Anyone else feel this way about Porn videos??

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  1. B_Sweetcar

    B_Sweetcar New Member

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    Well, I'm gay and I love seeing guy's dicks and the rest of their bodies but, to me a lot of the gay porn video out there just BORES me!

    It all seems just too contrived and everyone gets naked and starts having sex and that's all the video is about....I'd much rather see something where the guys are acting more natural and if it leads to sex, fine, but that's not necessary.

    Its more of a turn on for me to see guys naked in the locker room or the showers unaware that anyones filming them. Even if the guys are hanging around in the nude and just having a good time without having sex.
     
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    There is certainly a lot of porn of this variety out there (just search for spy cam porn, locker room hidden camera, etc.). I agree, it usually is boring (though often hot enough I don't care).

    I enjoy the kind of porn where 2 guys are introduced to each other, chat a bit, and then fuck.
     
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    It's all very staged. I like the bareback porn because it's very much unscripted. Not that I'm advocating anyone do it, etc. It is fantasy material to me and as close to playing bare as I will let myself get.
     
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    I know you're talking about gay porn but i had to chime in. I feel like that with straight porn. It's become way to over produced and systematic. I miss the glory days of porn when it more to it than hair and make up.

    I actually think the real issue here is that as men we have become so overexposed to porn that it isn't arousing anymore. We are reverting to the next level where we want to feel as though we are looking at real people having sex and not actors who half ass it.

    I too have become a lover of the voyeuretic type of sex where real people do the deed. it feels natural. I can get into it because they are getting into it.
     
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    The only porn I really like these days is amateur stuff, where a camera is just set up and a guy(s) - or a guy and a girl, not fussed - do sex.

    The professional porn is just too staged.
     
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    Now for an intersting job, hire yourselves out as a camera man to record couples (gay or str8) making love. So they don't feel shy, take your own partner along to hold the lights.
     
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    I agree with a lot of what you say. However, when it comes to professional porn, it has to be said that a lot of the performers really can't act at all, and often watching them try to do so is pretty awful.

    Porn is certainly easy to come by now, at least by anyone with a computer and an internet connection at home (which is most people, I guess, these days). Even so, although porn with "real people" in it can be hot, I do still enjoy watching the piston-perfect sex that the best porn stars are able to provide – although I guess I don't watch a lot of it, at least compared to many people.
     
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    pretty much any porn created post 1985 (or so) is boring as hell.... no content, over-staged, over-produced and un-natural.... i can't say that i've seen any gay porn that i find remotely interesting, but older straight films such as 'deep throat', 'a star is porn', and 'taboo america' (the only porn mini-series that i know of) were actually interesting enough to watch that i could skip through the sex scenes and actually get in to the plot....

    porn for me nowadays is not something that i watch to turn me on or get off to, rather it's something i view to find out a visual representation of a sexual term i heard or to see something that's out of the ordinary like an enormous dick or what people do sexually with things like gravy or milking machines.... it's more of a spectacle than anything.... the rest bores the hell out of me....
     
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    Eh. I'm into the professional current stuff of I guess... going back the past decade or so that I've began watching. Each their own.
     
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    Most conventional, mainstream porn is SO boring. Its the predictable, passionless, kiss kiss, suck suck, condom magically appears, fuck in rehearsed positions. Boring!
    That's why amateur and other unconventional porn is hotter. No rehearsal. actual passion and lust. guys fucking really well. Hot.
    If the hot guys in mainstream porn had the passion that the average joes had in amateur porn, then most of us would watch more mainstream porn. That's why vintage porn is so hot. Those guys were INTO it, they were hot, and did it 'cause they wanted to really fuck. No viagra. No bullshit. Just good, old fashioned fucking. Hot!
     
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    porn makes me giggle cause its so dumb
     
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    I find porn boring most of the time. sex is not a spectator sport. and porn is so predictable. I'm the same way with strip clubs, I can only take so much "hot & bothered" and I want to fuck. when I was younger and buddies starting getting married we would get skin flicks for the bachelor party. I was always cutting out after about 2 hours to go find some pussy.
     
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    I totally agree with you. Porn stars should also take some type of acting because part of the fantasy is not just the sex but the atmosphere of the whole experience.

    I don't watch porn to just jerk off and go. I like to sit there and watch it like a movie. i want to be seduced by the actors. make me long to live that fantasy. When porn is able to capture my attention like that; i have the best orgasm ever.
     
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    That's why it's called porn instead of cinema, I think. Same goes for literature. If there's no story, it's just stimulation without any intellectual content. At my press we pride ourselves on having stories.
     
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    well yeah I'm not looking for an award winning film but give the porno some dept, some matter. Not just another dick and hole.
     
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    yep, i prefer amateur and voyeur type porn rather than the staged pornos..they bore me too :) i still like to feel and imagine a sense of reality to what i'm watching.
     
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