I consider myself average in terms of appearance. That I'm not a guy who stands out on either end of the spectrum. The thing is, I'm very confident in my personality, but can't get over my insecurities over my appearance. I feel like I'm gonna be with a girl I'm not attracted to in a long term relationship (which would be unfair to both of us) because I feel I'm not good enough for other people. But I am curious, how much does a guys appearance sway women? Does a confident, funny guy who has an average appearance have a better chance than a good looking boring guy? What about a guy who you would rate with a 6 or a 7 out of 10 on looks, but 9 or 10 personality, in comparison to a guy who rates a 6 or 7 with personality but a 9 or 10 with looks? I'm asking here because women on this site are very straightforward, honest, blunt, and usually smart.