Any tops like to please?

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So until recently, I found I enjoyed pleasing the top. Really would get me off the more excited they get, the more i got.

The other day…I met a Brazilian (first time with a Brazilian by the way) he had an amazing cock about 8 x 6 inches, but the hardest and best curved cock known to man, in short it really hit the spot.

Afterwards, he said 'I just really enjoy getting a boy off, and that what gets me excited'.

First time I've heard this, just wondering if you Tops out there, purely think about exciting a bottom, rather than the sensations it feels on your cock. P.S I'm a very vocal, and you can tell when i'm enjoying sex, does this help a tops enjoyment?
Sorry for such silly questions.
 

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It is not a silly question. As a top, I feel I have failed if I don't motivate my bottom to have orgasm, on occasion more than once. But, it is sort of selfish 'cause there is nothing like the feeling of pulsating ass around my cock.
 

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I can give a response, based in what my fuck bud says to me from time to time. I have a friend who is 100% top. Alpha-male. Hyper dominant leatherman type. Most of the time he goes at sex with a fairly selfish mindset of wanting the sensations that get his cock off, and make him cum. Being somewhat of a sadist he sometimes doesn't cum, unless he gets a response from his bottom, that is either pain, or discomfort, or some kind of response.

I asked him once about our sex play once, and what he does for me, and how he looks at it, and he said the following, "I know you like my dick. I can tell how focused you are on pleasing me. I look at it similarly. I love fucking I love being a top-stud. I hope my dick makes you feel good and you get off on me being up in you".

He does make me feel good, and I am glad that he enjoys making me feel good with his cock.

Syl'.
 

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It's hard to generalize about Tops. Some just want to get off inside of you.Others love to please besides being pleased. My Top, wants to get off inside me, but sometimes in certain positions He can't help hitting that spot that can, and usually does get me off too. And without even discussing it, he knows and I know, he got me off too, when he got off. Sometimes after he and I both cum, we discuss it in the cuddle position. He likes to keep his cock embedded inside my ass, and we discuss things then. Usually nothing verbal during the sex act. He's a caring guy, in his own way.
 

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The best part of having a big cock is satisfying a buddy and leaving him with a stupid grin on his face. I love to fuck the cum out of a guy and am really flattered if he can cum without touching himself. Getting him off is most important and I usually choose not to cum myself—for various reasons (sometimes to the bottom’s annoyance).

However, I think all sex is a fetish of some sort and different people get off on different things. For example, many Subs enjoy not cumming. They want their tops to blow their loads, roll over and go to sleep. They get sexual satisfaction from feeling used. It’s not my thing, but if it makes them happy, why not?

I have a very specific fetish while bottoming. I love having extremely beautiful, very preppy, WASPy men inside of me. They can have minuscule dicks, crappy technique and be out of shape and I don’t really care. It has nothing to do with the physical sensation. I get off on being accepted and desired by Ivy-League, “Establishment” types. I’m sure it’s based on a lot of insecurities and self-loathing, but it’s what gets me off.
 

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The best part of having a big cock is satisfying a buddy and leaving him with a stupid grin on his face. I love to fuck the cum out of a guy and am really flattered if he can cum without touching himself. Getting him off is most important and I usually choose not to cum myself.

I agree. I love pleasing a bottom -that's my main focus actually, and will do anything so make him comfortable and enjoy the ride and/or the position we choose to fuck in.
 

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I love hearing how much I am pleasing the bottom, the more vocal the hotter the sex! I fucked this married guy on Saturday, and he kept saying what are you doing to my ass! It feels so good, he moaned and whimpered the whole time! He shot his load hands free! And as I continued to fuck him, his big cock was semi soft and just seemed to ooze cum! He said his whole body felt like a big cock! I aways want my bottom to cum first!
 

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It is not a silly question. As a top, I feel I have failed if I don't motivate my bottom to have orgasm, on occasion more than once. But, it is sort of selfish 'cause there is nothing like the feeling of pulsating ass around my cock.

I agree completely.
 

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First of all, good for you for meeting a Brazilian :) I have found quite a number of Brazilian guys to be INCREDIBLY attractive, with amazing bodies and cocks, and very good in bed.

I have always said as a top that the main thing is that the man bottoming for me must feel good - and if it doesn't feel good, let me know and we'll do something different. I of course feel good also, but I do want to make certain we BOTH feel really good. And yes, vocal is good :)
 

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Yeah this Brazilian was very attractive, they are always saying around London that they are the best in bed, a lot of rich white guys date them.

But obviously I don't want to generalise with this, just want to know more about tops that enjoy getting a bottom excited to all means possible and how they do that.
For me personally if I didn't think the other person was having fun I would go soft, not cum or finish really quickly. This Brazilian did all the opposite, was fantastic.
 

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I definitely want my partner to have a good time and at the very least get off. I kinda assume that when a guy is looking for a selfish top (and I get that request all the time) he's got daddy issues.
 

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Completely versatile here, but absolutely all about pleasing when I'm in that ass. One recent compliment was from a FB over a month ago. The day after laying the dick down, he sent an email saying he forgot how well I lay down the dick.

I love all ethnicities, but I agree about Brazilian and Latin dudes. A few weeks ago, I tagged some muscular Braz ass. I beat that ass so good, he came without touching himself.
 

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Tops take pride in have a good rep for being studly and making all the bottoms want to be with them.
Bottoms take pride in making the top cum and having a good rep as a clean tight/loose bottom that makes the top loose control and cum.
either way "I can make him cream his load" is the accolade we are looking for.