Anyone else not really into showing off?

Discussion in 'Underwear, Clothing, and Appearance Issues' started by fak_et, Nov 20, 2006.

  1. fak_et

    fak_et New Member

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    I know a lot of the guys here like to show off, nothing wrong with it i guess. I was just wondering if anyone is like me and doesn't really feel the need to show off?

    I mean, I am not a big fan of locker rooms, urinals, public showers. I def. have something to show but i don't really like to whip it out that much.

    But then again, I am perfectly comfortable wearing no shirt no matter where, heck even just my boxers.
     
  2. DC_DEEP

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    I may be misunderstanding your question, but I am not especially fixated on either showing off or hiding. I just wear what I like, appropriate to whatever the situation (tuxedo, jeans & t-shirt, naked, whatever). Whether my jewels show or not, is not really a consideration.
     
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    Fak et: you have a very valid point. It is not what we wish to do that is the governance of dress. We all like to dress comfortably when not in a work or formal situation, however we should respect other people. While a guy out mowing his lawn with something resembling a dead squirrel down his shorts is farnkly amusingly ridiculous it could quite offend neighbours and passers by. In a locker room it is different, and yes as in all aspects of life there are demarkations of behaviour in different settings. But the must hilarious of all is the exceptionally endowed guy who struts through thr showers and lockers like some displaying peacock then gives a steely stare to anyonenwho looks. Do what is comfortable for you, but don't be the village idiot and offend the sensibilities of others. Glad you brought up the issue.
     
  4. Mr. Snakey

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    On here yes! out in daily life no. I go out of my way to hide it:cool:
     
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    I avoid urinals and showing off in public also. Here though, I don't mind.
     
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    I never use urinals, I don't like to swim. I am a fan of hiding it... I don't know why. Maybe I don't want the attention or people to notice. Or if I get attention I want it to be for me not my cock.
     
  7. dcwrestlefan

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    i never "show off", except in private. ;-) but it bothers me that people are so uptight these days about being nude around each other. it used to be no big deal being naked in the locker room together, or taking a wizz at an open urinal in the bathroom. i'm gay, and never got much of a charge out of either situation. yeh, i might notice what you have, but don't care unless you are in my bedroom. haha.
     
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    I think a hidden bulge is very sexy.
    You can only see part of the outline of the bulge when walking in the wind or with a certain movement.
     
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    Yeah, i guess that is a good point. I am not into showing off but i dont mind being nude either. Its like neutral for me i guess.
     
  10. rob_just_rob

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    I'm not really a fan of showing off in general.
     
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    I show to some degree in anything. Not intentionally - there's just nothing I can do about it. In locker rooms or showers, or at a urinal, or whatever, if people are going to look they're going to look. If they choose to think I'm showing off, that's their problem. I hide it as best I can, but I'm not going to let the fact that I've got a big softie rule my life. Any growers want to trade? I'd be happy to! (lol)
     
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    I'm confident with what I have, but I don't make any special effort to show it off.
     
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    Internet and reallife is two different worlds. At least when it comes to showing off cock. I too am more of a hider. I've never had a urge to show it in public, I actually feel it would be wrong. Maybe it's the cultural norms...
     
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    I don't hide it or Flaunt it. I do what I want, with respect to others. If I have to piss...I use a urinal. I know longer go to the Gym... I have my own at home. I use to live near the Coast...and went to a cpl nude beaches regularly. Even surfed in the nude a few times. And have vacationed in Mexico and Europe at nude beaches and such. But I did it for me... and NOT to show off. They were fairly secluded beaches and NEVER crowded. I think to many men are sooooo concerned about their own Equiptment it is like a sickness with them. Whether you show off certain Talents or your muscles or your dick. It becomes an Obsession... Which is to much of a preoccupation. To constantly worry over pants and other articles of clothing that "show IT off". I have never read anything in Psych. about it being good mentaly....to feel the NEED to constantly show off anything. Something is deffinately wrong when it is a continuous thought where ever you go. To many of them need to "Get over themselves!"
     
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    I'm comparatively modest and not especially large, but for some reason when wearing a business suit with briefs, I get a fair number of stares at my crotch, especially by women. Being primarily into sex with men, that intrigues me but is rather unnerving. I understand about guys who are truly well endowed not wanting attention everywhere they go. Must say, though, that I find laid back horse hung studs truly remarkable. The world would be a better place if more people weren't so uptight.
     
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