anyone else have trouble comming from a blow job

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  1. ahornyman30

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    its hard for me to cum from a blow job ive been with hundreds of men and i can count one one had the number of them who have accually sucked me off i can get close but rarely can accually cum usally have to pull it out of there mouth and jerk off
     
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    my turn!

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    I have a hard time, but people assure me that it's just a case of not being able to find the right mouth. I don't know if I believe that though.
     
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    ^^Ditto^^
     
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    only 2 girls have sucked me, neither of which made me cum. I actually felt more numb, which was odd.
     
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    I can't cum from a blowjob. But perhaps I never found the right mouth.:eek:
     
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    no one has successfully made me finish, either from blowing, or from anal. Then again, I'm told I'm not easy on the jaw. I hold out hope that maybe I just haven't found the right person.
     
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    I can, no problem. Takes a bit longer though. However, orgasms from blowjobs are generally not as good for me. I think it's the 100% contact on my cock head that makes it too feel way too sensitive too soon.
     
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    I think you will find that it depends on both the skill of the person giving the blow job and the mind set of the person receiving. The more practice and the more desire to achieve the end goal, the greater the chance of success.
     
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    You'd need the love child of Steve Tyler and Carly Simon to take all that.
     
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    My glans gets very sensitive. A rough blowjob and over active tongue on the head will keep me from cumming. I can cum if I'm deepthroated, though.
     
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    So far, I've been the only one who's been able to get me off with any degree of repeatability.
     
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    The right technique makes a huge difference and which technique is the right one probably varies quite a lot, too. I've had a lot of trouble with some partners and none with others. Mindset may be a big part of that, but style, use of hands, tongue action, suction, etc., all make for very different experiences. You might try asking your guy to change it up a little bit, just make sure you phrase it in a non-critical way. Like "how about let's try it this way" or "if you do this, I bet it would drive me wild".
     
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    being uncut most people that know how to suck off a uncut guy.....the tongue goes under the forskin and then suck......but most of the problem is that the person giving the blowjob ...gives out.....or gets tired. i would rather have my forskin and balls sucked on as i jackoff. just me.
     
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    For me, it all depends on mood, level of horniness, and the skill of the person doing the sucking.
     
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    I've never had a problem. I love blow jobs and will cum easily in anyone's mouth. Love 'em.
     
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    i've always had this issue as well (don't necessarily see it as a problem)...actually posted a similar thread a couple of years back. never done it in my entire life, and i still love blowjobs. i don't need to cum to enjoy it. and i'm so tired of hearing the tired old "oh, you just haven't had a great blowjob yet." yeah, i have. i just didn't cum from it. :p

    the hardest part for me at this point is when i have to let the girls i'm with know so they don't feel like they're doing anything wrong...and of course, because we've been conditioned to equate orgasm with success sexually, almost every one of them then insists that THEY'LL be able to do it. and i really don't want them getting their hopes up only to feel bad or insecure when it doesn't happen, and i try to reassure them that even if i don't cum i still enjoy it, but even still...i guess they think there's some sword in the stone moment where if they can just get it out, they'll be crowned queen of my cock or something. lol. i understand the mentality...when a girl tells me she's never cum during sex or from oral or at all, my initial primal instinct is "oh, well I'LL be able to." and in a couple of rare cases, i was...but for the most part, i've had to accept that i am not, in fact, the conqueror of all sexual riddles and my cock and tongue are not some kind of skeletal key that can unlock any woman's orgasm. and that that's OKAY, as long as we're both still enjoying ourselves. i think girls who go down on guys like us kind of have to learn to accept the same. then, if it ever DOES happen, it'll be a nice pleasant surprise for you both. ;)
     
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    Ha, I don't feel so bad anymore!
     
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    I have never cum from a B/J, have to finish jerking off.
     
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    My turn to chime in. I have not cum from a bj for over a year now because most gay men are abysmal at it. On the other hand, with me blowing 90% of people tell me to back off or they will cum too fast. The reason: my "power suck". 1. You must cover the cock with copious amounts of saliva, 2. deep throating is over-rated other than the visual, 3 the real key is you MUST follow the mouth with the hand in a hybrid suck/jo action. Drives 'em wild! You watch porno and everyone,except Damon Dogg, neglects this move. Hence, almost 98% of porn actors have to jo to cum. Recipients of my artistry almost never have to do this unless they have sexual dysfunction, are tired, or came already. The last escort I employed who excelled at this left town a year ago. I have given up hope of ever cumming with someone ever again. Fortunately I love to give and I am content with porn by myself.
     
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