Any Tips/exercises To Learn To Have Painless Anal Sex And Maintain Erection?

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I love anal, especially in the doggy-style position.

Sometimes it doesn't hurt, however, I don't exactly feel any ''excitement'' or get stimulated by it, to the point that, if I don't touch myself, I go soft very quickly.

And then I see videos of guys getting fucked and staying hard the entire time and some of them even cum without touching themselves!

I guess some of them maybe have been born with a very easily-stimulated prostate, however, I was wondering if you guys had any tips to actually enjoy bottoming and getting real pleasure from it?
 
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Some people just don't get much stimulation from anal sex. When I first started it wasn't comfortable and it took months before I actually did it without discomfort. I rarely get fucked these days. I enjoy it for the physical intimacy aspect, but I don't get much true sexual pleasure out of it. It may be that it just isn't for you.
 

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Some people just don't get much stimulation from anal sex. When I first started it wasn't comfortable and it took months before I actually did it without discomfort. I rarely get fucked these days. I enjoy it for the physical intimacy aspect, but I don't get much true sexual pleasure out of it. It may be that it just isn't for you.

yeah, that's what I was afraid about... that maybe my body ''wasn't designed'' to be able to enjoy anal... which is a shame since I am like 70% bottom lol
 
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I love anal, especially in the doggy-style position.

Sometimes it doesn't hurt, however, I don't exactly feel any ''excitement'' or get stimulated by it, to the point that, if I don't touch myself, I go soft very quickly.

And then I see videos of guys getting fucked and staying hard the entire time and some of them even cum without touching themselves!

I guess some of them maybe have been born with a very easily-stimulated prostate, however, I was wondering if you guys had any tips to actually enjoy bottoming and getting real pleasure from it?
Lots of foreplay, being relaxed and hard, body contact and you'll love being fucked doggy or any other position, we all have our preferred positions for being mounted but it does give dividends to open your legs different ways, even the old missionary can be fun.
Personally I never lose my erection and do cum hands free when being shagged and expect the guy I shag as well to be the same.
As for the porn, well don't believe for a moment its real, sometimes filmed over several sessions, using multi cameras means you can repeat things and yep they seem to enjoy taking big things but look at the eyes on the bottoms and you'll see they are a bit wild...
 

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I’m with @Infernal on this one. I’m temperamentally a top, but have occasionally tried to bottom for the sense of intimacy with a long term partner, or simply to be a good sport.

Zero Zip Nada. I sometimes joke that I have a tin-can ass. If you ask my ageing bladder, my prostate feels like it must be the size of a grapefruit; but for sex, the blasted organ plays hide and seek. I scarcely feel a prostate exam at the doctors, either.

Just to give it the good ol’ college try, I once dropped a few bucks on a fancy vibrating prostate stimulator. Not a shred of difference for me, but your mileage may vary. It’s worth a shot.
 

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yeah, that's what I was afraid about... that maybe my body ''wasn't designed'' to be able to enjoy anal... which is a shame since I am like 70% bottom lol

you can try to “rewire” your body to see if you can discover what brings you pleasure. Buy a bunch of different toys of different sizes and shapes and try them out. Try different positions while using them. When you find something that works explore that more and see where it goes. If nothing works then anal sex really isn’t for you but at least you tried. Then turn the tables. Find someone to fuck in different positions and you might find you enjoy being a too much more. I love doggy style and grabbing into a guy by his hips and giving it to him from behind is great. Getting fucked doggy style hurts like hell.