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For sure, no pwablems babe. Sorry about your breast size! Stiil love ya!:smile:
Right back at ya!:smile:
For sure, no pwablems babe. Sorry about your breast size! Stiil love ya!:smile:
What kind of sensation do you have when you masturbate?
Cut out masturbation for a while if you can come easily with masturbation.
What is the most sensitive part of your penis? Is that part in contact with her vagina during intercourse? If it's not, perhaps a different position will help.
Are you circumcised? Do you experience pain on erection? Have you torn your frenulum before?
Ruling out any of the physical issues above...
When we're with someone we love, something happens to our semen, like in Dr. Strangelove it turns into a, "precious bodily fluid." You're sharing the most intimate part of yourself, essentially giving it someone else. At the moment of orgasm you're as vulnerable as you ever can be. You have to trust her completely in that moment.
Guys have two kinds of orgasms, the first is the one we all know, the basic jack-off orgasm where suddenly semen becomes a nuisance. You have this orgasm when you jack off, or have a quick hook-up where you don't really share anything. You're both there to get off. Hi you're hot, let's fuck, go baby yeah!, cigarette, was it good for you too? Need cab fare? Fucks like that are just better ways to masturbate. It's an essentially self-satisfying act.
The other orgasm is when you love somebody and using your body to express that love. That's something entirely different and extremely personal. Though the sensations are the same, the desire behind the act is something different altogether. You're shifting gears from just wanting to lose a load to sharing the most absurdly powerful thing you possess. As you approach orgasm so you approach ultimate intimacy. You have to bare yourself for a moment in such a completely open way that it can be frightening. In that sense, your release of semen is the deepest thing you can reveal to someone. Afterwards when you look at her, you can know that physically and literally, part of you is in her.
First search yourself and your soul. Go someplace alone and think very seriously about your relationship and where you stand. Is part of you feeling guilty? Are you unsure about where this is going? More particularly, do you want to love her more than you feel you do? This last part is really important because it can be the impediment to intimacy.
Next I suggest that you forget about orgasm altogether. Focus sex on pleasing her and allowing her to reach orgasm. Go into sex expecting not a thing for yourself knowing that when or if it happens it's OK.
I've had this issue before and at a very young age, younger than you are now. I didn't get over it with the particular girl I was seeing because she was wrong for me no matter how much I wanted her. I'm not saying this girl is wrong for you, but the intimacy issue is intertwined with inorgasmia providing everything else works fine.
What is the most sensitive part of your penis? Is that part in contact with her vagina during intercourse? If it's not, perhaps a different position will help.
Are you circumcised? Do you experience pain on erection? Have you torn your frenulum before?
bumping again... any help would be GREATLY appreciated...
I'll definitely try the Chiropractor when I get a chance.[/quote]
If it does not work,no harm done.For 40-50 dollars you get a hot oil massage and your back readjusted.But if it does work for you the results will be evident the same day.:smile: