Anyone use a diaphragm?

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My wife used one when we first met. I could feel the ring with my glans when we fucked. True story- I punctured two of her diaphragms. Eventually she gave them up and went on the pill.
 

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A hung friend of mine ( who hated condoms) got his wife to fit a diaphragm. He was so long that he dislodged it every time they fucked ( which was every day) so in the end she just got sterilized .
 

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My wife tried one once or twice when we were dating. She didn't like it, and it did require some work beforehand. I could feel it, like I was hitting something hard, and she felt the whole thing was uncomfortable.

For my part, I was surprised at how big it was. I'd assumed it would be a small latex cap about the size of a coat button. In reality it was about the size of a lid from an 8 oz. size mason jar.
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I have in the past had several girlfriends that used a diaphragm and they are easy to use you need to put spermicide in them and I guess the guy could do it just I never have! You really do not feel it during sex!!
That's my experience. We used it during the time we calculated her to be fertile plus a day or so on either side, and didn't get pregnant. I could feel it inside her with my fingers but was never aware of it with my cock.

When my wife put it in, she always felt around inside her to make sure it was correctly placed, so I don't know if a guy could do it effectively.
 
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Has anybody haf any experience of what happens if a woman squirts with it in? That’s my main worry about getting my wife to try it. Do t think they’re big here in the UK either
 

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My ex- used one. I couldn't feel it during sex; I suppose if I had felt around with my fingers I could have felt it. It can't be that hard to fit, after the doctor's initial fit,the woman installs it before each act of sex. Only slight turnoff for me was that she had to get up right as we were getting hot and put it and the spermicide jelly in. I'm also not sure if the spermicide is good only for one ejaculation; we'd fuck three or four times before she took it out and "re-oiled". My sperm were very "motile," so maybe she was supposed to re-apply each time. I dunno.But I can tell you that, for us, it was 100% effective. (When she'd get really paranoid, I'd wear a condom, too.)
 
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Lost my virginity to a gal who used a diaphragm. Never felt it then or any other times. I never helped put it in though - she'd go to the bathroom to take care of that herself.

My fondest memory of diaphragms, however, was working at a pharmacy in high school. The pharmacist was a real joker and fun guy - one day he had a collection of different size diaphragms ("floor models" as such) he was disposing of. The store was empty and he tossed one across the room frisbee style - then the next, then the next, until we had at least a half dozen diaphragms flying around.

Lots of fun memories from that job. Another was that we had an assortment of porn magazines for sale - the owner kept them behind the pharmacy counter, but when things were slow my friends who worked there and I would borrow them and flip through them behind the checkout counter where we worked. Fortunately it was a high counter that concealed the obvious excitement in my pants...