Anyone Ever Been Offered Money?

[deleted848353]

Wow, what a classy remark. It is good to know that you are smart enough to speak for everybody. But then again, your signature line already suggests a certain style of thinking.

What that I think of myself over others so what

 

[LaFemme]

What I don’t understand here is how being propositioned as a non-sex worker could be construed as a compliment. “Hey, you look like you’d take money for sex!” Just don’t seem like a compliment to me. Even if a guy said to me in bed, “babe, you’re so good at this you could charge!”, I’d probably chomp down.

I guess it’s my experience in working with street girls and women. It’s no fun. It’s not a compliment to their sexual prowess. It’s survival. It’s brutal, dirty, disgusting, evil, full of bad dates, and abuse. We have a book with their names and pictures so when one goes missing we can give it to the cops, or identify the body. Yeah, it’s just not a compliment at all to me.

 

[1179690]

So do your posts... that being construed as a prostitute is a “compliment.”

I never said such a thing. It was a compliment on a skillset, not an invitation to sell your body. Please read my comment again. Unless you lay there and let the guy do all the work, there is a certain skill involved. To prove my point, I have heard countless women say to men "it is not the size that matter, but what you do with it". This is also indicating that skill is required and your body alone is not going to do the whole job.
By your definition then a skilled lover is a stud, but a skilled woman is a prostitute.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I never said such a thing. It was a compliment on a skillset, not an invitation to sell your body. Please read my comment again. Unless you lay there and let the guy do all the work, there is a certain skill involved. To prove my point, I have heard countless women say to men "it is not the size that matter, but what you do with it". This is also indicating that skill is required and your body alone is not going to do the whole job.
By your definition then a skilled lover is a stud, but a skilled woman is a prostitute.

Quit turning comments around and attempting to gaslight. Or maybe you are trying to dig yourself out of a hole.
I believe you were a sex worker, so maybe it looks different to you.

It was you who suggested the comment was complementary. It may have been meant so by the dude, but most women would not receive it so.

Skilled lovers are exactly that...good, skilled, lovers. I don’t use tacky tags like “stud.”

 

[286798]

It was you who suggested the comment was complementary. It may have been meant so by the dude, but most women would not receive it so.

Since I was the recipient of the complement... I'll clarify... It was a complement on my skills, but was dismissive to me as a woman. If the roles were reversed, a woman wouldn't monetize good pussy eating.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Since I was the recipient of the complement... I'll clarify... It was a complement on my skills, but was dismissive to me as a woman. If the roles were reversed, a woman wouldn't monetize good pussy eating.

True. We make ears are handles jokes at best

 

[286798]

True. We make ears are handles jokes at best

I told my best experience in this department "every woman should experience this at least once in her life", but never suggested he prostitute himself.

 

[1179690]

Quit turning comments around and attempting to gaslight. Or maybe you are trying to dig yourself out of a hole.
I believe you were a sex worker, so maybe it looks different to you.

It was you who suggested the comment was complementary. It may have been meant so by the dude, but most women would not receive it so.

Skilled lovers are exactly that...good, skilled, lovers. I don’t use tacky tags like “stud.”

OMG and now you are calling me a prostitute. How can you look at yourself in the mirror. I cannot believe how vile and mean some of you are to a person whom you have never met and know nothing about. Instead of having an exchange of experiences, you attack other people and drag them in the mud, simply for asking questions. Pitiful and really sad.

 

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[693987]

OMG and now you are calling me a prostitute. How can you look at yourself in the mirror. I cannot believe how vile and mean some of you are to a person whom you have never met and know nothing about. Really sad.

But... but.. you have flat out said

I used to work as an escort for a while, if anyone is interested in my experiences.

Anyone who's ever gotten an escort

And Scarletbegonia said

I believe you were a sex worker, so maybe it looks different to you.

Were. Past tense.

How are you going to be upset at someone saying you did sex work, when you yourself have flat out said you did sex work in the past?

 

[deleted848353]

But... but.. you have flat out said



Anyone who's ever gotten an escort

And Scarletbegonia said



Were. Past tense.

How are you going to be upset at someone saying you did sex work, when you yourself have flat out said you did sex work in the past?

That's y I laughed

 

[693987]

OP, you can take being offered money after doing a sexual act as a compliment if you like, I really have no strong feelings about that. You do you, I'm just confused about you seeming mad about someone saying you did sex work in the past, when you've said yourself that you did sex work in the past. I'm open about having done paid adult cam work in the past, but I wouldn't be bothered by someone bringing it up/pointing it out. I'm so open about that shit that my parents even know, much less anyone else whose opinion I give a damn about.

 

[sgdgolf]

That's y I laughed

You might want to be careful about insulting other people on here.

 

[deleted848353]

You might want to be careful about insulting other people on here.

Keep ur nose out I wasn't insulting anyone

 

[LaFemme]

You might want to be careful about insulting other people on here.

What is the insult? She made a statement about her previous experiences as an escort. She’s not hiding anything. There is nothing wrong with making the choice to be an escort, or take money for sex. No one is suggesting that she is currently an escort.

The issue that most women find offensive is that being offered money for sex when one is not a sex worker, or suggesting that one could receive money for one’s skill is offensive.

 

[sgdgolf]

Keep ur nose out I wasn't insulting anyone

Are you learning impaired?

 

[deleted848353]

Are you learning impaired?

And u might want to watch who u insult and accuse

 

[TinyPrincess]

I have twice - and I ridiculed them both in front of their friends for it.

 

[HorseHung40's]

I have been offered it, and, taken it. I was a student at the time. It enabled me to graduate from college without debt and with money for a downpayment on a home. I don't regret it either.

 

[Mr Ed in Mass]

I was offered $1800 for a weekend. I laughed and dismissed it because I knew I would have had to get rabi shots afterwards