Hi, I'm obviously not an innocent person (done things I'm not proud of). Also, being I'm a quasi-member on this site, to most of the world I'm probably kind of a pervert. So I'm not trying to be holier than thou, but are there any members here with character, or morals? There are a few reasons I ask: 1) A lot of members talk about random hookups with hoeish women (come on, while it is a turn-on to read about women who are enthusiastic about our dicks, these women are pretty much hoes). 2) A lot of members hook up with these hoeish women while drunk, or meet them in a bar. Now, this worries me because I would like to think that when I get married, the woman I marry will not be the type to slink away with another man because he happens to be bigger than me (I don't care how big you are, there's always someone bigger, so don't give me that bullshit). Yet, as I read these anecdotes, that's exactly what seems to be happening (assuming these stories are true, which some probably are). So I guess what I'm saying is, it seems like great fun to talk about different encounters and 'noches de pasion' with strange women, but this behavior seems to be anathema to a healthy, one might say, Godly relationship. Now, I'm inexperienced in the marriage realm, so hopefully, those of you who are married can provide some insight. I'm just a guy who wants to make ONE women very happy one day, preferably a woman who has high enough morals and self-restraint not to sleep around with other men. My question is, "How can you safeguard against a woman cheating on you with some dumb idiot who happens to catch her fancy one day?" I'm thinking date and marry church-going people only. That's all I've got. I haven't really come up with any other solutions yet.