Anyone else like the butt cheeks but not the asshole?

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I love to see, touch, smack, squeeze a guy's firm butt cheeks. But, I have no interest in his asshole. Am I the only one like this? When I start to do play with his cheeks, he usually bends over to be fucked or fingered, which I don't like.

Then, I get somewhat turned off and don't know how to tell him what I enjoy.
 

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That's a tough one, but I doubt you are the only one like that. I suppose finding someone you are comfortable enough with to share your preference would be the first step.
 

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I love a beautiful ass (I know you refer to male) I think it is the first sexual interest part I have in a woman, I check out her back side, I the way a butt cheek is formed can be an amazing thing hehe. I am not particularly found of ass holes though. On a clean hairless back side and pussy it would look funny with out it but I wouldnt complain if we didn't have to have em. I think the fastest way to turn me off on the same note is to get a good shot of a hairy old bung hole. KILLS my interest.
 

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Same here. I am a hetero male, so my situation is different. But I feel the same about asses. A female ass can be a wonderful thing. They are very rare, but they exist. But I don't need the asshole. Fucking a girl from behind is something I generally don't like as I would because you tend to get a glimpse at the anus, and that is a turnoff for me. Anal is totally out of question for me because of that.
 
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I love to see, touch, smack, squeeze a guy's firm butt cheeks. But, I have no interest in his asshole. Am I the only one like this? When I start to do play with his cheeks, he usually bends over to be fucked or fingered, which I don't like.

Then, I get somewhat turned off and don't know how to tell him what I enjoy.

Pornographers beg to differ.

The trend now (I noticed that in straight anal too) is the medical-research, microscopic-level close-up of the duly stretched anus.

Cheeks are irrelevant.

My question to pornographers:

If all you deranged perverts are going to show is an extreme close-up of the distended anus, why do you bother hiring and paying actors / actresses with asses to ride to Heaven? Any homeless octogenarian will do...and they're FREE!

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Actually, I love both the butt cheeks and the butt hole.
I love stroking, kissing, licking, fondling, caressing, massaging my bf's butt.
I've even fallen asleep using it as a pillow.
When it comes to my own butt thouvh, I love all the above as well but I LOVE my butthole played with the most.
 

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nldn...I have to agree with you. Some asses, female or male, are very nice and shapely....however...an exit hole is an exit and not an entrance and I have no interest in them.
 

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Gay bottoms take notice -- A lot of guys have wanted to give you a clue on this, and now here is a perfect opportunity. When you're at the baths or a sex party (not that I've been to those, LOL) don't immediately bend over and show your hole. That is a turn off to a lot of Tops. Plus it destroys the gorgeous natural curve of the butt which might be what attracted him to you in the first place. Let him play with your butt cheeks awhile. THEN, when he is really turned on and ready to fuck, then the site of your butthole will further inflame his lust instead of killing it. As with many things in life, timing is everything. I'm not claiming all gay Tops feel this way, but MANY of them do. Just putting it out there for what it's worth because it's obvious it hasn't ever occurred to some people.

One of my favorite picture sharing groups was just butt shots with a firm rule about no anal. Unless you are on the verge of fucking, the site of a butthole is often not a turn-on. (However, if I am about to fuck you and you show me the target, it's a bigger turn on if it's hairy. LOL)

*And before those who don't feel this way jump all over me, it's not just me who feels this way. I've had this discussion with friends as well as with strangers in a group situation.
 

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Big turn-on here. I like to slide between my wife's butt cheeks when she is lying face down or standing. It can a warm-up for doggie or anal (yeah I also enjoy "the asshole" LOL), an easy way to get me off, or just something to do while I'm giving her a backrub. Feels great. Looks pretty cool too (there's a recent action shot in my gallery).