Anyone know how to ejaculate faster?

[nice_guy_here]

I've also had this problem before. My only advice would be DON'T masterbate till you see her. Let the tension build up inside you. I gurantee, if you hold back for a couple of days, you'll be ready to go off if she just unzips you ... well maybe not, but it will make you more sensitive and ready to pop. This worked for me anyway.

 

[B_blackrabbit]

try getting her to stimulate the bit bellow the balls but above the ass.....does it for me every time!

 

[blackmamba2001]

you supose to be happy about that. be happy you dont ejaculate in 3 min

 

[PhillyPrick]

you either masturbate too much or have death grip syndrome. Either way if you want to cum faster you should cut back on the masturbating.

 

[Showerbag]

deathgrip syndrome lol. I like that, and think thats it actually. i think work more on not having a deathgrip first and then get to the point it doesnt have to be super fast as well. practice make perfect? lol. thanks guys still got 3 weeks till i see her and yes i will not be masturbating a few days prior. till then ill work on it.

 

[D_Benjammin Franklin]

Wow, I have the exact opposite problem! And I'm also uncut. Don't get me wrong, I usually last long enough... but sometimes I cum too quick. I guess the grass isn't always greener

 

[thick75]

This might be a retarded ejaculation problem. I have been fighting this and I think I may have found the answer.

I am able to keep an erection for hours if I want to. But I was not getting an orgasm or ejaculation. There are many possible causes according to the literature. So I will not go into all of that here. But let me tell you about a discovery I just made.

I have been able to get great urges to cum, but I could not get myself to the point of no return. It felt good but it did not give me the release I needed. I could go for hours feeling good, but not enough.

So I just tried something different. AND IT WORKED! When I masturbate I use a fleshlight. Great device. But still had problems. Occasionally orgasmed, but most times I could go for hours and not cum. So I used a combination of a Hitachi massager on the base of my penis and stroked with the fleshlight. I got myself near the PNR (point of no return) and held back. Then I continued again (just like edging).

THEN I STOPPED FOR ABOUT 15 minutes. WITHOUT using my Hitachi I stroked myself and got near to PNR and stopped. I stopped again for a longer time interval and found i could restart, without any assistance from my massager and go to the PNR within a couple of minutes. I then went all the way and had a mind blowing orgasm.

NOW WHAT DOES THIS MEAN TO ME? I think that if you can figure out a way to get yourself up near the PNR a couple of times, you have conditioned yourself to do some serious fucking with no external help (other than the worman) you have overcome the problem. So for me the key is to create the sexual tension and resulting emission to set the stage for orgasms when you are ready.

Of course you may be saying.. what do I have to do to get near the PNR? Well that is an individual thing. Many options. But once you get there you can then start screwing and cum whenever you are ready. You are in control.

BTW: one of the most common problems with not being able to cum is if you are so concerned about pleasing your partner that it affects you. It seems to be all mental issues, and fortunately not a physical problem. So go work on this.

 

[D_Passmoore Fearsomgas]

usually people want to tak longer... and you want it to be quicker???

 

[D_CountdeGrandePinja]

try wearing a leather cock ring!