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Just curious to know if anyone is still trying to date and or hook up with all this social distancing?
 

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My profile on my go-to hookup site says I’m going to lay low for the time being. I can't risk getting sick at this point as I a small business that would be exceedingly damaged if I or the other 5 staff were to get ill.

I also note, however, that I’m still good to chat and line up stuff for later on when things settle down. But even that is not gonna be anytime soon. I was talking to the nurse at the health clinic and she said they aren’t expecting things to get better again until “after summer”.

It’s going to be a loooooong, dry run. But that’s what Pornhub and such are for.
 

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A long day at work dealing with my boss and my hormones acting up got the best of me the other day. I already had a guy coming over from LPSG (that was set up before the social distancing started). When I got home and started to get ready, I logged into Grindr and received a lot of messages. There were a lot of social hungry guys out there, most of the messages were just chatting. But I did have some guys that were wanting to come over and get off. In the end, I met the guy from LPSG and 2 of the guys from Grindr.
 

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Chatting right now but not making solid plans. It all depends on how much together time with my husband I can deal with. Being in close quarters 24 hours a day for days on end doesn’t work well for us.
I totally understand about being in close quarters doesn't always work in a relationship. My partner and I have been together for 10 years. We lived together for 3 years and it was the absolute worse 3 years. Constant fighting. He moved out and got his own place. That was 6 years ago and we get along perfectly. We spend the night with each other 3 or 4 nights a week, we also work at the same place, so we see each other at work. But a few nights a week, we get to spend our own time in our own places. I know it would be World War 3 if we were stuck in the same house 24/7.
 

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I totally understand about being in close quarters doesn't always work in a relationship. My partner and I have been together for 10 years. We lived together for 3 years and it was the absolute worse 3 years. Constant fighting. He moved out and got his own place. That was 6 years ago and we get along perfectly. We spend the night with each other 3 or 4 nights a week, we also work at the same place, so we see each other at work. But a few nights a week, we get to spend our own time in our own places. I know it would be World War 3 if we were stuck in the same house 24/7.


I work from home, so I have a good 8 or 9 hours a day by myself. I have my own routine and it's been badly disrupted. I know that it is what it is and there really isn't anything we can do about it for the time being. When I've had too much I just retreat to our bedroom with my iPad. Then I can read or look at porn in peace :)
 

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I work from home, so I have a good 8 or 9 hours a day by myself. I have my own routine and it's been badly disrupted. I know that it is what it is and there really isn't anything we can do about it for the time being. When I've had too much I just retreat to our bedroom with my iPad. Then I can read or look at porn in peace :)
I'm in Illinois and starting tomorrow we are being ordered to "shelter in place". I'm going to brave it and spend the time at his house. I will run home first and get some stuff to keep me occupied (laptop, books and my legos). It will be trying, but I will spend my time with him and see how it goes.
 

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Guys need sex so when one of my mates wants a fuck do I say no?
Guess they are taking care so its something that will probably happen but without kissing, just don't think I'll last without some hard meat to play with making sweet spunk.
Toys and my right hand are no substitute
 

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Guys need sex so when one of my mates wants a fuck do I say no?
Guess they are taking care so its something that will probably happen but without kissing, just don't think I'll last without some hard meat to play with making sweet spunk.
Toys and my right hand are no substitute

Wow. Can't even conceive of exercising sexual self-control enough to save lives? That's really sad.
 
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I’ve got the perfect solution guys, I don’t know why everyone is panicking. Have sex in the shower! You’re actively cleaning yourself while having sex, win win :joy:

Such a ridiculous suggestion would be funny if it were not for people refusing to abstain from hooking up with strangers / acquaintances, and likely contributing to the spread of the virus.
 
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The aids epidemic didn’t stop the gay men from barebacking in the late 80s/early 90s. Back in the day, contracting HIV was pretty much a death sentence. So Corona-virus isn’t sure as hell going to stop or deter gay men from hooking up.
 
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Wow. Can't even conceive of exercising sexual self-control enough to save lives? That's really sad.
I remember the heady silly days in SF when health and lives were the least consideration and consequently lost a num,ber of good friends.
I didntr say I would troll, cruise or go out looking but oblige well known mates if they wanted to "f.
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I didntr say I would troll, cruise or go out looking but oblige well known mates if they wanted to "f.
say

That consideration might be somewhat relevant for venereal diseases, but it isn't particularly for a virus that doesn't even require direct contact to spread.