The best is being bi and in a semi-open relationship with another bi...in my case a bi guy. We are best friends, have amazing sex, look and comment about both hot women and hot guys, will occasionally invite a 3rd...woman or man....to join us in our amazing sex, none of the drama from the traditional relationships, str8 or gay they both have the drama. The way we look at it is that why would anyone want to exclude the pleasures of sex from either gender? Women have their beauty and magic and so do men. It's great to be able to explore both. We are not flambouyantly bi but do not hide it either...all of our friends and family think we are the coolest guys wether they know we are bi or not.