Any tips for taking a girl's virginity?

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I'm not THAT hung (7"x5.5"), but this girl is pretty innocent and I suspect her hymen is still intact. Any tips to minimize the pain for her?
 

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Taker slow, real slow.... lots of foreplay before hand.. and see if u can finger her.. you really need to loosen her up. U may want to have a night before the actual penetration that is just oral or fingering. The next night, do the same thing.. but get then u can do the whole penetration thing. just slow.
 

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If she is a virgin, then just remember that it is her big day. You need to be sensitive and responsive to her wishes. She may be timid, she may give it the Alamo treatment - you can't tell till you get there. She may not even be tight, she may not think its a big deal.

But whichever way you find her going, go with her. There was a thread somewhere else about a three finger rule for guys with 6+ girth. If you find two fingers are tight with her then you'll need to go slow slow slow.
 

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Lordpendragon said:
If she is a virgin, then just remember that it is her big day. You need to be sensitive and responsive to her wishes. She may be timid, she may give it the Alamo treatment - you can't tell till you get there. She may not even be tight, she may not think its a big deal.

But whichever way you find her going, go with her. There was a thread somewhere else about a three finger rule for guys with 6+ girth. If you find two fingers are tight with her then you'll need to go slow slow slow.

Good advice above.....also don't have the mindset that you're "taking her virginity"........you are actually giving her something.
 

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If you're really thick by any chance, take extra precaution, possibly even a sort of lube. My first it took a LOT of work to go in because of the girth (I am not beercan but close enough). I worked her up, but she'd still get a bit nervous and we would just wait and push it back. Eventually we got it, but I suggest: Taking LOTS of time, making sure SHE is comfortable, and do not make her feel like shes doing something wrong or that its her fault everything doesn't "go in" right.
 

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Dont rush it, slow down with her, ask her how she's doing, reassure her alot , and listen when she askes for help. Oh yeah, and use some form of lube quite liberally.

Remember, she's going to new at this so she needs all the help time & patience you can offer,ok?
 

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I echo all the sentiments above, I'm sure you'll both have a great time...it's been 2 or 3 years since I made love to a virgin, and it was a little strange, she took me in very easily (and I'm about 7" around") you may doubt she was a virgin, but it was clear she was. Funnily enough I saw her about a year ago and she told me "I didn't realise how well hung you were!" So my point is it won't always be an awkward painful situation for her.
 

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Not all females have hymens, as they
might be quite thin and were torn
and disappeared at a younger age.

I would suggest plenty of kissing and
gentle touch all over her body as you
undress her. Compliment her on her
body and tell her how wonderful she
is making you feel. Remember, for
many women, words are a good tool
to utilise in arousal as we are supposed
to be more verbal and less visual (not
me but I digress!).

Kiss her body everywhere and give her
oral. She may not cum because it is all
going to be new activities and sensations
but it will show her how much you want
her. Then, possibly gently introduce the
fingers, so she will become more
accustomed to the feeling of penetration.

You are going to be her first and you can
make it a beautiful experience for her if
you take your time and make her ache,
so she wants you inside of her.

Good luck and have fun.
 

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ok what you should do is line your penis up with the opening to her vagina and with all your might ram it in until your balls deep. then pull out really fast. filp her over and line your penis up with her little brown eye and slam your penis in as fast as you can then pull it out super fast. (note: only do that if you dont like her.)

if you like her take it slow