Here is the issue. Normally, when my penis is soft, it is very soft and small. I am even embarrassed at the gym or even in a tight swim suit. There is really no bulge and in the shower it really looks shriveled up. However, when I get a little stimulated, I look pretty normal and would not be shy about walking around with it hanging like that. Is there any trick to having a non-shriveled looking cock when you are not sexually excited?