There have been many posts that ask: "If you had to choose between a gut with a big vs. blah blah blah". My question is not about choosing between two guys, but rather two versions of the same guy, literally. I have been thinking about trying either exercises or a device for penis enlargement. Right now I am above average in both areas, especially girth. One fear is that doing PE will make my dick longer, but I'll lose girth. Another is that my penis will get larger in both dimensions, but will take on an ugly appearance from all the tugging and devices. The biggest concern is that I'll end up being too big for my soulmate, and my original size was perfect. I'd be devastated if PE ruined my penis. I don't know if it even would, but am afraid I'd be the one statistic. But back to my second fear (ruining it's appearance), and original question. Would you choose John Smith with an average/above average penis size that is very beautiful to look at, or John Smith with a larger one that has an ugly appearance to it? I don't mean grossly hideous or deformed, just markedly ugly and lacking personality.:wink: I'm just using John Smith as a generic name, apologies if that's a real person on this site. And yes, I do mean the exact same person before and after doing some form of Penis Enhancement. This is posted in the women's thread for obvious reasons, but I would like to hear responses from anyone attracted to men.