We tried and tried, but could not fit his fist in, even when I was pregnant and my vagina was super stretchy and he actually fit! I do not think fisting is ever going to happen with me.
On the other hand, I'm excellent at pompoir. I even have a thread here about it. :biggrin1:
Can someone explain to me the attraction to fisting to me? I've never had the desire to punch a woman in the vagina but I might be open to it if I understood the desire behind it.
Punching? Really? I haven't been seeing that in the fisting videos I've enjoyed.
For a lot of people fisting takes a long time. It's a slow sensual process. For the person doing the fisting part, I think the pleasure comes from seeing her take something so large, which turns some men on. Some women report intense orgasms. Some women just want to experience what it's like. And that kind of thing is supposedly good preparation for labor to help prevent tearing, as long as it's done safely, of course - clean short nails or gloves, safe lubricants, etc.
I thought that maybe it would help with labor. They actually sell these rubber balloon-like devices for stretching the vagina in preparation for labor and we read all about how to do the vaginal massaging. No matter how much we massaged and stretched, it just wasn't happening.
For a lot of people fisting takes a long time. It's a slow sensual process. For the person doing the fisting part, I think the pleasure comes from seeing her take something so large, which turns some men on. Some women report intense orgasms. Some women just want to experience what it's like. And that kind of thing is supposedly good preparation for labor to help prevent tearing, as long as it's done safely, of course - clean short nails or gloves, safe lubricants, etc.
I thought that maybe it would help with labor. They actually sell these rubber balloon-like devices for stretching the vagina in preparation for labor and we read all about how to do the vaginal massaging. No matter how much we massaged and stretched, it just wasn't happening.
illuminate the subject for yoWell color me fisted!! I hadn't the foggiest!!
I've also never had a partner request this but I'm still a youngin'. Plenty of time to be surprised.
I've met only one woman who thrived on rough fisting. She had a very large vagina, and demanded vigour. She actually asked to be punch fucked. It did wonders for her response.
All of the others wanted sensual touch and patience getting there. Pain was the last thing they desired.
+1
I never got so wet and turned on as when we tried though. We should do this again just for that very fact.
illuminate the subject for yo
Well I'm glad that I could help. :smile:
Yowza! You just made me cringe! That's just wild!
I'm not into pain. Really, things would be a lot easier if I were...
LOL, you are such a horndog right now, I love it! I hope I'm going to be like that in January. :biggrin1:
Yowza! You just made me cringe! That's just wild!
I'm not into pain. Really, things would be a lot easier if I were...
After the other night of painful penetration.....I can't wait until next year also....post hyst recovery with estrogen supplements again....I hope to be back to a normal vag soon enough. We can celebrate with cosmopolitans at the local bistro!
I was not into making pain happen, either. I was reasonably sure that she was getting off, based on her acute responses, but I suspect it was not at the threshold she preferred for intensity. I've never felt a slippery, bulbous cervix sliding against the hollow of my thumb and curled forefinger before or since. It was a learning experience, for sure. She told me that she loved it.
I've had the pleasure of fisting three women in my life. All took it slowly, bit by bit, (one woman took three different "dates" to get there), and all shuddered and shooked like I've never seen! It was quite a turn-on for me, too. As they came, I just briefly touched myself and I came like a torrent, all over the sheets ))
*runs off to measure hand*
hmm, with my thumb tucked into the palm of my hand...
measured around the widest part..
with a bit of compression, comparable to resistance of lady parts stretching..
my hand is just over 6".
is a gift :wink: