A few women have told me how much they liked my cock...but my wife has never said that. It makes me think that there are some women who just don't like cocks. And judging from the relationship between their appreciation of my dick and their joy of sex, it seems that those who have liked it just seem to like sex in general. I guess if you don't drive, a sports car has no interest for you...
Maybe, or maybe they were like me when I was younger. I've grown in my appreciation of cocks as something to admire looking at, but I've always loved sex. Before, I just liked how they felt! To me, looking at a penis was like looking at creme brulee, or poached eggs, or a casserole, or chicken curry. Who cares what it looks like? I care about how it tastes in my mouth! Lots of food isn't interesting to look at, but looking at it involves the wrong sense. I really don't care how appealing it looks to my eyes if it tastes amazing on my tongue.
Same with cocks. I didn't care to look at them, but I loved them in my vagina, which was the right way to judge sex with a man IMO, but only one of the factors involved.
The more I've enjoyed visual porn, rather than erotica which I preferred for over a decade, the more I've appreciated looking at a man's package, and now I like looking at cocks, but that didn't happen overnight for me.