Wife and I started out she used her vibrator on me once and found out I liked it then we went up and bought a strapon used it a few time which was hot to me and really turned me on then she decided she didn't like it and shut me off it thats when I started to fool with guys and found it even hotter for me tryed to tell her I"m bi but she won't have anything to do with it now I have maybe ed cause just can't keep it up without one of those collars around it now using a dildo on her just wish she would use one on me and looking into hooking up with a man again just can't find the right ones I get turned on by doing people male or female and getting them off then I do myself in which I do get hard from it and cum....