Catchoftheday
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Dude, don't sweat it! I have the same thing and I have had several girls. None of them freaked out. They asked what it was and that was all. Then it was game on! All were very satisfied. I actually seen one girl with it and she was smokin hot too. Very fuckable.
Hello ladies. I have a pectus excavatum, a concave chest, and have attached a picture as an example.
For most of my life I have struggled with body image and other confidence issues because of this, but I am starting to more actively deal with it right now. Part of the issue is reactions by women who don't even know me to it: gawking at beaches, pools, other times I have been topless. Also I believe a lot of women would be repulsed from a sheer physical attraction in the moment wanting to fuck perspective, things I have somewhat witnessed personally, especially with much more attractive women.
So I ask you for your thoughts on it women of LPSG? Have you been with a guy with a similar condition? Would it prevent you from wanting to be with a man like myself?
As a reference for the subject of the forum I am 7.5x6 and look like a taller Tobey McGuire, so I am not the ugliest guy in the room nor the smallest. Thanks ladies.
Hello ladies. I have a pectus excavatum, a concave chest, and have attached a picture as an example.
For most of my life I have struggled with body image and other confidence issues because of this, but I am starting to more actively deal with it right now. Part of the issue is reactions by women who don't even know me to it: gawking at beaches, pools, other times I have been topless. Also I believe a lot of women would be repulsed from a sheer physical attraction in the moment wanting to fuck perspective, things I have somewhat witnessed personally, especially with much more attractive women.
So I ask you for your thoughts on it women of LPSG? Have you been with a guy with a similar condition? Would it prevent you from wanting to be with a man like myself?
As a reference for the subject of the forum I am 7.5x6 and look like a taller Tobey McGuire, so I am not the ugliest guy in the room nor the smallest. Thanks ladies.
I know this isn't exactly what you asked, but I wanted to tell you anyways: I have a family member who has this same type of "defect". He decided to get surgery for it when he was 19 or 20, since it was not only the look that bothered him, he was getting some problems from it (don't ask me what kind of problems exactly, I can not remember). So well, he got the surgery for it and things were healing really bad. He didn't recover very well and then he got an infection from it. If I remember correctly his diaphragm or abdominal membrane were inflamed and I think it also spread out all the way to his lungs and he also got a pneumonia.
I'm not trying to scare you or anything, but I'm just trying to show you that surgery for it might not be as easy going as others have mentioned.
Now to your question:
Even though I have never dated or fucked a guy with a "defect" as you call it, there's nothing that would stop me from doing so. I, too, think that what is on the inside counts and I've had boyfriends that might have been unattractive to others, but to me they were the most beautiful person in the world cause they treated me good and I loved them.
I may have to at some point.
Hello ladies. I have a pectus excavatum, a concave chest, and have attached a picture as an example.
So I ask you for your thoughts on it women of LPSG? Have you been with a guy with a similar condition? Would it prevent you from wanting to be with a man like myself?
personality defects are more troubling when ya talking about affecting a dude's smexyiness.
It's none of my business, so you can tell me to fuck off if you want... :tongue:
But may I ask why?
I usually don't bring this up, but I actually developed a birth defect on my right side from being born over 3 months premature. Many organs not being developed fully at that stage (namely my lungs, which end up collapsing and the lack of oxygen) caused brain damage. I wasn't supposed to live through the hour (and if I some how did survive there was going to be an endless list of horrible things wrong with me), but I'm here...
It bothers me, I wish I didn't have it... It has made a few thibgs harder for me to do that the average person easily could.
But if someone would not date me simply because of that, he's a POS and I wouldn't want him him anyway.
I have mild Spastic Cerebral Palsy due to prolonged lack of oxygen at birth
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