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Yeah, sorry for the aggreessive nature of that post, I regretted it after I did it, but molestation makes me very angry. I am glad we don't cater to those dickless bastards on here and everyone seems to be in agreement about NAMBLA. I truly do wish there was a way to weed them out and destroy them but I know the problem is a lot more pervasive than we can imagine. One of those horrible things in life that makes me feel guilty for belonging to the human race.
From a strictly legal perspective, which is what everyone seems to be driving at here, it is wrong, but I neither think it wrong, nor should it be a crime, since I was just 11 yrs old myself when I started having sex with both sexes, and knew very much what I was doing and did not mind it at all when much older women or men would seduce me and have sex with me thru-out my adolescent years, because I knew I wanted it too, and it was a great learning experience sexually speaking.
Oops, pressed "send" before I finished my train of thought there ... I just wanted to add that these laws are probably out there for those creeps who prey on the young and innocent from a lascivious or sick perspective, and do it only with minors and on a constant basis ... but should an occasional accidental romp in the hay with someone who happened to lie about their age and was more than willing to participate, constitute a crime ? I think not ... ok, off my soap-box.
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What is an accidental romp in the hay?
You mentioned that you had sex at 11. At age 11, I only sort of knew what sex was, I had just started masturbating, but I was FAR too immature to be having any kind of intimate physical relationship with anyone. I lost my virginity at 19 and I wish that I had waited longer. Call me a prude or a goody two shoes, but 11 is a child and anyone sleeping with an 11 year old is a molester in my book.
Tender: 11 isnt even old enough for the majority of people to have hit puberty, let alone have sex. especially boys--as they are usually slower at developing...
im not sure really that even a handful of 11 yr olds on the earth could lie about their age and fool anyone.
So, no offense meant, but i would have seriously had to wonder what was going on with an 11 year to be so sexually active with numerous people. just seems REALLY not right to me.
but i think at least for me, my point in this thread had nothing to do with 11 year olds, or child molesting ect which is clearly wrong.
I was more generally speaking of the 15ish to 18 age range of girls sleeping willingly with a boyfriend. Yeah its illegal. I think sex should only be in marriage, but besides that-- i think the cops surely have better criminals to spend their time on than 19 or 20 yr old boyfriends sleeping with 15 or 16 yr old girls.
i was 17 when SB and I met, and hes 6 full years older than me.
it depends on the maturity of both. Like was mentioned before some 30 yr olds arent responsible enough for sex lol!
And I also think that parents are too quick sometimes to jump the gun so to speak in these situations. I dont think they realize the long term trouble their hasty calls can cause. Not to mention the relationship between their daughters and them. I'm sure many girls narry speak to their parents again lol. I know that has been the case for me to a degree. (long story.....) Point is, its only a few years until those girls ARE able to be out from under mom and daddy, and they leave to do what they want. But, the relationship between their parents has been broken by then so that the torubles for her end up even worse and their parents then have lost their voice.
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im not sure really that even a handful of 11 yr olds on the earth could lie about their age and fool anyone.
So, no offense meant, but i would have seriously had to wonder what was going on with an 11 year to be so sexually active with numerous people. just seems REALLY not right to me.
but i think at least for me, my point in this thread had nothing to do with 11 year olds, or child molesting ect which is clearly wrong.
I was more generally speaking of the 15ish to 18 age range of girls sleeping willingly with a boyfriend. Yeah its illegal. I think sex should only be in marriage, but besides that-- i think the cops surely have better criminals to spend their time on than 19 or 20 yr old boyfriends sleeping with 15 or 16 yr old girls.
i was 17 when SB and I met, and hes 6 full years older than me.
it depends on the maturity of both. Like was mentioned before some 30 yr olds arent responsible enough for sex lol!
And I also think that parents are too quick sometimes to jump the gun so to speak in these situations. I dont think they realize the long term trouble their hasty calls can cause. Not to mention the relationship between their daughters and them. I'm sure many girls narry speak to their parents again lol. I know that has been the case for me to a degree. (long story.....) Point is, its only a few years until those girls ARE able to be out from under mom and daddy, and they leave to do what they want. But, the relationship between their parents has been broken by then so that the torubles for her end up even worse and their parents then have lost their voice.
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