anyone else have trouble comming from a blow job

[deleted157868]

I have never came from a BJ

 

[deleted349934]

definitely depends on who you're recieving it from- also depends on your overall state of mind, ect..

 

[cklover]

I can't cum from a blowjob. But perhaps I never found the right mouth.

Sorry to hear that BB! You're so funny and cool that I hate to think you've missed that type of pleasure! Oh well, you'll have to settle for other warm, slippery holes to please your nice, very suckable cock...:wink:

 

[D_Coupeland Clydesdale]

It's always been very, very difficult for me to come from a blowjob. Women seem to think that they should suck the head and shaft in, but for whatever reason my cut cock head isn't really that sensitive. Rather than suck my cock, I have more luck if they run their lips and tongue up and down the outside of my shaft. Leave the head alone.

 

[hud01]

The only time I can't cum is when I am tired and have had a few drinks. Even then if the person is good, I can cum, but if they are average or below then it can be tough.

 

[sounder1]

The problem with bjs is that the mouth of the giver can become tired before u can come. Also you have to communication when the bj giver does something that is especially pleasureable or they might stop before u erupt. And lets face it, some of us just take longer to cum than others.

 

[SilverTrain]

A great blowjob is one of life's treasures.

Have only ever had "trouble" cumming from a really poorly executed hummer. But even then, it was fun just to have someone sucking on my peen.

 

[bigbull29]

Sorry to hear that BB! You're so funny and cool that I hate to think you've missed that type of pleasure! Oh well, you'll have to settle for other warm, slippery holes to please your nice, very suckable cock...:wink:

It's not like I've given up!:biggrin1:

 

[D_Parkinsonne Partycocke]

Been with the same girl for nine years, and she has tried and tried and tried... I've never cum from a bj either. I think it is a duration thing, because it always takes me a while to cum, and she can only suck for so long before "her jaw hurts". I've just accepted it, and try to enjoy a bj more as foreplay to other activities rather than a "finishing activity".

 

[nick1014]

1. You must cover the cock with copious amounts of saliva, 2. deep throating is over-rated other than the visual, 3. the real key is you MUST follow the mouth with the hand in a hybrid suck/jo action. Drives 'em wild!

Great instruction manual. This is all you really need to know to give awesome head. If you want to have 'em cumming every time, use this method. If you want to cum every time, tell your guy or girl to use this technique, too.

 

[Snowy1]

Yip ive never had someone else made me orgasm from sucking me off.
Was with this older woman who took some pride in her blowjob ability, saying 'If you cant get your man off in 5 mins flat then your not doing your job right.'

She meets me and is sucking me off for dear life and... well its good an all... but... im just nowhere near cumming, shes moaning and jacking me off and sucking an all this stuff, its fun (a bit rough tho) but... i just cant orgasm, im trying to will myself to cum... no go.

She said she loved to give head and would do so for hours if allowed.
She took this personal i think, like some sort of failure, or that i didnt fancy her.
Nothing to do with that, fancied the knickers off her, could make love to her for hours (having orgasm along the way) and was instantly hard when near her (before or after) but just couldnt orgasm from her giving me head.

Meh, i could always make myself orgasm from giving myself head, figure its just a technique thing and i dont got fed up.

 

[Snarfblat]

I think you will find that there are number of factors that affect your ability to cum from a bj.1. Your own level of personal arousal. I can get sucked for a long time before cumming. However, when I've abstained for a long period and get sucked off, I can cum in minutes;2. Technique. Some people really know how to blow; other's don't. Some swallow the whole thing while others only work on the head. Teeth is generally bad. The person's hands also play an active role in stimulation;3. Attitude. If the person providing the service really enjoys the act or at least acts like they are by motion or by sound, it can be a real turn on.

 

[dc46064]

It is really hard for me to cum from a blow job. I have to fuck to cum or with my own hand. My partner and I have alot of 3ways. He is the best cock sucker I have ever seen and all guys we are with say the same. I have seen him get someone off in less than a minute. He has made me cum a few times in the 13 years that we have been together. Before him, no one had ever made me cum from a blowjob. So , I really cant say cuz fucking is my thing anyway.

 

[the_reverend]

seems to me like those who can and do cum from oral sex really can't understand what it's like NOT to. because i always hear the same things...oh, you have to be in the right mood, it's all about technique. well, i won't speak for the other guys in here who never have (and good God, was it a blessing to come here and find out i wasn't the only one!), but i've been in plenty of right moods and while i have experienced a sub par and just average blowjob in my life, plenty of my partners had excellent technique. but those who CAN do it don't have the perspective to understand why on Earth those of us who can't, can't.

 

[Iceman2215]

I need to be partaking (69) with my wife to really enjoy it. I have even gone soft while she was giving me head!! (embarrassing) but if I touch her and she is getting off I will cum no problem!!

 

[chadstallion]

99% of time i dont come from a BJ.
its just foreplay for penetrative play.

 

[briman]

i think it depends on how its done ive had partners use their tongue and suck and it drove my crazy and i came fast and others that suck it it feels good but its just not intense enough i usually can cum from a blowjob if i want to though its fun to get really hard and then stop and fuck thrusting that hard dick in and out building a huge orgasm ive also pulled out and finished with being sucked off mmm thinking of this is getting me hard

 

[YoungCock321]

yeah i prefer to jack it off into her mouth and see all my cum squirt in

 

[r4tor]

I'm zero for three. The first two times I was pretty drunk and the third was some random dude who didn't do all that much for me. Still waiting for the right guy...

 

[Earthbound]

Came close (hahaha) once. Otherwise, no, and I have gone soft during a bj. I MUCH prefer a handjob.