Any tips for taking a girl's virginity?

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  1. Liberal Texan

    Liberal Texan New Member

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    I'm not THAT hung (7"x5.5"), but this girl is pretty innocent and I suspect her hymen is still intact. Any tips to minimize the pain for her?
     
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    Taker slow, real slow.... lots of foreplay before hand.. and see if u can finger her.. you really need to loosen her up. U may want to have a night before the actual penetration that is just oral or fingering. The next night, do the same thing.. but get then u can do the whole penetration thing. just slow.
     
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    If she is a virgin, then just remember that it is her big day. You need to be sensitive and responsive to her wishes. She may be timid, she may give it the Alamo treatment - you can't tell till you get there. She may not even be tight, she may not think its a big deal.

    But whichever way you find her going, go with her. There was a thread somewhere else about a three finger rule for guys with 6+ girth. If you find two fingers are tight with her then you'll need to go slow slow slow.
     
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    Good advice above.....also don't have the mindset that you're "taking her virginity"........you are actually giving her something.
     
  5. Liberal Texan

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    Alright, thanks. I'll definitely be very slow and make sure she's very aroused, and finger her beforehand.
     
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    You already had good advice. Resist the urge to get her really drunk, she'll regret it if she does.
     
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    If you're really thick by any chance, take extra precaution, possibly even a sort of lube. My first it took a LOT of work to go in because of the girth (I am not beercan but close enough). I worked her up, but she'd still get a bit nervous and we would just wait and push it back. Eventually we got it, but I suggest: Taking LOTS of time, making sure SHE is comfortable, and do not make her feel like shes doing something wrong or that its her fault everything doesn't "go in" right.
     
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    Get her drunk, then SIIHP.
     
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    Dont rush it, slow down with her, ask her how she's doing, reassure her alot , and listen when she askes for help. Oh yeah, and use some form of lube quite liberally.

    Remember, she's going to new at this so she needs all the help time & patience you can offer,ok?
     
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    P.S.=You DO have a big dick.
     
  11. Bill UK

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    I echo all the sentiments above, I'm sure you'll both have a great time...it's been 2 or 3 years since I made love to a virgin, and it was a little strange, she took me in very easily (and I'm about 7" around") you may doubt she was a virgin, but it was clear she was. Funnily enough I saw her about a year ago and she told me "I didn't realise how well hung you were!" So my point is it won't always be an awkward painful situation for her.
     
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    Not all females have hymens, as they
    might be quite thin and were torn
    and disappeared at a younger age.

    I would suggest plenty of kissing and
    gentle touch all over her body as you
    undress her. Compliment her on her
    body and tell her how wonderful she
    is making you feel. Remember, for
    many women, words are a good tool
    to utilise in arousal as we are supposed
    to be more verbal and less visual (not
    me but I digress!).

    Kiss her body everywhere and give her
    oral. She may not cum because it is all
    going to be new activities and sensations
    but it will show her how much you want
    her. Then, possibly gently introduce the
    fingers, so she will become more
    accustomed to the feeling of penetration.

    You are going to be her first and you can
    make it a beautiful experience for her if
    you take your time and make her ache,
    so she wants you inside of her.

    Good luck and have fun.
     
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    Smile a lot
     
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    Even mine?
     
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    fuck fuck fuck is that all people think about... oh yeah they do
     
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    jus take it easy. be good and behave, pretty much wot every1 else here has said
     
  17. Shelby

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    put your penis in her vagina
     
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    my thoughts exactly shelby...
     
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    ok what you should do is line your penis up with the opening to her vagina and with all your might ram it in until your balls deep. then pull out really fast. filp her over and line your penis up with her little brown eye and slam your penis in as fast as you can then pull it out super fast. (note: only do that if you dont like her.)

    if you like her take it slow
     
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    you kno how it is, fuck fuck and fuck. its only human right!!!!
     
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