I find this thread to be very interesting - not because I think there's a good reason for a 7 inch club, but because someone seemed to think it makes a difference. Since the average penis, according to most surveys, is 5-1/2 to 6 inches long when erect, why not just pick something over 6 inches as being "LARGE"? Just a question.
One could obviously make a case for a thick dick club with members all being 6 inches or more in circumference, since most women seem to like the full feeling a thick cock gives them. But since men came up with this club, it's all about length.
To be quite honest, I think it's more important for a man's self esteem to feel that he's bigger than average than it is for one's partner (whether you're straight of gay). I know I like watching my cock slide in and out of a woman's vagina, all the more so since I'm around 9 inches long -- it just looks hot.
However, I often feel that my pussy licking skills are more appreciated by most women than the size of my cock. I spend a lot of time and effort making sure my female partners cum multiple times just from licking, sucking, and nibbling on their clit - it almost always works and I'm rewarded with a soaking wet pussy when I finally penetrate them with my erect penis.
I wouldn't be too surprised to find that many gay men enjoy getting a good blowjob almost as much as they enjoy having a hard cock up their ass. I'd be interested to know what others think.
Anyway, the only club I really want to be in is the club of skillful lovers, who can always satisfy their partner(s) with a mind-blowing orgasm (or two, or three, or more).
-Ranger