gay. And i dont think there is any problem with that.

It comes down to the key issue of whether anyone can be 100% satisfied with just one person or one sexual role throughout the whole of their life.

You could have a guy who is 80% straight, yet once in a while may wish to enjoy either real or fantasy gay activities. And there is nothing wrong with this in my view.

As humans we seem to be SOO FOCUSED on needing to label people and things - as gay, bi, straight - everything into clear boxes - whereas life and sexuality is far more complex than that.

Just cos a straight guy may have sex with a man once in his life, dont make him gay, just makes him exploring his sexuality and experiences,

live and let live I say :smile:
 

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I totally agree with Damian on this one.

I've shagged quite a few women in the past. I even lived with one for over two years and nearly got married, but I'm glad that didn't happen for her sake and mine.

I'm not ruling out going back to women at some point in the future, but for now, I'm happy with guys. At the end of the day, for me, it's about the person. Their gender isn't really that important. What matters is the relationship you have with them.