sums it up for me too.
I'm curious to know why you're on the fence about it submissivegirl? Is it the potential pain element, as it is for me, or another factor?
Hmmm, being a bit of a voyeur and actually participating in something like this kind of overlap in my mind. Watching it is a huge turn on for me, maybe one of my most favorite types of fetish porn to watch.
It doesn't look painful when I watch, because they seem to be incrediably turned on by it. I in turn, am turned on by the site of large insertions. I'm not sure why, it's just something that I like to see.
I'm not going to go into the specific size I'm comfortable with, just that I'm no where near comfortable with trying it. Not now, if I met someone that I felt inclined to do so with I would probably try it. Being able to completely trust someone enough to try it is the real hard part.
Honestly I would be more afraid of trying anal sex and it being painful than I would fisting.