Anyone Else Finding A Problem When Hooking Up?

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I'm a good-looking 68yo man, 5'9', 175 with an average 6" cut that will get hard. How do I do it? I use 50 Viagra pill and a Cock Ring. I'm Married & Bi, love to suck & fuck/get fucked and I'm finding many men contact my advertisements and we meet up and they have a problem. The Problem? 99% of them can't get it up or they get it up but it droops in a short time. Geez! And when messaging they tell me they get as hard cold-rolled steel and can fuck for hours. Anyway, I appreciate the ones who tell they have ED but we can try. Usually they're very good at sucking dick.
 
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As one that has had this issue, for me it's just nerves of meeting a guy the first time. I find it better to plan on hand job or oral that first time.
Sometimes it works out that I'm able to fuck him good, but I dont expect it or plan on it.
 

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I'm a good-looking 68yo man, 5'9', 175 with an average 6" cut that will get hard. How do I do it? I use 50 Viagra pill and a Cock Ring. I'm Married & Bi, love to suck & fuck/get fucked and I'm finding many men contact my advertisements and we meet up and they have a problem. The Problem? 99% of them can't get it up or they get it up but it droops in a short time. Geez! And when messaging they tell me they get as hard cold-rolled steel and can fuck for hours. Anyway, I appreciate the ones who tell they have ED but we can try. Usually they're very good at sucking dick.


Congrats on having an active libido; also, enjoying sex with both genders. I am 66 y.o. and 50 / 50. Unfortunately, my wife is in her final life stage and lives in Long Term Care. I cannot emotionally handle sex with anyone else right now so I masturbate daily.

I have had ED issues for a number of years, due to health issues. Using an auto-injector ( absolutely no discomfort ) I inject a tri-mix solution into my penis and can have an amazing, hard as steel, erection. This is all monitored by medical professionals at a clinic in Toronto, ON, Canada. The drug is used in heart surgery to open blood vessels. The additional benefit is that the same drug opens blood vessels for an erection. Makes sense.

I never have "can I get it up" worries because it just automatically happens !! And it makes sex so much more enjoyable.

So as not to use up the drug, I also use a penis plug inserted into my uretha as well ( this practice is called sounding ). These are available at The Chain Gang in Vernon, Florida. I have a model called the "Whistle Blower Penis Plug" which is hollow in in the center to allow my semen flow. When I insert that my penis is stiff enough to nicely accommodate insertion into a Tenga Masturbator.

I too use a cock ring as well.

All of this has been self taught out of need and necessity. And these two methods allow me to have a great ( solo for now ) healthy sex life. One day I will return to sex with another person, be it a women or man.

I am passing this on as f.y.i. There are solutions out there; it is just that they are not well known.
 

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Congrats on having an active libido; also, enjoying sex with both genders. I am 66 y.o. and 50 / 50. Unfortunately, my wife is in her final life stage and lives in Long Term Care. I cannot emotionally handle sex with anyone else right now so I masturbate daily.

I have had ED issues for a number of years, due to health issues. Using an auto-injector ( absolutely no discomfort ) I inject a tri-mix solution into my penis and can have an amazing, hard as steel, erection. This is all monitored by medical professionals at a clinic in Toronto, ON, Canada. The drug is used in heart surgery to open blood vessels. The additional benefit is that the same drug opens blood vessels for an erection. Makes sense.

I never have "can I get it up" worries because it just automatically happens !! And it makes sex so much more enjoyable.

So as not to use up the drug, I also use a penis plug inserted into my uretha as well ( this practice is called sounding ). These are available at The Chain Gang in Vernon, Florida. I have a model called the "Whistle Blower Penis Plug" which is hollow in in the center to allow my semen flow. When I insert that my penis is stiff enough to nicely accommodate insertion into a Tenga Masturbator.

I too use a cock ring as well.

All of this has been self taught out of need and necessity. And these two methods allow me to have a great ( solo for now ) healthy sex life. One day I will return to sex with another person, be it a women or man.

I am passing this on as f.y.i. There are solutions out there; it is just that they are not well known.

Sorry to hear about your wife. Life can be tough.

I prefer sex with women and I get a harder erection with them now-a-days especially after eating their pussy and sometimes giving them rimjobs, but M2M is fun and satisfying also. A good married friend and me get together on occasion and suck each other off and it feels real good to both of us.

My wife and I have a good sex life and she's definitely horny most of the time. But once in a while I like to play with a good hard dick, and have liked sucking a guy since high school.

I'll have to try the sounding device and see how it works for me and how I like it. I've seen them on the internet but didn't realize there was one with a hole that allows semen to ejaculate. Cool.

Best of fortune for you in the future. Very sorry to hear about your wife.
 

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I'm a good-looking 68yo man, 5'9', 175 with an average 6" cut that will get hard. How do I do it? I use 50 Viagra pill and a Cock Ring. I'm Married & Bi, love to suck & fuck/get fucked and I'm finding many men contact my advertisements and we meet up and they have a problem. The Problem? 99% of them can't get it up or they get it up but it droops in a short time. Geez! And when messaging they tell me they get as hard cold-rolled steel and can fuck for hours. Anyway, I appreciate the ones who tell they have ED but we can try. Usually they're very good at sucking dick.

Having a hooked up with a few older men, maybe try having plenty of long foreplay and take things slowly, as mentioned in this thread, start with oral and hand jobs and progress from there.
 

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I'd agree its about nerves. Im 42 but prefer older men, but Im mainly into oral. I'd focus on that, if you wanna be topped I would go for younger men. Though I have played with a few guys in their 60s+ that could stay rock hard