TheBoyfriend and I pondered this question and we can't think of any time I've ever given him just a hand job except in the shower when I've been washing his penis. I make sure that it's very clean. :biggrin1: When I asked him if I was neglecting something important, he said that he likes the fact that his cock stays doesn't stay in my hand for long, since he prefers my mouth. He doesn't seem to be dissatisfied by how infrequently he gets handjobs.
Any women who consider themselves handjob experts?
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Wow, reading the posts on hear from Seaside and Exotic gave me an instant hard on. Now if only I had someone here to give me a hand job.
Someone raised an interesting point about the cum shot. With a BJ, you don't get the visual spectacular. Being a shooter, I enjoy the visual stimulation that comes with handjob spraying cum. It's also a curiosity to see where my partner will aim it.
Someone raised an interesting point about the cum shot. With a BJ, you don't get the visual spectacular. Being a shooter, I enjoy the visual stimulation that comes with handjob spraying cum. It's also a curiosity to see where my partner will aim it.
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I've had a handjob from two girls and a guy. The guy did 10 times better, one girl couldnt even make me cum. But it makes sense, a guy has a dick, he should know how to use it.
I prefer handjobs as well. To have her watching and stroking and playing with the head is huge turn on. Then to shoot huge cumshot and she watches and giggles is very hot. Hard to find a good girl that does handjobs. BJs are always good but a girl that loves HJs and knows how to do them sensually is a treasure to cherish.
True. I have been to many massage parlors and even many of those girls have no clue. They should...but they don't. I think the girls who have a longterm boyfriend who trains them on how to do it have the best skills, generally speaking.
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You hit the nail on the head. For me I LOVE to watch the cum spurting out. I will stop sex to finish off with a hand job sometimes because I want to watch it cum.
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Not to toot my own horn, but between experience and making an effort to continuously refine my technique, I excel in both areas.
*thumbs up*
Hand jobs are a favorite because I love the intimacy of working his stuff while looking into his eyes and speaking with him during the session. Usually, I tell him how good his cock feels in my hand, or compliment the hardness, or even taking a moment to tap it against my palm or bounce it and watch it, *boing*, snap back straight up :09:. But, asking if he likes a certain stroke and watching for cues as I switch it up - such as his leg bouncing with long, slow strokes or his meeting my stroke with hip thrusts when I reach the best rhythm tells me a lot about his body and orgasm response.
There's definitely a power element as well, because I am in control of his pleasure, and can wait until he's hard and throbbing then stop all stimulation at my discretion or throw in the two-handed twisty stroke no one has ever lasted more than a few strokes with... :wink:
However, main thing is, it turns me on to watch his response and adjust to tease and extend the session, move him to a quick climax, or delay/deny, but keep him on the edge of an orgasm during a 20, 30, or 40 minute HJ.
There are many benefits to learning how to take command of your man's cock and working it right - not the least of which is gaining a perspective of how he pleasures his own body, an awareness that will only improve bjs and intercourse, imo.
Yes yes yes!! Took the words out of my mouth! :fing02:
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Love receiving a great hand job done with affection and all the little flourishes that come with it. There's more opportunity to chat than with a BJ and watching a girl's reaction when I come (with some verbal encouragement from her) is a major turn on for me! Also being "aimed"- scalding hot.
Kudos to kittie and seaside. For me, its all about how much desire the woman is putting into it. If she is really into it and genuinely enjoying herself than unless she is really awful at it, I am enjoying it as well. When I spread her legs to lick her pussy I am going to go full throttle and love every second of it and I expect the same in return.
I personally love the thought of a woman talking to me and telling me how much she is loving the feel of it and anything dirty she can think of. Id probably say only 25% of the women I've been with are vocal during oral and hand play. Also, I think the pefect handjob, at least for me, needs some ball massaging/sucking as well as some ass licking. Nothing hotter when a woman covers all parts down there.
I personally love the thought of a woman talking to me and telling me how much she is loving the feel of it and anything dirty she can think of. Id probably say only 25% of the women I've been with are vocal during oral and hand play. Also, I think the pefect handjob, at least for me, needs some ball massaging/sucking as well as some ass licking. Nothing hotter when a woman covers all parts down there.
I guess I'm pretty good at giving handjobs. For those who aren't, there are "manuals" like these: Hand Job Advice.com Learn to Give a Fantastic Hand Job
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Sometimes I prefer a handjob to sex. that sounds odd, but handjobs are the thing that really hits the spot for me.
I got one from a friend over a year ago, and I think most of the apartment block must have heard the moans lol. i think what she did is massage as opposed to jerk, but jerk when it's time to come.
I got one from a friend over a year ago, and I think most of the apartment block must have heard the moans lol. i think what she did is massage as opposed to jerk, but jerk when it's time to come.
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I guess I was doing the basket-weaving technique on my 1st ex husband, and he shot so hard that he hit the ceiling. And he was laying on the floor. I laughed my ass off.
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