Hello all. I have a problem. I am 22, and I've only been sexually active for about 6 or 7 months. My g/f and I were both first timers, but even with lack of experience my problem strikes me as incredibly odd, and I'm afraid it's really going do some psychological damage to her if I can't fix it. The problem: I cannot reach orgasm. The only way I can is to "take control" (that's the nice way of saying wank it), and even then I have to alter space and time and practically cramp every muscle in my body to climax. When I'm by myself I'd say I'm pretty normal, but when I'm with the love of my life I can't even get close. I've read about male inorgasma, or whatever it's called, but I just don't think that's it. Has this happened to anyone else? I'm kinda assuming not, which is troubling. Thanks for any help.