Any tips for taking a girl's virginity?

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Most of the above advice is very good, I think you can figure out what not to do!


I'm not THAT hung (7"x5.5")
You are above average in length and girth, so you are hung. Not a world record holder, but you will probably be among the largest most women will experience.
All the more reason to spend lots of time on foreplay and to take it nice and slow with your girlfriend.
 

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Have some lube on hand, and maybe some toys (of various sizes) if your fingers are not terribly long. (Your fingers are way preferred, though.) If you're having sex with her, you should be able to talk with her honestly and without criticism about her past experiences with fingering, dildos (or dildo substitutes), and the like. She may already have taken some sizable toys, though odds are low.

Maintaining eye contact during the foreplay and act is very important because you are connecting emotionally as much as physically. Your eyes (should) tell her that you take her seriously as a person, that you care about her -- and also that you are feeling it too and that this isn't an emotionless experience for you. Her eyes give you important feedback about what she is feeling, how much is too much, what is working and worth further exploring, and what is a bad idea at this particular point in the festivities.

Be aware that she may be very concerned about disappointing you and may de-emphasize her own pleasure (or attempt to hide her discomfort) so that you "get there". Be very sensitive to this and reassure her as necessary that you're most interested in a mutual level of pleasure.

Some louts on this thread have advised getting her drunk -- ha ha. But getting her "drunk" on orgasms is an excellent idea. Some finger and tongue foreplay, where she's responding in crests after a while, is a great way to lessen her nervousness and also get her suitably wet.

One last thing: this is an intimate act, physically and emotionally. It requires a lot of trust, especially for a first-timer about to try to handle a larger-than-average tool. Do not belie this trust. If you find yourself thinking something like, Hey, this is going well, I'll just try a little thrust here -- don't. You can easily make a painful (to her) mistake that can take a lot of relationship work to undo. Take your time. She will signal you when you can go faster and deeper.

Best,
Kev
 

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The best way to loosen her up is while you give her oral affection on her clit, slowly work in one finger and swirl it around, stretching until 2 fingers fit, but don't just jam then in and out, gently stretch around in there, and you can probably get her off before you try to penetrate. Just make sure she is extremely wet and after the clit climaxes, she'll want to take you on! Just give her one inch at a time, wait for her to adjust, then pull back slightly and give a little more, but keep her in the moment kissing your, not just concentrating so hard she gets stressed out. So, act like you are not acting, seduce her and make her eyes roll to the back of her head so so loosens up and you take it home....
Sigh....
 

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The best way to loosen her up is while you give her oral affection on her clit, slowly work in one finger and swirl it around, stretching until 2 fingers fit, but don't just jam then in and out, gently stretch around in there, and you can probably get her off before you try to penetrate. Just make sure she is extremely wet and after the clit climaxes, she'll want to take you on! Just give her one inch at a time, wait for her to adjust, then pull back slightly and give a little more, but keep her in the moment kissing your, not just concentrating so hard she gets stressed out. So, act like you are not acting, seduce her and make her eyes roll to the back of her head so so loosens up and you take it home....
Sigh....


That sounds perfect!
 

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HONOR! Get honer and stay honer!!! No really....fuck her butt first then she'll know the remainder can't be as bad!
 

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Oh what rubbish!

We found a place, set a time, and went there. When we got to the mattress I looked at her and said I didn't know what to do but is she sure this......... and with that she grabbed me, shoved her tongue down my throat, pulled me onto the mattress, and then proceeded to rip my clothes off. She pulled me in quickly and only complained about it hurting once (not surprising given my endowment). The entire thing, from first clothes off to last clothes on, lasted from 4:08pm to 4:22pm and took place on April 22, 1983.

I am pleased to say there were encore performances which lasted much longer. I also just added this girl (now woman) to my facebook page.