anyone told their wive or gf that they are bi

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Wife and I started out she used her vibrator on me once and found out I liked it then we went up and bought a strapon used it a few time which was hot to me and really turned me on then she decided she didn't like it and shut me off it thats when I started to fool with guys and found it even hotter for me tryed to tell her I"m bi but she won't have anything to do with it now I have maybe ed cause just can't keep it up without one of those collars around it now using a dildo on her just wish she would use one on me and looking into hooking up with a man again just can't find the right ones I get turned on by doing people male or female and getting them off then I do myself in which I do get hard from it and cum....
 
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Told my girlfriend pretty early on. There was a bit of unease, but as I explained to her what it was like and I was open to her about it, she was fine with it. She asked me questions and I answered them. She even said that if I ever felt I needed to explore with a guy, I should let her know first and she'd be okay with it.

To be honest, I don't really want to be with someone who isn't okay with it, and who wasn't willing to reevaluate their biases against bisexuality. Otherwise, they're not someone who is really worth my time and energy.
 
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Well she knows i checks websites, and knows i had conversation with both sex's male and females.
 
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I told my current girlfriend last week. She was surprised but we want to get more serious so it was time for her to know about my same sex experiences. She's been understanding about it so far but it's not something we're talking a lot either. Mostly because I have no desire for any men at the moment.
 

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My partner is full aware of my bi status and is very happy for my to play away with guys but prefers watching as she's kinky that way. Surprisingly though she's still never seen me fuck a guy! I've actually fucked a guy that was fucking her at the same time, but she couldn't see it!
 

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I told her pretty soon, when we were just fuck-buddies. She told me she had enjoyed same sex experiences too, but didn't consider herself bi. When our relstionship started to get more serious she said she wantwd exlusivity, and that includes no sex with other girls or guys, I agreed. But my sexuality is not a taboo at home and recently we had a mfm bi threesome, lots of fun.
 

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My partner (female) and I are both homosexual to differing degrees. Me more than her. It's no secret.

And when we go with other couples. There are a lot more people who have homosexual tendencies than you realize.
 

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My wife confronted me about me being bi. During a hot sex session and hot enough to just get it out in the open. I did not deny it and she said she knew it all along. She said the give away was as we watched porn she always felt me get harder when a nice cock was on... That's true, can't deny it. But busted for sure. Told me that she knew it all along but didn't want to embarrass me. In the heat of this moment I told her about all my bi times when I was younger before we were married. She is not crazy about it but then on the other hand, she teases me about it. When we see a nice cock on a video, she asks me if I would suck it? She continues that type of talk and I have to say, I do cum good and she knows it. But she wins too because I get so hard and hot that I could eat her and fuck her all night... Both seem to be happy where we are at. Been married 51 years and still going well.