Any tips for first time topper?

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Hi all..I’ve been recently having some fun with this one guy (just j/o and Bj buddy thus far). We plan to hang out again tomorrow night and been chatting over text for me to top him. I’ve been with girls but never topped or bottomed with a guy. Is there anything I should know, ensure I do, or anything specifically really hot to do? For some background, he’s 28y0, 6”0, black, skinny/lanky, massive hands, really long cock (like 8.5x5). I’m only 6x5 so he’s quite bigger. Obviously will be wrapping up and we’re both clear of anything.
 

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Communicate. It's excellent that you've already agreed to use condoms. Have several on hand because once usually isn't enough. :)

Talk about when & where in advance so he has time to clean out before you hook up. Sounds like he has bottomed before so he knows what he needs to do to prepare. Know in advance if he wants to top you as well. Is kissing okay? No surprises. Talk about lubricant. I recommend using a lube injector. Don't just jam your cock in. Go slow. I'm big so I let bottoms straddle me so they control how much they take how fast--especially the first time we do it but that's a good rule for any size cock. Other than that just communicate what you like or don't like with each other and enjoy a good fuck. :cool:
 

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Communicate. It's excellent that you've already agreed to use condoms. Have several on hand because once usually isn't enough. :)

Talk about when & where in advance so he has time to clean out before you hook up. Sounds like he has bottomed before so he knows what he needs to do to prepare. Know in advance if he wants to top you as well. Is kissing okay? No surprises. Talk about lubricant. I recommend using a lube injector. Don't just jam your cock in. Go slow. I'm big so I let bottoms straddle me so they control how much they take how fast--especially the first time we do it but that's a good rule for any size cock. Other than that just communicate what you like or don't like with each other and enjoy a good fuck. :cool:
Thanks :)

Im not comfortable being bottom so we’ll just stick to me topping. I haven’t shot a load in over a week so told him so hopefully I don’t cum too fast lol. Any positions to make sure I do or any that are hot when the bottom has a huge/long cock?

I will be going to his place tonight and will sure to share details tomorrow. :)
 

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Hi all..I’ve been recently having some fun with this one guy (just j/o and Bj buddy thus far). We plan to hang out again tomorrow night and been chatting over text for me to top him. I’ve been with girls but never topped or bottomed with a guy. Is there anything I should know, ensure I do, or anything specifically really hot to do? For some background, he’s 28y0, 6”0, black, skinny/lanky, massive hands, really long cock (like 8.5x5). I’m only 6x5 so he’s quite bigger. Obviously will be wrapping up and we’re both clear of anything.
I'll add to what others haven't said. Go super slow and easy on entry. If he has bottomed alot let him pick the position If you aren't sure. I gave my guy a ton of foreplay in his ass. He was a Virgin. It helped alot. Go slow and communicate. Experienced bottoms will help you be a good top. Being a good top, means you need to be a bottom a couple times.
 

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As a bottom I would give patience & consideration as my one & two on the list to any budding top. They sound boring but a slow start can lead to some mind numbing, balls deep fun later. Go at it like a racehorse out of the stalls and the whole thing can easily get spoilt. Remember, most porn movies are edited to only show the pounding, they cut out the slow preparation.
 

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OK well that was fun! Here’s all the details :)

Went to his place last night. We’ve hung out before so knew each other already. We decided to shower together first to get us all cleaned. We agreed not to let each other cum so we can enjoy in the bed fully. Afterwards we made our way to his bed and we did kiss for first time. We hooked up for quite a bit before anything else and foreplay as well. I can’t get enough of his huge cock so I sucked him for a bit. Can easily wrap both my hands on his long cock which is a huge turn on. He’s rather femine but in the bed he definitely likes to be controlling and sort of masculine.

Finally he got on all fours and slid in slowly. He’s taking bigger cocks before so mine was a walk in the park lol. I still went slow at first but then he gave me direction to basically pound away. I was a bit nervous. I’m not the longest laster but here I was due to nerves. I was fucking him in doggy for a bit. Hearing him moan was so fucking hot. He wanted to go on top next and ride. He got on top and all I could stare at was his face moaning and his ridiculously long hard cock swinging back and forth. I ended up cumming inside him pretty hard. I was upset I came first but he didn’t care and we hooked up for 10 mins and then went back at in missionary where he came on my stomach/chest as I was balls deep hovering on top of him. He doesn’t have the largest loads but they are really thick. It was fun. He asked me afterwards if I’m ready for his and I wasn’t yet. I’m not sure when or if at all but this was fun. :)
 

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OK well that was fun! Here’s all the details :)

Went to his place last night. We’ve hung out before so knew each other already. We decided to shower together first to get us all cleaned. We agreed not to let each other cum so we can enjoy in the bed fully. Afterwards we made our way to his bed and we did kiss for first time. We hooked up for quite a bit before anything else and foreplay as well. I can’t get enough of his huge cock so I sucked him for a bit. Can easily wrap both my hands on his long cock which is a huge turn on. He’s rather femine but in the bed he definitely likes to be controlling and sort of masculine.

Finally he got on all fours and slid in slowly. He’s taking bigger cocks before so mine was a walk in the park lol. I still went slow at first but then he gave me direction to basically pound away. I was a bit nervous. I’m not the longest laster but here I was due to nerves. I was fucking him in doggy for a bit. Hearing him moan was so fucking hot. He wanted to go on top next and ride. He got on top and all I could stare at was his face moaning and his ridiculously long hard cock swinging back and forth. I ended up cumming inside him pretty hard. I was upset I came first but he didn’t care and we hooked up for 10 mins and then went back at in missionary where he came on my stomach/chest as I was balls deep hovering on top of him. He doesn’t have the largest loads but they are really thick. It was fun. He asked me afterwards if I’m ready for his and I wasn’t yet. I’m not sure when or if at all but this was fun. :)
Thanks for the update. Glad you had fun.
 
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