Very troubled individual that created the group #BBBH
Personally, I am okay with bareback with MANDATORY pre-requisites [both men knowing their status, getting tested TOGETHER & they're sero-concordant: meaning they're both of the same status].
Under that dynamic, both men are fully aware of the other guy's status as well as know that they can't change the other person's status from unprotected sex.
However, I read one of his
blogs that made me very sad.
He calls himself, "
Stealth Bomber" in which he ultimately is DELIBERATELY
not revealing his status to his partner?!
He even gloats about his iniquitous acts of pulling off the condom and/or cutting the tip off the condom and unloading inside the guy when the dude explicitly asked him NOT TO?!!!
I don't know the legality of this and whether this is criminal and/or illegal; however, this is certainly unethical and immoral to use sex as a weapon - which this guy is certainly doing.
As I said earlier, I don't have issues with barebacking as expressions of trust, intimacy & bonding. I have tremendous problems with men using barebacking as a way of hurting others or simply being selfish - putting their sexual desires over another person's mental & physical health.
This behavior, at it's very least is reckless & irresponsible; at it's very worst, it's incorrigible & symptomatic of a sadistic sociopath.
I'm glad the OP shared this info. I believe that knowledge is power. Knowing that there are some very emotionally unstable individuals out there that use sex as a weapon only makes one wiser.
